What does this all mean?

[clueless_one]

This girl is in my youth group, and we were organising a event/day for the youth group. Everything I do, she complements and says she likes.

I created a slide for our day in organising the youth group event and she said she liked it. I thought about making a list of things and she read the list and said that she liked it also and took a photo of it to keep it for the preparation of the youth group. One time when the youth group went bowling, she looked at my shirt and asked what it said on my shirt.

I have also noticed she looks at me a bit, and stands close to/near/around me. One time she stood so close that her arm was touching mine and she stood there for a while. She has spoken to me quite a bit and sometimes when I give her eye contact, she looks away and one day she looked at me, when I looked at her, she looked away (no eye contact, just looking). One day, she randomly sent me a text message also, which after a few replies… it ended. But she started the conversation with me about our the youth group event/day and didn't send it to anyone else in the group.

Recently, I told her I had a gift to give her but I left it at home and just explained what the gift is. She seemed surprised and shocked (but didn't show it, gave a nervous smile), I asked if she liked the movie from which the gift was from and still smiled slightly and nodded. I told her exactly what the gift was and she started laughing/giggling. I told her that I will give it the next time I see her and she said I didn't have to give it to her and was smiling and it looked like she was blushing. When I saw her next, I showed the gift to her and I told her to take it and she said no and for me to keep it (it is the type of gift that I can also have). She grabbed onto it and looked at it carefully smiling and laughing. Every time I told her to take it she just smiled, kind of blushed and said no I should keep it.

She also told her friend that she is shy so loudly that I heard. When we were playing a group game, this girl stood in such a way that she was facing me all the time. She seems to have things in common with me, I said that there is a dessert that a pastry chef makes thats good, and she said everything by that chef is good. I agreed with her (which is true).

When I ask her to pick me up or drop me, she seems to lie and make something up not to do it she has dropped another guy home but one time came up with a lie to avoid it but was caught and had to drop him home.

What does this all mean?

[jombo]

She likes you! Just see how it goes, see if she gets a little jealous.

[Meganium]

This girl is in my youth group, and we were organising a event/day for the youth group. Everything I do, she complements and says she likes.

I created a slide for our day in organising the youth group event and she said she liked it. I thought about making a list of things and she read the list and said that she liked it also and took a photo of it to keep it for the preparation of the youth group. One time when the youth group went bowling, she looked at my shirt and asked what it said on my shirt.

I have also noticed she looks at me a bit, and stands close to/near/around me. One time she stood so close that her arm was touching mine and she stood there for a while. She has spoken to me quite a bit and sometimes when I give her eye contact, she looks away and one day she looked at me, when I looked at her, she looked away (no eye contact, just looking). One day, she randomly sent me a text message also, which after a few replies… it ended. But she started the conversation with me about our the youth group event/day and didn't send it to anyone else in the group.

Recently, I told her I had a gift to give her but I left it at home and just explained what the gift is. She seemed surprised and shocked (but didn't show it, gave a nervous smile), I asked if she liked the movie from which the gift was from and still smiled slightly and nodded. I told her exactly what the gift was and she started laughing/giggling. I told her that I will give it the next time I see her and she said I didn't have to give it to her and was smiling and it looked like she was blushing. When I saw her next, I showed the gift to her and I told her to take it and she said no and for me to keep it (it is the type of gift that I can also have). She grabbed onto it and looked at it carefully smiling and laughing. Every time I told her to take it she just smiled, kind of blushed and said no I should keep it.

She also told her friend that she is shy so loudly that I heard. When we were playing a group game, this girl stood in such a way that she was facing me all the time. She seems to have things in common with me, I said that there is a dessert that a pastry chef makes thats good, and she said everything by that chef is good. I agreed with her (which is true).

When I ask her to pick me up or drop me, she seems to lie and make something up not to do it she has dropped another guy home but one time came up with a lie to avoid it but was caught and had to drop him home.

What does this all mean?


Because you're refusal to take pursuit is becoming nauseating, let me just break this down for you one final time, for there is no excuse as to why you haven't taken action yet.

This girl is in my youth group, and we were organising a event/day for the youth group. Everything I do, she complements and says she likes.

Behold, a minor detail that you shouldn't be worrying about.

I created a slide for our day in organising the youth group event and she said she liked it.

Hey guys, look! Another one!

One time when the youth group went bowling, she looked at my shirt and asked what it said on my shirt.

I have also noticed she looks at me a bit, and stands close to/near/around me.

