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Leena_2003
December 1st, 2017, 05:46 PM
I enjoy the sexual side of my puberty phase, and I guess because of that I almost always feel sexual, and I masturbate once on most days, usually before I go to sleep. It's not often that I skip a day. The longest I can remember not doing it is 4 days in a row. Just curious to know from other girls how long you can hold out in between masturbating, and if it is a long time, why?

LITTLEANGEL19
December 1st, 2017, 10:59 PM
Hi Leena I usually masturbate three times a day and I have done it for quite some time now, I like doing it with some of my BFFs and we have enjoyed it for about 5 years now.
I think I without two days at most.

ImJulia
December 1st, 2017, 11:49 PM
I have not been doing it for long but I have pretty much done it every day since I started

Candy2003
December 2nd, 2017, 12:09 AM
I don't wait very long I do it everyday I've tried to skip a day and it don't feel right

Fiona2
December 2nd, 2017, 01:11 AM
I have rarely missed a night since I started.

Becca029
December 2nd, 2017, 03:49 AM
i normally will do it 1/2 times a day sometimes depending on how heavy me period is i don't

TessTheGreat
December 2nd, 2017, 05:55 AM
I don't know if I'm normal because I do it less than everyone who has posted. Like 1 or 2 times a week usually.

Aussiebabe
December 2nd, 2017, 09:06 AM
For me a big time gap would be once a day but my average is about 4 times a day. Yes, I am a very sexual person you could say. ;)

ImJulia
December 2nd, 2017, 09:28 AM
I don't know if I'm normal because I do it less than everyone who has posted. Like 1 or 2 times a week usually.

You're not abnormal everyone is different :)

ChloeF
December 2nd, 2017, 11:33 AM
l dont remember the last time l would have gone more than a day without masturbating at least once.

Sina-B
December 2nd, 2017, 12:33 PM
I don't know if I'm normal because I do it less than everyone who has posted. Like 1 or 2 times a week usually.

If you like it 1 or 2 times per week then that is so and completely normal.

My longest break without masturbating were 3 days.

Brigje
December 2nd, 2017, 01:56 PM
l dont remember the last time l would have gone more than a day without masturbating at least once.

The same for me, at least always in bed before I go to sleep.

Brigje
December 2nd, 2017, 01:59 PM
I don't know if I'm normal because I do it less than everyone who has posted. Like 1 or 2 times a week usually.

When you feel happy and satisfied with it, it is normal for you.
Don't feel pressured or awkward because others do it more often.

amelia_
December 2nd, 2017, 02:16 PM
I do it every day.

Nikki_1
December 2nd, 2017, 02:47 PM
The only time i don't do it is when I'm on my period. Usually once a day but i guess it depends on my mood at the time :)

Alexis16
December 2nd, 2017, 03:34 PM
I do it every day too. If I go more than a day without I go crazy lol

Bluegrass
December 2nd, 2017, 05:06 PM
1-3 times a day.Only being very tired or sick or just had my time occupied with other people will stop my chances.

Miss Ophelia
December 2nd, 2017, 06:42 PM
Pretty much every day unless I am ill.

sophielicious
December 2nd, 2017, 07:33 PM
Usually in the morning when I wake and at night before I sleep

ImJulia
December 2nd, 2017, 08:40 PM
I do it everyday

stoneflowe96
December 3rd, 2017, 04:50 AM
Usually in the morning when I wake and at night before I sleep

If I have time I do this. The longest time with out mssturbation was a week

TessTheGreat
December 3rd, 2017, 09:47 AM
Usually in the morning when I wake and at night before I sleep

I don't normally have time in the morning but I like doing it before sleeping.

ImJulia
December 3rd, 2017, 10:20 AM
I do not think I have missed a day since I started over the summer lol.

Suzy18
December 3rd, 2017, 01:55 PM
I almost do it every day if I have the opportunity.

LilLena
December 3rd, 2017, 05:14 PM
i do it maybe 3-4 times a week

Beccabear
December 4th, 2017, 12:13 AM
I do mostly at night, usually a few times a week but it’s been more lately. Longest I went since starting was a week, I was on vacation with my dad and stepbrother sharing a hotel room, no privacy

BlackParadePixie
December 4th, 2017, 01:57 AM
I'm usually a once or twice a day kind of person, but obviously some days you just get too busy or whatever. I start to get cranky/frustrated after 3 or 4 days of nothing happening.

becca07
December 4th, 2017, 11:37 AM
If I have lots of time and privacy, once a day is ideal for being satisfied and keeping my down belows in check. If nothing has happened down there in that department by day 3+ I really begin to notice and it begins to nag me. Longest i've gone is 1 week +ish during volleyball tournaments or fam vacation; lets just say I get grumpy towards the end.

