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HighStandards
November 6th, 2017, 01:24 AM
I've kissed a girl before. Twice. Nothing deep, just a peck.
And I often imagine myself being with girls, in relationships with them and all that jazz. I find myself checking out girls when I have nothing else to do or am just curious, especially when I see butches (I think they're called) and I find it hard to stop looking. And there's currently a girl at my high school who I have an interest in.
I don't feel so certain that I'm into girls, meaning I can't see myself being comfortable expressing that in public.
I don't know. I feel so confused. But I believe that I can love anyone, no matter their gender.

maddogmj77
November 6th, 2017, 02:47 AM
Nothing you do will ever "make you" bi. You either are, or you aren't.

And nobody can tell you if you are either, you have to figure that out on your own. Through experimentation & experience.

Good luck :)

jamie_n5
November 6th, 2017, 04:40 PM
You are most likely just curious. We all are curious to some extent and wonder about or dream about things. You can't become Bi or any sexuality you are born that way and maybe just need to find out who and what you are. I was around 12 when I knew for sure that I was Gay. Lots of people experiment and do sexual type things with each other out of curiosity. Showing affection is just that. A hug or a kiss is just a way of showing someone you care.

ska8er
November 6th, 2017, 04:52 PM
I think for now u r just curious but
don't label urself too soon. After
awhile if u continue with these
feelings there is nothing wrong
in being Bi.

Falcons_11
November 11th, 2017, 10:18 AM
You are probably just curious and want to experiment with your feelings for another girl. I wouldn't worry about having those feelings for that other girl in your school. You have a lot of time to sort things out. If you choose to be bisexual, there is nothing wrong with that decision either. Good luck.