Should i ask her out?

[vincentvisee]

So i really like this girl at my school. Known her for more than 4 years but never really talked to her. A year ago i texted her once but she was talking really short and well, it ended very fast. She is the prettiest girl I've ever seen but i have a strong feeling she will say no. Should i directly ask her out or first talk to her or something? She is always with a couple of friends and i don't particularly like them and i think the feeling is mutual. What should i do?

Thanks in advance,
Vincent, 16

[Princesa77]

Well, there is no harm in trying. Say you have known her for some 4 years, yet feel some sort of attachment and want to start a friendship. And that is basically what you are intending to do, without guile and no strings attached; she should see your sincerity.

If you think she doesn't particularly like these two friends keep hanging around her, ask if you can be of help, and taking her to a nice tea house for some cakes and a pot of tea could work wonders.

Dress as smartly as possible. We girls appreciate guys who wear nice white shirts, a smart jacket and polished shoes and, clean fingernails.

And see how you progress. If she refuses, okay back out. But I think she may appreciate your interest in her.

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Julie

[ska8er]

Talk first-get to know her better
and her u then u will kind of get
how the two of u relate. Then u
can ask her out.

[mick01]

Ya, I agree with sk8er. Get the conversation going again and see what kind of feeling you get from it. If it's friendly and warm, then ask her out.

[vincentvisee]

Alright thanks guys i will try to start a conversation

[SouthGeorgiaTeen]

Bro, TALK TO HER! Do not miss your chance, yeah you might get embarrassed but you have to shoot your shot.

[The Stalwart]

Talk first-get to know her better
and her u then u will kind of get
how the two of u relate. Then u
can ask her out.

I agree. Go for it, Vince. And good luck!

[NewLeafsFan]

Life isn't a bar. Randomly asking someone out that you barely know is unlikely to work in your favour. You have to build a friendship but not for too long or you will get friendzoned. I would recommend talking to her several times. Do so by 'accidentally' running into her. Show her a good time. If she likes you a little bit and she has a good time with you than she has no reason to not say yes when you ask her out. I would also recommend that you don't text her. Since you've texted her before and gotten a negative response it might seem creepy that you have her number on your phone stored for a rainy day. Especially when you eventually ask her out.