HighStandards
December 4th, 2017, 04:05 PM
The longest that I've went is a month. Masturbation causes a ton of guilt for me, so I try my best to avoid it at all costs.

lanna_banana
December 4th, 2017, 04:48 PM
i guess my answer is "it depends"

sometimes hours sometimes days or weeks. moods, cycle, privacy all sort of play into it.

Maddy_17
December 4th, 2017, 06:53 PM
I do it every day too. If I go more than a day without I go crazy lol

Same for me!

Leena_2003
December 5th, 2017, 08:06 AM
The longest that I've went is a month. Masturbation causes a ton of guilt for me, so I try my best to avoid it at all costs.

I am curious to know why you feel guilty about it.

prtygurl
December 5th, 2017, 09:19 AM
The longest that I've went is a month. Masturbation causes a ton of guilt for me, so I try my best to avoid it at all costs.Aww. That is so sad.

Lillynet
December 5th, 2017, 12:05 PM
well the longest i was be away from masturbation was be 4 months because of work and family things that kept me busy all day and when i was be at home i was be really exhausted that i only wanted is to sleep

HighStandards
December 5th, 2017, 03:07 PM
I am curious to know why you feel guilty about it.

Long story that I don't wanna mention

Emm6969
December 7th, 2017, 03:39 AM
Longest for me was a week. I went overboard when i could finally masturbate again, spent most of the day in my bed lol

katie3
December 8th, 2017, 08:00 AM
I usually do it once or twice a day and if I skip a day I'll pretty just think about that the whole day after until I do it.

Leslie2000
December 9th, 2017, 05:59 PM
I masturbate twice a day with a little vibrator that my older friend got for me. Once right after school, once at night. The only time I skip a day is if I’m sick.

feli 99
December 10th, 2017, 01:38 PM
I usually do it every day

ImJulia
December 10th, 2017, 07:59 PM
Good to see I am not the only one who does it lol.

ImJulia
December 21st, 2017, 07:27 PM
I am going to try to see how many times i can do it this weekend.

LITTLEANGEL19
December 22nd, 2017, 09:02 AM
I am going to try to see how many times i can do it this weekend.
Julia just be careful however you masturbate, (DO NOT POST YOUR METHOD) You have nothing to prove to anyone how many times you do it over the weekend, You do NOT want to hurt yourself so just be careful.

ImJulia
December 22nd, 2017, 09:37 AM
I will be careful

NudistFun
December 22nd, 2017, 10:02 AM
Every day usually, sometimes multiple times a day. The longest I went was a month as a dare. That was rough!! Though I'd much prefer actual sex, of course

JasFisher
December 29th, 2017, 12:06 AM
I try to get off at least once a day but it's hard being a nurse and doing shift work lol.

andrea03
December 29th, 2017, 07:33 PM
a month

Kacieboo2003
December 29th, 2017, 09:17 PM
I usually masturbate every night before bed. Can't really help myself if I'm in the mood

Maddy_17
December 30th, 2017, 12:23 AM
I try to get off at least once a day but it's hard being a nurse and doing shift work lol.

Do you ever get the feeling that you need to get off at work?

JasFisher
December 30th, 2017, 12:40 AM
Do you ever get the feeling that you need to get off at work?


Yes, but I wait till I get home...

Maddy_17
December 30th, 2017, 02:11 AM
Yes, but I wait till I get home...

I want to get off at school all the time now. Thank goodness for the locker rooms/showers. Sometimes high hormones is a bad thing.

JasFisher
December 30th, 2017, 05:36 AM
I want to get off at school all the time now. Thank goodness for the locker rooms/showers. Sometimes high hormones is a bad thing.

Cool

Caycedilla
December 30th, 2017, 11:11 AM
Since I’ve atatted I think the longest I’ve ever gone without doing it is about a week, but only because I was sick. Some people tell me it helps but it only felt worse so I won’t do it again.

