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Max the Disenchanter
December 2nd, 2017, 12:24 AM
what's it like to be the gay kid in a conservative family?

Dalcourt
December 2nd, 2017, 04:23 AM
I guess this would be completely different for every gay kid in every conservative family.

mick01
December 2nd, 2017, 09:35 AM
I think it would suck to be a gay kid in a non-supportive family. As I've seen and said on here before, if parents aren't going to love their child unconditionally, then don't have kids.

Jinglebottom
December 2nd, 2017, 11:57 AM
Nothing special. I just avoid the topic of dating with my parents and don't turn to them for any kind of help or advice. And if I ever get married, they're not invited.

ImJulia
December 2nd, 2017, 08:44 PM
It would be different for everyone.

jamie_n5
December 3rd, 2017, 09:09 PM
I was in that situation. My parents totally flipped when I came out as gay. But with time and gained knowledge my family became accepting and understanding of me as who I am. Tell them and give them time and space to accept.

Just JT
December 3rd, 2017, 09:41 PM
Think that would suck. I’d feel like I was living someone else’s life. Cause it wouldn’t be mine unless I was allowed to be who I am

SeansLittleBro
December 4th, 2017, 03:03 PM
I'm fortunate to have very supportive parents ....they know that I will live my life for ME and not for their expectations...I can't imagine living in any other situation as many gays/lesbians do and have to hide themselves...and that also is something that leads to depression and other more serious considerations...