my girlfriend

[Henry333]

hi. I'm 15 and i got my first girlfriend 2 months now and I love her. we seem to be in a good place as a couple and we say we love each other and we hug and hold hands, but I still haven't had the guts to kiss her. I really want to its just such a daunting thing to me. her being my first girlfriend she would also be my first kiss, so I think that is the main reason why I haven't kissed her yet. there have been moments when were snuggling and were face to face, and ill just duck out because I'm scared because I don't want to mess anything up between us. I love her and I want to kiss her, but I want to make sure she 100% wants to kiss me too. I know to many people a kiss isn't much, but ive never kissed a girl before so its a very daunting experience for me. any help would be greatly appretiated, whether its about how to approach a kiss, or how to see if shes ready. it sounds so stupid all over a kiss, but I'm just nervous.

also if theres something that I haven't said that might be helpful, just ask ill be happy to answer


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[ska8er]

U say u cuddle. Kiss her on her cheek
or her neck to start if u r nervous. I'm
sure that if she loves u she is waiting
for a kiss especially if u come face to
face together. She is probably just as
nervous wondering y u r not responding.

[mick01]

Nothing like communication in any relationship. You should talk about it with your gf. You have all legitimate reasons for feeling like you do. But maybe ask her if you can kiss her or ask when she might be ready to kiss you. And I think if you told her your feelings, she'd love you even more.

[Leena_2003]

Dude, just kiss her. You want to and you feel she wants to. So just do it. Soon she will think you don't want to or that she's doing something wrong or something, and you don't want that to happen.

[House anatomy]

My friend always says it only takes 10 seconds of bravery im a relationship to achieve something amazing. I get what your saying though. My girlfriend also wants me to kiss her but neither of is have ever kissed.

[Henry333]

ive heard people say talk to her about it, but that seems even scarier than just doing it. I'm just gonna set myself a deadline that the next time I'm with her alone I'm going to kiss her, either on her cheek or just straight away on the lips. its that 10 seconds of bravery I just need to get through. its just very intimidating. I'm sure shell be up for it I just need to do it sooner rather than later. I don't want to make her feel like I don't want to kiss her

[Just JT]

Well communication comes in many forms. You could always ask her if she’s ever been kissed before. Or if she thinks sh s ready to be kissed. And if she is if she’s ready to be kissed by you.

Then you’ll know all for fact that you both know want the same thing. And it’s not such a build up of all at once topic.

Then you just kiss he bro....you’ll both love it, it’s fun

[Adarest]

Talk to her about the kiss and see how she thinks. If you have to, just ask her about it and see if you could kiss her. At least, this way she knows what you're trying to do, so its not an awkward guessing game of head gestures.

[NewLeafsFan]

She's your girlfriend of 2 months and she loves you. Why don't you try talking to her about it? In a relationship eventually you will come across things that you need to overcome. Just to give you an obvious incentive you will probably have to kiss her long before you ever have sex.

[Henry333]

i have a plan. I walk home with school with her some days so when I say bye, ill hug her, hold her close, tell her I love her and kiss her. I was going to do this twice now but her friends walked with us both times, but they don't normally do that. I'm gonna stick to that and just do it. nothing awful can come of it

[Stronk Serb]

I find this sorta strange because in Serbia every relationship begins with a kiss. Just a cultural difference. Still, just do it. Nothing to be afraid of.

[hesaidhesaid]

Just kiss her!!
Blunt and honest advice here. If you love each other enough, it won't be that nervewracking.