Beach_Blonde
December 31st, 2017, 05:01 PM
Ive had to go about 2 weeks before... it literally was driving me nuts. I spent the next 24 hours locked in my room.
At the moment i dont think i can go more then 2 days

ceto2
January 2nd, 2018, 04:25 PM
I do it 2times a day

StacyD
January 3rd, 2018, 05:28 PM
Even though I have sex often, I still masturbate frequently. Like a lot. Like a lot a lot. Lol. I too am extremely sexual. Can't imagine going without it.

sweetiekate
January 9th, 2018, 08:31 PM
I don't see any reason to not do it or wait between times. Now that I get my period that is the only time I don't. But other than that the only time is if it would be inappropriate -like on a vacation with the family or something.

LexiBear
January 17th, 2018, 09:34 PM
I'm still trying to find the best method for me so I only do it once or twice a week when I'm home alone before my siblings get home from school because I share a room with my youngest sisters I'm not able to do it before bed because I make too much noise and wake her up

Hayleyyy
January 19th, 2018, 07:41 PM
I had to go 2 1/2 weeks while on vacation, it was very tough and I couldn't stop thinking about it. I usually do it at least once a day, but sometimes I'll hold off for a few so the next one is memorable

HardCandyGirl
January 20th, 2018, 12:36 AM
I do it everyday, but I remember I stopped for... almost a month, but I couldn't bare it more. The good thing was that next time, after that long time waiting, was awesome. Don't you do that, just waiting because the more you wait the best you feel next time?

Brigje
January 20th, 2018, 05:47 AM
I do it everyday, but I remember I stopped for... almost a month, but I couldn't bare it more. The good thing was that next time, after that long time waiting, was awesome. Don't you do that, just waiting because the more you wait the best you feel next time?

I have tried to abstain, but I couldn't for longer than a few days.

haileys
January 21st, 2018, 07:48 AM
For me a big time gap would be once a day but my average is about 4 times a day. Yes, I am a very sexual person you could say. ;)

This is about where I'm at right now. I used to just do once a day but I feel like lately my drive has been through the roof. The longest I went without was like a week and a half and it was driving me INSANE haha

HardCandyGirl
January 21st, 2018, 12:56 PM
When I stopped for a month it was because a religion matter, then I regreted, that was driving me crazy. I never was that horny, It was great getting back to business,:D best orgasm ever

natsumi
January 25th, 2018, 10:25 AM
I do it before I sleep

Anniebanannie
January 25th, 2018, 07:24 PM
When I stopped for a month it was because a religion matter, then I regreted, that was driving me crazy. I never was that horny, It was great getting back to business,:D best orgasm ever

Hi. Do you mind saying what the religion matter was?

HardCandyGirl
January 25th, 2018, 08:36 PM
Hi. Do you mind saying what the religion matter was?

Well... in that time I used to go to a christian church and they told me masturbation was wrong and for things like that Hell was waiting for me :devil:

I tried, I swear :D but I couldn't. So... But even if it was hard to wait, it worth it, just because then it came a really big O. ;)

Willow Nudist Girl
January 25th, 2018, 09:36 PM
Longest I've gone is definitely less than a week. Lol after the first time there's just no stopping!

Uniquemind
January 26th, 2018, 05:08 AM
Well... in that time I used to go to a christian church and they told me masturbation was wrong and for things like that Hell was waiting for me :devil:

I tried, I swear :D but I couldn't. So... But even if it was hard to wait, it worth it, just because then it came a really big O. ;)

You know that the original Hebrew and Greek scriptures aren't supposed to be interpreted as anti-masturation, and that interpretation came about with English translations right?

Same thing with the whole "thinking with lust" = sin. What Jesus was saying was you are in-danger of committed the sin of fornication or adultery if you look upon...but not that you've committed the sin YET.

And again masturbation later was only equated with sin because of the mental lust involved.

So forgive yourself of that guilt girl, them fathers and pastors are blind to the old languages or they are deliberately not teaching them correctly.



----

My urges have been every 2 days or so, but I'm on a serious downward trend and I don't know why. Maybe I'm entering a depression, or should see a doctor.

Leena_2003
January 26th, 2018, 05:50 AM
Well... in that time I used to go to a christian church and they told me masturbation was wrong and for things like that Hell was waiting for me :devil:

I tried, I swear :D but I couldn't. So... But even if it was hard to wait, it worth it, just because then it came a really big O. ;)

I am not religious, and to me it is part of our nature and I don't understand why any religion teaches that it is wrong to do it. I hope you don't think the devil is waiting for you now.

