Have I ruined my chances with him?

[teddyxen]

So I went on a first date with a guy a couple of days ago and we ended up back at my place and having sex. I'm worried that now we've had sex he will lose interest in me. However, he did give me the impression that he likes me. He was very sweet the whole night, stayed over and looked after me since I felt super sick after the date with stomach cramp. He stayed awake with me to make sure I was okay, cuddled me all night then stayed to watch a movie with me in the morning/afternoon. We kissed goodbye and now here I am the next day panicking that he won't want to see me again? We've texted a little but I don't want to keep messaging him so I don't scare him off. We both said we don't want anything serious but I still do like him and want to hang out.

[Princesa77]

Hi @teddyxen (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/member.php?u=92892)

If he's interested and loved being with you, he will contact you, It's a fact that we girls run deeper feelings within than guys, but since you texted him, I suggest you wait no matter how hard it feels.

Maybe you will see him again, and perhaps then have another dste. :)

[SouthGeorgiaTeen]

If you really like I'm then tell him how you feel. Have a REAL conversation with him. By the way you're explaining things, how he took care of you while you were sick.. he sounds like he cares about you. Just give it some time I'm confident that things will work out eventually.

[amelia_]

It does sound like he cares about you, you should keep messaging him

[NewLeafsFan]

Have you ever heard of the 3 day rule? I think it was invented for situations like this.

[teddyxen]

He has been messaging me the last couple of days which I guess is a good sign he's still interested. I'm going to ask him to hang out again next week. Wish me luck lol. Thanks for all your replies

[Barbara.]

He has been messaging me the last couple of days which I guess is a good sign he's still interested. I'm going to ask him to hang out again next week. Wish me luck lol. Thanks for all your replies
Good luck wish you all the best.

[jamie_n5]

Unless he is one of the jerk type guys that just wants to put an other notch on his bed post he will call you again. Give him time. There is nothing wrong with texting him and just talking. Be sure to thank him for the care and attention he showed you and tell him you very much look forward with spending more time with him.