Jealousy? Paranoia? Lack of confidence? All three?

[Stronk Serb]

I am in a relationship for about 5 months now. It all went great at first, but then we saw eachother less, part of it is because she goes to school, I don't, I am pausing with going to uni. She sort of refuses to talk about her problems and I suspect one of her friends has something against me. I saw him a couple of times and he always gives me a hateful look when he sees us together and tries to push me out of any group conversation, the prick. I am worried, but could it be my paranoia, or I might be onto sonething big?

[Dalcourt]

Well from an outsider point of view it is hard to tell whether you make this up dues to paranoia/jealousy whatever or if there is really something going on.

I guess the only thing that could clarify the situation is talking about it with your girlfriend. Otherwise you will never know what is really going on and just make yourself crazy.

[NewLeafsFan]

From what you're saying I'm going to guess that something bigger is going on. You mentioned that she refuses to talk about her problems with you. Is she just an emotionally distant person or did this start recently? If it started recently than she is could have someone else to discuss her problems with such as the guy that doesn't seem to like you. You need to talk about this with her in person. Preferably face-to-face.

There is a chance that nothing is going on and that guy was just having a bad day when he didn't seem happy to see you.

[jamie_n5]

She is in college now and you aren't. Things will be different for her. This guy most likely has a thing for her and wants you out of his way to go out with her. That is kind of normal human behavior. He is obviously jealous of you.

[Just JT]

Has this other guy known her longer than you?
They could be close friends and he’s just protective of her
Maybe he’s just an asshole
Either way seems to me that there’s some kinda something going on, and some of that at least is between you and your GF. And if she’s not into talking about shit between you and her, then maybe you should be asking what kinda relationship your into with her

[Stronk Serb]

From what you're saying I'm going to guess that something bigger is going on. You mentioned that she refuses to talk about her problems with you. Is she just an emotionally distant person or did this start recently? If it started recently than she is could have someone else to discuss her problems with such as the guy that doesn't seem to like you. You need to talk about this with her in person. Preferably face-to-face.

There is a chance that nothing is going on and that guy was just having a bad day when he didn't seem happy to see you.

I highly dount that since it happened on three different occassions, of the three times I saw him.

She is in college now and you aren't. Things will be different for her. This guy most likely has a thing for her and wants you out of his way to go out with her. That is kind of normal human behavior. He is obviously jealous of you.

She is younger than me, she still goes to highschool. If he has a thing for her, I will kindly explain to him that she made her choice and that he should bugger off. Fists are involved if he fails to understand.

Has this other guy known her longer than you?
They could be close friends and he’s just protective of her
Maybe he’s just an asshole
Either way seems to me that there’s some kinda something going on, and some of that at least is between you and your GF. And if she’s not into talking about shit between you and her, then maybe you should be asking what kinda relationship your into with her

I am seeing her this weekend mkst likely, maybe earlier, so I will talk about it, or at least try talking.

[NewLeafsFan]

I highly dount that since it happened on three different occassions, of the three times I saw him.

Well that is unfortunate. However you still need to deal with the bigger issue here and that is the differences that seem to be starting between you and your girlfriend. The longer you go without doing so the harder it will be and the more you will grow apart.