Caycedilla
January 31st, 2018, 08:17 AM
I don’t do it every single day but since I’ve started I don’t think I’ve gone more than four days without it

becca07
January 31st, 2018, 11:54 AM
I don’t do it every single day but since I’ve started I don’t think I’ve gone more than four days without it

I am the same way now...usually after 3 days i need to do it. When i first started i was doing it like everyday, sometimes a couple times a day....

PrincessCassie
February 19th, 2018, 07:51 AM
I do it almost every day. I don't think I've gone more than like 2 days without doing it

gymgurl
April 10th, 2018, 12:23 PM
I try and do it once a day depending on whats going on and whos around ;). But sometimes i do 2 or 3 times a day

Sofiya02
April 11th, 2018, 11:09 AM
I don’t think I’ve ever skipped a day...

sambeans
April 11th, 2018, 02:39 PM
if I am not having sex then daily

LucyCee
April 11th, 2018, 04:50 PM
I do it almost every day. I don't think I've gone more than like 2 days without doing it

It's about the same for me. If I miss a few days I tend to "catch up". :)

scottishlooby
April 11th, 2018, 07:38 PM
When I first started then it was 2 or 3 times a day if I could but now its more like once a day. Sometimes if I dont feel like it I can go for 2/3 days but if theres something actively stopping me (lack of privacy etc) then I find I always get crazy urges for it and it drives me mental

KristenS
May 28th, 2018, 02:47 AM
Think the longest i have paused is about 3 days. I was so needing the release.

Nikki_1
May 28th, 2018, 08:10 AM
The only time I don't do it is when I'm on my monthly, other times I do it 1 to 3 times a day depending on my mood at the time ;)

Pultost
May 28th, 2018, 08:15 AM
My personal record is a week. Normally I need a "fix" a couple of times daily.

gurquenjen
May 28th, 2018, 08:54 AM
Since I was 11, I've masturbated almost every day...the only times I've stopped, I think, really, are when I had surgeries that had me on painkillers that messed with my sex drive and made it more difficult to actually orgasm. And even then I tried almost every day I just didn't climax. I think there were also some times when I was in Haiti that I was so tired I just didn't have the energy for, maybe a week at most.

Katie2003
May 28th, 2018, 09:05 AM
After my big sis taught me how when I asked her (I was 11) I have done it at least once a day, typically more like 2-3 times a day ever since then. I have never gone more than one day without doing it, unless I had sex with one of my girlfriends that day.

Anneki
May 28th, 2018, 11:54 AM
Well on vacation, school trips or camps i have gone for up to 2 weeks without doing it. Certain clothes like my volleyball shorts can feel like torture wearing after so long time.
Normally i won't go for more than 2-3 days if i'm busy.

ashleigh7
June 1st, 2018, 11:00 PM
Well on vacation, school trips or camps i have gone for up to 2 weeks without doing it. Certain clothes like my volleyball shorts can feel like torture wearing after so long time.
Normally i won't go for more than 2-3 days if i'm busy.


I 100% agree! I sometimes go a week or so... and I’m a swimmer..so wearing a racing suit is torcher some times!!! :/ ugh!

Ashley2004
June 2nd, 2018, 08:12 AM
I think the longest I've gone was 3 days when I was on vacation and couldn't but normally it's once or twice a day.

Usudirekfm
June 2nd, 2018, 08:16 AM
Even when I am on a vacation, I usually get enough privacy that I can sneak it in here or there. So I guess the longest has been maybe 3-4 days tops, but not if I can help it!

MikaylaP
June 2nd, 2018, 08:57 AM
I think the longest I've gone was 3 days when I was on vacation and couldn't but normally it's once or twice a day.

I am the exact same--for some reason around 3ish days...it turns from a WANT to a NEED lol...and its on my mind a lot if and its noticeable :P

pumpkineater34
June 2nd, 2018, 12:30 PM
i do it like every other day. i can skip probably up to 2 weeks

ImJulia
June 5th, 2018, 01:18 PM
I do it basically every day

len05
June 5th, 2018, 05:08 PM
i do it every other day. most i can go without is maybe a week, when i'm like on holiday and don't get much alone time

Bamf_Girl
June 6th, 2018, 03:48 AM
I am the exact same--for some reason around 3ish days...it turns from a WANT to a NEED lol...and its on my mind a lot if and its noticeable :P

When it’s a need, you better watch out because I’m furious at it ha.