Like most girls do? Interesting.

One time she stood so close that her arm was touching mine and she stood there for a while.

What a revelation. Truly.


She has spoken to me quite a bit and sometimes when I give her eye contact, she looks away and one day she looked at me, when I looked at her, she looked away (no eye contact, just looking).

This is honestly getting ridiculous. I cannot stress how much attention you're paying this unecessarily.

One day, she randomly sent me a text message also, which after a few replies… it ended. But she started the conversation with me about our the youth group event/day and didn't send it to anyone else in the group.

A girl who has your cellphone number texted you? WHAT?

Recently, I told her I had a gift to give her but I left it at home and just explained what the gift is. She seemed surprised and shocked (but didn't show it, gave a nervous smile), I asked if she liked the movie from which the gift was from and still smiled slightly and nodded. I told her exactly what the gift was and she started laughing/giggling. I told her that I will give it the next time I see her and she said I didn't have to give it to her and was smiling and it looked like she was blushing. When I saw her next, I showed the gift to her and I told her to take it and she said no and for me to keep it (it is the type of gift that I can also have). She grabbed onto it and looked at it carefully smiling and laughing. Every time I told her to take it she just smiled, kind of blushed and said no I should keep it.

Maybe she felt like she was imposing because you got her a gift? That happens too y'know.

She also told her friend that she is shy so loudly that I heard. When we were playing a group game, this girl stood in such a way that she was facing me all the time.

Jesus Christ.

She seems to have things in common with me, I said that there is a dessert that a pastry chef makes thats good, and she said everything by that chef is good. I agreed with her (which is true).

Right, because a common love for desserts is a factor that can determine how well asking her out would go.

When I ask her to pick me up or drop me, she seems to lie and make something up not to do it she has dropped another guy home but one time came up with a lie to avoid it but was caught and had to drop him home.

Perhaps she's busy? Not everything she does circles around how interested she is in you.

What does this all mean?

OP, don't read this the wrong way. I am in no way trying to be a dick to you. My only interest is to assist you. As is everybody else in this forum on this site. But you cannot deny that you have spent all of your time since you've come here worrying about Simple. Bullshit. You've heard it countless times. You are worrying about every little detail you see.

If a girl rubs against your arm, you think she's nuts over you. Then you think that she wants nothing to do with you because she didn't touch your arm the next day. Please, get it together.

I have no intentions of insulting you, and if you find this post offensive I'll back off, but it's not helping you to keep coming here with the same questions when we give you the same, RIGHT, answer.

Peace, and good luck if you choose to take it.

[jombo]

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There are multiple logical reasons why he is feeling like this, he just wants other views on what it could mean and is trying to mention so many things to maybe think people will believe she likes him too. I don't see how you can act like that towards him, claiming your view is right when there is no right view. There's no need to criticize what he's saying, just give your view (or just don't) and move on.

[Croconaw]

You've created the same topic every other week. She likes you, but you should get over her. She deserves someone much better. You look too much into things. On the hundreds of other topics you've made, people gave you very helpful answers. If you refuse to follow them, then that's your problem; and not mine.

[Meganium]

There are multiple logical reasons why he is feeling like this, he just wants other views on what it could mean and is trying to mention so many things to maybe think people will believe she likes him too. I don't see how you can act like that towards him, claiming your view is right when there is no right view. There's no need to criticize what he's saying, just give your view (or just don't) and move on.

And that would be flawlessly plausible, if...

You've created the same topic every other week.

...that. Literally that, didn't happen all the time.

I'd go on a little rant about this but I don't want to spark any kind of war within this thread. But in all seriousness, OP has been demonstrating the literal definition of insanity for a while now. We've all given him advice on countless occasions, and he comes back as though we're going to offer him different solutions for the same situation that has no other way around it. While it's true that other people can give differing opinions, the majority of people who come will give him the same talk, and it's almost like he tries to disregard it entirely. I won't say that for sure, because I don't know him, but I will say that if that's the case, then he's been even more disrespectful than we thought he had been in the past.

[clueless_one]

You've created the same topic every other week. She likes you, but you should get over her. She deserves someone much better. You look too much into things. On the hundreds of other topics you've made, people gave you very helpful answers. If you refuse to follow them, then that's your problem; and not mine.

There are multiple logical reasons why he is feeling like this, he just wants other views on what it could mean and is trying to mention so many things to maybe think people will believe she likes him too. I don't see how you can act like that towards him, claiming your view is right when there is no right view. There's no need to criticize what he's saying, just give your view (or just don't) and move on.

