I made a friend and I made him cry :(

[Jrunner]

To make a long story short, I made a friend here, then we had an argument over something stupid, which stirred up some of my own depression issues, so I told him maybe we shouldn't talk so much. We live in different states so we've never met but we've become pretty close and we're both happy whenever we talk. But it made him sooo upset when I said that maybe we're too close, and I'm pretty sure he's crying his eyes out rt now, and his night is ruined. What have I done? What should I do?! I caused somebody pain and I shouldn't have and now I feel like I deserve all the hurt.

[Just JT]

Maybe send him a pm and try and talk through how you and him are feeling

[evansk8]

Yeah I think its as much his issue as it is yours. You are probably in a better place to reach out to him now and it's up to him to respond. But yeah he needs to face that his own sensitivity might be a bit too much. Hopefully it works out

[SethfromMI]

Try to reach out to him and express how you feel and try to make amends for any wrong doing. You don't have to compromise on what you believe, change your view, or any of that. Just say in the heat of the moment you said something you don't mean which it sounds like you don't, you just said it in the heat of the moment

[Dalcourt]

Yeah well as the others said, when you feel bad about what you said to your friend and feel you hurt him reach out and send a message to apologise and explain yourself.

[ska8er]

Message him and tell him ur
sorry and if he can forgive u
and continue to b friends. A lot
of us get into spats on here with
different people mainly because
we only have the words to know
someone and not come face to
face with one another. If u guys
can not save this then find a new
friend.

[NewLeafsFan]

If apologizing doesn't work, wait a while and try again.

[Jrunner]

Thanks guys we talked it out I was relieved

[jamie_n5]

I'm so happy for you. Friends do argue and have off days. I'm glad things worked out.