Zoe15
June 6th, 2018, 12:16 PM
2 maximum 3 days

Char03
June 8th, 2018, 10:00 AM
2-3 days max usually

JessicaShy
June 12th, 2018, 06:25 AM
Usually do it once a day. The most without would be 2-3 days and then it becomes a definite NEED

ClaireHofmann
June 18th, 2018, 04:55 PM
I can't go very long without sex or masturbation, my body needs to orgasm at least once a day (usually way more than that).

ashleigh7
June 18th, 2018, 05:09 PM
I can't go very long without sex or masturbation, my body needs to orgasm at least once a day (usually way more than that).

I think my body wants to have a big "O" everyday. But everything seams to get in the way :( ugh! So frustrating:) lol!

ClaireHofmann
June 18th, 2018, 05:14 PM
I think my body wants to have a big "O" everyday. But everything seams to get in the way :( ugh! So frustrating:) lol!
I know exactly how it is. Sometimes it just seems like everything is conspiring against you having some free time to have the orgasms that your body wants.

ashleigh7
June 18th, 2018, 05:16 PM
I know exactly how it is. Sometimes it just seems like everything is conspiring against you having some free time to have the orgasms that your body wants.

Yes totally!!!! It's a total pain in the butt :) and trying to sleep sometimes is hard :(

ClaireHofmann
June 18th, 2018, 05:26 PM
Yes totally!!!! It's a total pain in the butt :) and trying to sleep sometimes is hard :(
Yeah, it's horrible. Sometimes I need to orgasm in order to have a good night of sleep.

ashleigh7
June 18th, 2018, 05:28 PM
Yeah, it's horrible. Sometimes I need to orgasm in order to have a good night of sleep.

Yes indeed! Lol!

len05
June 19th, 2018, 01:43 PM
Yeah, it's horrible. Sometimes I need to orgasm in order to have a good night of sleep.

It is the same for me. - Good sleep after an orgasm :)

gurquenjen
June 19th, 2018, 02:27 PM
Yeah, it's horrible. Sometimes I need to orgasm in order to have a good night of sleep.

I almost always need to cum before I go to bed. I kind of prefer the nights when I don't have to do it myself, but I also don't mind letting my fingers do the walking (or fucking, as the case may be). Big fan of taking a shower every night before bed, too. Especially since I convinced my housemates to get a detachable showerhead.

Dezzy1
June 20th, 2018, 01:39 AM
At least 2 times a day, but up to 5 on weekends or summer vakay :P Even if we're on a trip, I'll sneak a couple in somehow.

Brigje
June 20th, 2018, 04:49 AM
Yeah, it's horrible. Sometimes I need to orgasm in order to have a good night of sleep.

Yep, it is the best and proven remedy for me as well.

nerdyniky
June 20th, 2018, 10:52 AM
My longest period without "O" was 9 days long. We were on a family trip and I had absolutely no private time or occasion to sneak out to do at least a quickie. I was soooo horny and desperate during the last days. Even my shorts were torturing me, I was constantly wet... But THAT night after we got home... wohooo... :D

tinkerkell
June 20th, 2018, 06:37 PM
The longest I've gone is maybe 7 hours (the length of the school day plus time to find somewhere to do it)

Katrinchen
June 21st, 2018, 07:23 AM
The longest I've gone is maybe 7 hours (the length of the school day plus time to find somewhere to do it)

wowww ;) that sounds really hard :wub:

KristenM
June 25th, 2018, 08:58 PM
I never go more than like 2 days without doing it. Mostly for my own sanity lol

Bamf_Girl
June 26th, 2018, 06:19 AM
I never go more than like 2 days without doing it. Mostly for my own sanity lol

How do you even 2 days hun?

MikaylaP
June 26th, 2018, 08:40 AM
I never go more than like 2 days without doing it. Mostly for my own sanity lol

Same here i find....for some reason if its like 3ish days i begin to get frustrated down there lol..

KristenM
June 26th, 2018, 08:57 AM
Same here i find....for some reason if its like 3ish days i begin to get frustrated down there lol..

After like 2 days I just turn into a huge bitch lol

Katie2003
June 26th, 2018, 09:19 AM
I'm cranky if I don't get to do it every day. Even mom notices the difference in my behavior. And I totally agree about doing it at bedtime as a calming aid to help me get to sleep. Twice a day usually once in the morning in the shower, and again later in the day or at bedtime, are perfect for me.