And that would be flawlessly plausible, if...



...that. Literally that, didn't happen all the time.

I'd go on a little rant about this but I don't want to spark any kind of war within this thread. But in all seriousness, OP has been demonstrating the literal definition of insanity for a while now. We've all given him advice on countless occasions, and he comes back as though we're going to offer him different solutions for the same situation that has no other way around it. While it's true that other people can give differing opinions, the majority of people who come will give him the same talk, and it's almost like he tries to disregard it entirely. I won't say that for sure, because I don't know him, but I will say that if that's the case, then he's been even more disrespectful than we thought he had been in the past.

F this…

I come on these forums thinking that some of you will help me and be considerate and not say that I'm a problem and that I should forget about girls all together…

Fine then, i'm an only child, always alone, I WILL FRICKING LIVE ALONE FOREVER. Saying that no girl should be with me because they deserve better. YOU FRICKING TRY BEING A ONLY CHILD WHO HAS HAD TO HANDLE SHIT LOADS OF BULLYING FROM EVERYONE AND FEELING ALONE. THE ANXIETY AND NEED TO BE ACCEPTED IS MASSIVE. AND YOUR TELLING ME ITS HOPELESS IN BEING ACCEPTED AND LOVED/LIKED BY SOMEONE ELSE.

F U ALL… :'(

There is no use of me using Virtual Teen Forums, because NONE OF YOU ACTUALLY WANT TO HELP PROPERLY, JUST PUSH ME TO ASK A GIRL OUT AND LOSE THE FRIENDSHIP IS NOT HELP.

[Melodic]

I've gotten more better reactions from my strictly guy friends than you've gotten from the supposed girl you like. I don't think she's interested but is instead probably just trying to be friendly.. And honestly you may just need a girl friend (see the space) because from all your posts you seem to fall in love with any girl who passes by you. And to be honest, I don't think you even truly like this supposed girl either.. You may know a few things about her but you don't know everything to truly like her. You just need to settle down, find yourself, and wait for the right person to come along and stop desperately over analyzing and going for every girl. Because until you quit, you won't be happy and no one will take you seriously.

[clueless_one]

Can I please have this thread CLOSED!!! I'VE HAD ENOUGH OF PEOPLE MAKING MY LIFE DIFFICULT.

KNOW WHAT BLOCK ME… DELETE ALL MY THREADS… I'VE HAD ENOUGH OF THIS :'(

I've gotten more better reactions from my strictly guy friends than you've gotten from the supposed girl you like. I don't think she's interested but is instead probably just trying to be friendly.. And honestly you may just need a girl friend (see the space) because from all your posts you seem to fall in love with any girl who passes by you. And to be honest, I don't think you even truly like this supposed girl either.. You may know a few things about her but you don't know everything to truly like her. You just need to settle down, find yourself, and wait for the right person to come along and stop desperately over analyzing and going for every girl. Because until you quit, you won't be happy and no one will take you seriously.

Telling me to quit… Then that makes me desperate… Waiting for a random girl to start telling me she likes me then going for her… What a joke!!!

Then I will never be happy if I get a girlfriend because ITS NOT ONE I LIKE!

[Croconaw]

F this…

I come on these forums thinking that some of you will help me and be considerate and not say that I'm a problem and that I should forget about girls all together…

Fine then, i'm an only child, always alone, I WILL FRICKING LIVE ALONE FOREVER. Saying that no girl should be with me because they deserve better. YOU FRICKING TRY BEING A ONLY CHILD WHO HAS HAD TO HANDLE SHIT LOADS OF BULLYING FROM EVERYONE AND FEELING ALONE. THE ANXIETY AND NEED TO BE ACCEPTED IS MASSIVE. AND YOUR TELLING ME ITS HOPELESS IN BEING ACCEPTED AND LOVED/LIKED BY SOMEONE ELSE.

F U ALL… :'(

There is no use of me using Virtual Teen Forums, because NONE OF YOU ACTUALLY WANT TO HELP PROPERLY, JUST PUSH ME TO ASK A GIRL OUT AND LOSE THE FRIENDSHIP IS NOT HELP.
Nobody said you will die alone. You just have to calm down and stop looking too far into things. These signs don't mean anything. You are looking at every little detail.

[Emerald Dream]

Locked at OP request. :locked: