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goin to work
February 26th, 2008, 07:29 PM
likei took vals advice and we went in a grope off ppl to da moveis and i had my arm around her and she was basicly on my lap but i talik to her after at dinner and she don't want a bf but she liks me so lik idd should i be mad i never asked her out so did i get rejected and lik she says were friends with benificts what does dis mean:confused:
Aηdy
February 26th, 2008, 07:31 PM
How about you say that in english? Seriously I didn't understand a word of that. Have some respect to those who are helping you.
goin to work
February 26th, 2008, 07:34 PM
like i took vals advice and we went in a groop off ppl to da movie's and i had my arm around her and she was basicly on my lap but i talk to her after at dinner and she don't want a bf but she liks me so lik idk should i be mad i never asked her out so did i get rejected and lik she says were friends with benificts what does dis mean
Serenity
February 26th, 2008, 07:36 PM
Friends with benifits are basically just friends with all the physical benifits dating, ie kissing, groping, hooking up, whatever. I've never been a fan of it because there is a line between a friend and a relationship and going for just the physical aspect of a relationship and ignoring the emotional part is selfish and unfair. So you didn't quite get rejected- she got the vibe that you're into her but doesn't want the responsibility/stress/whatever of actually having a bf, but still wants someone she can hook up with.
goin to work
February 26th, 2008, 07:38 PM
ic that kinda pisses me off but thats life i gess
Serenity
February 26th, 2008, 07:42 PM
That's life indeed. There are other girls out there, though, who are willing to have a real relationship. You just have to be patient and wait until you find the right one.
goin to work
February 26th, 2008, 07:46 PM
thanks val ur advice is amazing
but lik um should i still hang out wit kell cuz lik i rly lik her
or do u think i will get hurt
Serenity
February 26th, 2008, 07:49 PM
Well I think that's a decision you have to make for yourself. You can explain to her that you're looking for a real relationship, not superficial 'friends with benifits' and if she understands and accepts that, maybe you can remain friends.