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skittlesh
November 2nd, 2017, 01:52 AM
In a few months I will be sixteen I’m a pretty late starter only was able to cum like a year ago I’ve only ever had a 2 girlfriends and that was like when I was 12/13 so you can imagine what they where like. All the people at school are losing their virginity and even now people who I never expected to so soon have like I’ve never even kissed a girl outside spin the bottle and games like that. Mentally I’m ready for all this stuff but physicly i dont think my body is ready. It’s weird I think I started early than most but like didn’t go very fast so from people I’ve spoken to I seem to be one of the earliest to doscoher wanking. I guess I’m like not ready to be with anyone cause I’m not comfy able with own body I still got ‘baby fat’ like stuff my voice still high and my face is still really child like In the changin rooms I always see other boys and they got soo much more hair than me lit every where I feel about 2 years behind like I’m catching up now so I’m not worried I’m just annoyed my dad says it was terrible for him cause he was the youngest in the years and a late bloomer so he was behind people in the lower years. Ye don’t really know why I wrote this just venting I guess

NewLeafsFan
November 2nd, 2017, 02:12 AM
I've never even had a gf buddy and I'm 18. Ur doing fine. Just don't act desperate cause its a big turn off.

hesaidhesaid
November 2nd, 2017, 04:23 AM
Don't worry about it.

Vegas2933
November 2nd, 2017, 04:49 AM
I'm 16 and I haven't done anything either...

ska8er
November 2nd, 2017, 07:43 AM
Just because everybody at school
is losing their virginity doesn't mean
u have to also. Its not a contest. When
the time is right u will know it otherwise
don't pressure someone cause its a turn
off.

Kevgpdx
November 2nd, 2017, 08:30 AM
Yeah, I wouldn't worry about things too much. I bet there are lots of guys who are not losing their virginity and you just don't know about them. Plus sometimes guys say they have and they haven't. Just do things when the time is right for you.

Second Chance
November 2nd, 2017, 09:03 AM
I think you are fine, and you honestly do not have anything to worry about. Loosing your virginity is not something you want to do at the drop of your hat, and you should only loose it when you are ready and not because everyone else is doing it. Chances are the folks who have said that they have lost their virginity either are exaggerating, did not have a good first time, or are just having sex for the sake of doing it. When you are ready to have sex, then it has to be with someone you care about and when you are both physically and mentally ready. Especially since you have only started cumming a year ago you need some time to get used to your changing body. It is far better to have sex later when you are mentally ready than to just do it when you do not know what you're doing.

You are fine, and just be yourself and be comfortable with your choices because it is not anyone's business.

pauly
November 2nd, 2017, 10:12 AM
I agree with everything that's been said. We all develop at different times and at different speeds. So there's nothing to be either ashamed or worried about.
Try to relax and remember that you'll be as manly as everyone else while you're still in your teens, though no-one can say exactly when the changes to your voice and body will take place.
Best of luck and try your hardest to be happy.
Paul

jamie_n5
November 2nd, 2017, 11:05 AM
Don't be bothered or worried because of social pressure. You said yourself that you aren't ready for things yet. Just accept that and go on from there. Nothing to be ashamed or worried about my friend.

Brandon-19Bi
November 2nd, 2017, 10:45 PM
What they all said ^

Hans_Olo
November 3rd, 2017, 02:11 AM
I wouldn't worry about it, it'll happen eventually. And as the virginity topic etc. I'm 17 and I've never done anything at all that could be considered intimate or sexual in any way with anyone, so I wouldn't worry.

Jordanchill
November 9th, 2017, 07:42 PM
There really is no rush when it comes to sex. Im 19 and I haven't done anything with anyone either. It's not because no opportunities have presented themselves, it is simply that I have not felt ready nor felt the need to lose my virginity. Before I can be comfortable being intimate with another person, I first need to be comfortable with myself, at least that's how I feel. There is nothing to be ashamed about being a virgin, it just means that when you do have an intimate experience with, hopefully someone you care about, it will make the moment more special. Ultimately, it will happen when it happens.

kro814
November 9th, 2017, 09:08 PM
Your time will come.

walter684
November 10th, 2017, 03:02 AM
dont rush it man it will happen eventually

Harrier
November 10th, 2017, 04:40 PM
I'm sure it's not easy being a late bloomer. I know you are frustrated. Still you sound like you have a fairly understanding handle on it

Falcons_11
November 10th, 2017, 05:41 PM
I wouldn't let it worry you. You have time for thing to begin happening for you. Just don't let it freak you out, Bro.

teenboyNathan
November 10th, 2017, 11:19 PM
It's alright bro. I'm 15 too and still haven't had sex yet

Turbofan explosion
November 11th, 2017, 12:27 AM
Don't be too worried. You will grow.

vandilization
November 16th, 2017, 09:00 PM
A lot of guys just say they lose it too to look cool but really didn't. I wouldn't make a contest out of it because I don't think a lot of girls would really appreciate guys bragging about it if it was true anyway.

KatieCO2003
November 16th, 2017, 11:31 PM
If it makes you feel any better, I live on a cattle ranch between two mountain ranges in West Bumblescrew, CO. My boyfriend lives in England. How much sex do you think we're had in the last year?

xXCaptainteemoXx
November 17th, 2017, 04:41 PM
You're 100% fine. Everyone is growing at their own rate. You should always be comfortable with your body and how you are.

Kaler100
November 18th, 2017, 06:44 PM
In a few months I will be sixteen I’m a pretty late starter only was able to cum like a year ago I’ve only ever had a 2 girlfriends and that was like when I was 12/13 so you can imagine what they where like. All the people at school are losing their virginity and even now people who I never expected to so soon have like I’ve never even kissed a girl outside spin the bottle and games like that. Mentally I’m ready for all this stuff but physicly i dont think my body is ready. It’s weird I think I started early than most but like didn’t go very fast so from people I’ve spoken to I seem to be one of the earliest to doscoher wanking. I guess I’m like not ready to be with anyone cause I’m not comfy able with own body I still got ‘baby fat’ like stuff my voice still high and my face is still really child like In the changin rooms I always see other boys and they got soo much more hair than me lit every where I feel about 2 years behind like I’m catching up now so I’m not worried I’m just annoyed my dad says it was terrible for him cause he was the youngest in the years and a late bloomer so he was behind people in the lower years. Ye don’t really know why I wrote this just venting I guess

don't panic. it's not a contest between u and ur friends
take ur time, and dont be disperate

SeansLittleBro
November 19th, 2017, 08:44 PM
Don't rush things. Your time will come and may be even better than if you had done something at a younger age. We all loose our virginity at different stages of our lives and there is no set time nor any reason to just try to loose it because everyone else is, or says they do.

Serioj8279
November 21st, 2017, 12:00 PM
I’m 18 and I have never done anything

lolshanedawson
November 24th, 2017, 03:09 PM
I wouldn't stress about it.

EatMyFace
December 23rd, 2017, 03:09 AM
It’s fine, do it when you think you’re ready, don’t get peer pressured

TWDjacob
December 29th, 2017, 11:35 PM
Don't rush it because everyone takes time even though it's frustrating. You'll know when your physically ready

Martainfey96
December 29th, 2017, 11:39 PM
Bruh I'm 18 and the only action I've gotten was with my right hand. Don't rush things and collapse to social pressure, and a worse case scenario just lie about it. I'm waiting for the right person not a one night stand