Too easily arroused - girls opinions

[Harrier]

I was wondering what do girls think about boys who maybe get too easily arroused, plus feedback from boys who maybe also experience the same thing.

So I am 18 and am not a prude. I lost my virginity at 16 and messed around a lot before then. I have been with my gf for 2 years and the sex is often and good.

However I feel that at my age I get wood WAY to easliy! It's embarrassing! I would never cheat on my gf (obv I look, but would never cheat). Girls will sit on my lap for maybe only 2 minutes and I get wood. If anyone gives me massages (even sisters, average looking women massage people, etc) and I get wood.

Also even tho I have gotten WAYYYY better at extending my sex times, my first cum is still not as long as I would like. I can usually last 15 minutes before I cum, but I know some guys can go longer. At least I can reload fast, and I know 15 minutes isn't terrible ...

Opinions? Guys are any of you similar? Have any of you found ways to improve? Girls do you know guys like me? Is this horrible? Opinions? Suggestions? Thanks!

[ska8er]

I believe it is only natural for a teen
boy to get aroused easily with any
kind of thought or action. If he does
not then there may be a prob. As for
extending sex times I think it depends
on how horny u r or learning how to
control urself as with edging.

[Brigje]

Opinions? Girls do you know guys like me? Is this horrible? Opinions? Suggestions?

Yes I know guys like you.
(For me it means that they are healthy and normal)
This is not horrible, it depends on how you handle it and act.
I don't mind and like it to feel a guys reaction when I sit on his lap.
(kind off, don't worry, it was my choice to sit on your lap)
Suggestions; you will learn growing older.

[jamie_n5]

The older we get and more mature and also being more sexually active will all help control those easy arousals. It is just a fact of life my friend. Nothing to be worried or ashamed about. I think most girls would look at getting a guy aroused as a compliment to their appearance and personality.

[Brigje]

I think most girls would look at getting a guy aroused as a compliment to their appearance and personality.

Yes, jamie_n5 is right, most girls will, but some will find it gross to be confronted with.
But, I see it as a compliment.

[MissMolly]

To be honest, I don't really enjoy being confronted by a guy with a big erection outside of situations where I am trying to make him hard. I understand that it can happen, but 1) don't make a big deal about it and draw my attention to it, and 2) do your best to make it less obvious.

I imagine this will become less of a problem as you get older.

[Dalcourt]

This isn't really puberty related :locked: