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Steffanie2020
March 5th, 2014, 09:25 PM
i have a (kinda) confusing question... bare with me. so I just came out to myself as a lesbian and resently came out to my friends, im also a huge and heavy flirt and can sometimes be aggressive with girls/friends. theres this girl in my first period class and I pretty much tell her everything about my day, life, relationships with friends and ect (im pretty open to people). she also tells me about her problems and situations and she recently just broke up with her boyfriend. she wasn't really hurt by it but I did cheer her up anyway. I even made a couple of jokes saying she'll always have me around and ill always be her night and shining armor. I sometimes (at moments) touch her during class and see how far I can get with her before she stops my hand. she never stops me but I usually stop myself when I reach her upper thigh... today I didn't do that, I THOUGHT she would stop me when I reached her "area" but when I got there I had to stop because... I don't know. she even looked me in the eye the whole time so that's another reason I stopped. shes really comfortable with me and knows that I wont go any further than that since were in class. shes also told me a million times shes straight so do I just leave her alone or do I try to expand our friendship to something more. sorry if this was a little too much in detail but im really confused on where she stands with our friendship and possibly her sexuality.

ImAurora
March 5th, 2014, 09:33 PM
Talk to her about it. You're both comfortable talking with each other, so when you have some time in private, talk to her. See how she feels about all that.

Croconaw
March 5th, 2014, 09:44 PM
She might be bisexual. That, or she doesn't want to be rude by telling you to stop touching her.

MechaSniper
March 5th, 2014, 10:09 PM
Another possibility Is that she trusts you and maybe wants to experiment ( if not already).

Taryn98
March 5th, 2014, 11:08 PM
Only she can answer this question. This is a perfect example of why communication is key to any relationship (friends or more than friends). If you 2 are as open with each other as you claim to be, this should be an easy and straight forward discussion.

Luminous
March 5th, 2014, 11:56 PM
I agree with the above, this is really something you need to talk to her about.

NotShortButFunsized
March 5th, 2014, 11:59 PM
Only she can answer this question. This is a perfect example of why communication is key to any relationship (friends or more than friends). If you 2 are as open with each other as you claim to be, this should be an easy and straight forward discussion.

This. You have to talk to her for those answers

jenny2234
March 6th, 2014, 06:19 AM
Why are you doing this in class? Even if you want something to happen it won't in class. Try and talk with her in a more private setting.

Harley Quinn
March 6th, 2014, 06:35 AM
Double threads have been merged and moved to Teen Sexuality.