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YoungHypebeast
November 20th, 2017, 09:25 AM
Hey guys sup.so,there is a girl that I know she used to like me when I was younger about 2 years ago.I was shy those days and I didn't talk to her that much except from chat when she was starting a conversation.She thought I was ignoring her.1 year ago she met a boy at her school and I guess she forgot me a bit beacuse I was " ignoring" her a lot cause I was shy.Now she has an unstable conversation for about 5 months.By saying unstable I mean that they argue and broke up and then get back together a lot.I didn't care that much beacuse I knew that she would like to be with me after she officially break up with her bf.She also said that she would smash me on a site that she answers anonymous questions from people and said to her friends a lot that I'm really hot.But unfortunately nowadays whenever I ask if she will smash or pass me she says pass beacuse I am friendzone and I don't know why this is happening.She also calls me bro and shit like that on chat.I don't know what to do and this starts making me jealous and want her more.Is she doing that on plan to make me run behind her back?Plz help me on what to do when she breaks up.Should I grab and kiss her when we are alone?Also how to talk her on chat?PLZ HELP

YoungHypebeast
November 21st, 2017, 08:49 AM
Lmao every1 is bored to read the article right

jamie_n5
November 21st, 2017, 04:35 PM
I think if she breaks up you should wait and see what happens. See if she texts you or asks you out. You could ask her out too. As far as grabbing and kissing I would hold off on that and start out slow like any other relationship should.

SethfromMI
November 21st, 2017, 10:52 PM
Something you may not want to hear but keep in mind, if she wants to keep you in the friend zone, you are going to remain in the friend zone. sometimes it is just the way it is. most guys have been there with a girl before. when she does officially break up I would explain to her how you feel. Tell her you weren't trying to ignore her and you are still very interested in her. It may be a slow process, if she does rend up taking you to of the zone. Like Jamie said though, I wouldn't recommend just grabbing her and kissing her, that could go bad on a multiple of levels.

sugoiman
November 21st, 2017, 11:11 PM
I feel for u, and u are not the only one who has been ther ,
Since she feels u are ignoring her , i recommend u to talk to her more often,and do the things she loves. No matter how many times she "brozones" u , dnt heed. And tell her how u feel ( that u didnt ignore her in intension and u had some reasons to do it ) i hope she will understand , besides she thinks u are hot ;).

NewLeafsFan
November 22nd, 2017, 01:53 AM
I've read that this can work but its risky. Not sure if anyone is daring enough to try it:

1: Go a long period of time without seeing the girl
2: During this time find a way to better yourself like a new hobby (helps to let time pass)
3: Finally talk to the girl and bring up sex in a casual way such as talking about 50 Shades of Gray
4: The girl sees you in a new light
5: Ask her out shortly after