At school

[Fritz]

So there is this person in my class, I think hes new because i havent seen him before, and I noticed that hes lately been trying really hard to be friends with me. Of course nothing wrong with that, but I noticed how he seems to keep looking at me or like watching me whenever it's time to take showers after class and get dressed. I just don't say anything because it makes me feel strange. I dont really know what to do

[pauly]

I don't think you should stop the two of you from becoming friends. After all, you won't know exactly his intentions unless you start chatting as friends. But if he oversteps the mark and says or does anything you're not totally happy with, then is the time to take a step back and to tell him you're not interested in that kind of relationship.

Good luck, and try not to worry too much. You're obviously sensible and your common sense will help you.

[Bull]

[QUOTE=pauly;3596530]I don't think you should stop the two of you from becoming friends. After all, you won't know exactly his intentions unless you start chatting as friends. But if he oversteps the mark and says or does anything you're not totally happy with, then is the time to take a step back and to tell him you're not interested in that kind of relationship.
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I agree with Pauly. At this point you really don't know that he has a motive other than friendship. See where it goes.

[heymynameis]

he is probably just curious. maybe make friends with him, talk for a bit and see what happens, if he brings up anything about this, tell him you don't feel comfortable

[ska8er]

Unless he is making u feel
uncomfortable Id make friends
with him. Hes new and looking
for someone. Like everyone said
he is curious.

[crazyjazy02]

He might like your social group. Or you! Just go talk to him and introduce him to your friends.

[Just JT]

He might be attracted to you. That’s what people do when they see someone their attracted to. And it doesn’t mean it’s a sexual thing either

[Fritz]

He might be attracted to you. That’s what people do when they see someone their attracted to. And it doesn’t mean it’s a sexual thing either

You think he can be attacked to me? I mean so far he seems pretty cool

[Just JT]

You think he can be attacked to me? I mean so far he seems pretty cool

Attraction comes in many forms. Not just physical or sexual. Maybe to him you look good and that’s why he looks at you. Maybe he’s looking for your attention or reaction to for, a friendship or something. Or maybe he’s crushing on you

Many possibilities. But don’t seem any of them are bad so....

[Fritz]

I don't think you should stop the two of you from becoming friends. After all, you won't know exactly his intentions unless you start chatting as friends. But if he oversteps the mark and says or does anything you're not totally happy with, then is the time to take a step back and to tell him you're not interested in that kind of relationship.

Good luck, and try not to worry too much. You're obviously sensible and your common sense will help you.

He might like your social group. Or you! Just go talk to him and introduce him to your friends.

Yeah I mean like I said he seems pretty cool so far. He doesnt seem to like some of my friends though when they come around and talk to me, he just seems to follow and looks like he just wants to hang out. Doesnt like sports that much either

Attraction comes in many forms. Not just physical or sexual. Maybe to him you look good and that’s why he looks at you. Maybe he’s looking for your attention or reaction to for, a friendship or something. Or maybe he’s crushing on you

Many possibilities. But don’t seem any of them are bad so....

Maybe, many possibilities. I dont know yet, maybe I will bring it up

[jamie_n5]

I don't see any problem with becoming friends. Like others said he may be curious and is looking for a friend. Like said if he does something you don't like then put a stop to it. You are at that age too where guys love to experiment with each other so that might be what he is thinking too.

[kro814]

If he is staring at you naked in the showers every day that means he is attracted to you.

[Atlantis]

There have been several inappropriate posts in this thread, including storytelling, and so it is being locked now :locked: