How can I get the girl to ask me out?

[BobbyBlobs]

OK this sounds really stupid, I know. Let me talk before you critisize. So firstly, I know someone that likes me and I like them, and I know this because they've asked me out before but I brushed it off and pretended I didn't hear because I'm way too shy. That was a few weeks ago now and I'm sure she still likes me, so deal is, how do I get them to make the first move and ask me out, even though the guy should probably be asking the girl out. I'm super shy and can't pluck up any courage whatsoever.

[NewLeafsFan]

Dude, you need to ask he out. I know it seems tough but just hear me out with an open mind. At some point in your life you will need to get over this shyness. The quicker you get it over with the better it is for you. I know how it feels, trust me when I tell you that I've struggled with the same thing.

Asking her out when you're sure she'll say yes is a good place to start. Even if you try googling how to ask her out. It's easier when it's not infront of people. So get her alone.

Do NOT leave this page until you have made the decision that YOU will ask HER out. If you need to be talked through it or something contact me. Trust me, you can seriously do it. Good luck.

[mick01]

It seems like this should be a pretty easy ask. You're not asking for her to fall in love with you or to make a lifetime commitment. Just ask her if she wants to go for coffee, a walk or anything. You know she's gonna say yes. You have to "pluck up the courage" on this one, bro.

[jamie_n5]

Well the simple solution is for you to ask her out.

[ska8er]

Text her and ask if she would like to go
out for a soda or ice cream or something
and c what she says. If u can ask her in
person that would b better but texting it
is a shy way to find out if she still will b
interested and not leave u standing there
feeling bad. Just do it. She likes u.

[Just JT]

Do you ever just talk with her?
If so sometime when just taking ask her about that time she asked you out but you pretended to not hear her. Describe that time with anything but the idea that she asked you out. When she’s remembers that time, tell her you didn’t ignore her, and that you were to shy to answer her question.

Then just say yes.

And if you can’t do that, just man up and ask her bro. Like others have said, just gotta do this. You’ll feel a million bucks after she says yes

[Leena_2003]

... how do I get them to make the first move and ask me out, even though the guy should probably be asking the girl out. I'm super shy and can't pluck up any courage whatsoever.

Dude, girls kinda like guys that shows confidence. Even if you're shy and all that, just do it man. Make the first move. That's way more cool than the other way around.

[Nikki_1]

LOL, just two word's... YOU DON'T!!

[Stronk Serb]

You don't really want a girl to ask you out. In my case when that once happened, she was begging me to do it. I said no every time. Then she did the even weirder thing and asked me to bang her. Then she started the same thing with my friend and it ended the same.

[FawksRunner]

Well you should ask her out dude that's it! and Im sure it wouldn't be hard for you anymore

[ImJulia]

Ask her

[Nikki_1]

THe question to ask yourself is... 'how much do i like her?'
Score yourself out of 10 and anything over 4... take a deep breath and ASK HER OUT!!

She has already made the move for you!!!!!