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Turbofan explosion
October 26th, 2017, 05:15 PM
Whenever I go to the pool, the locker room is full of kids who almost all of them are younger than me. I have pubic hair, and I haven't seen anyone in the locker room with pubic hair. Should I feel embarrassed to change nude in the locker room? And sorry if this is a bit off topic.:what:

pjones
October 26th, 2017, 05:44 PM
you shouldn't feel embarrassed, and you can always change quickly.

Slashman1
October 26th, 2017, 05:53 PM
no not at all most will likely be like so cool so dont worry about it just do it

kro814
October 26th, 2017, 06:21 PM
Why should you feel embarrassed? I don't have any pubic hair yet but my class is mixed. Some boys have hair or a lil fuzz and others are still bald like me. No body says anything. We all have the same parts.

joel02
October 26th, 2017, 06:48 PM
Whenever I go to the pool, the locker room is full of kids who almost all of them are younger than me. I have pubic hair, and I haven't seen anyone in the locker room with pubic hair. Should I feel embarrassed to change nude in the locker room? And sorry if this is a bit off topic.:what:

i know you because you are only you. but i think you must be proud. kids will have hairy when they will reach puberty

ska8er
October 26th, 2017, 07:21 PM
Y feel embarrassed. They probably r
younger than u and don't even care
how u look.

SethfromMI
October 26th, 2017, 07:25 PM
it means your getting older and going through puberty, there is nothing at all to be embarrassed about.

Turbofan explosion
October 26th, 2017, 08:50 PM
Almost everyone in the locker room are younger than me. If there were more people in the locker room who are at a similar age, I wouldn't be so embarrassed.

Lukaszislukasz
October 27th, 2017, 12:30 AM
Why be embarrassed? At some stage everybody else will get them, you’ve all got the same bits. No need to worry :D

varun.karma
October 27th, 2017, 01:56 AM
Whenever I go to the pool, the locker room is full of kids who almost all of them are younger than me. I have pubic hair, and I haven't seen anyone in the locker room with pubic hair. Should I feel embarrassed to change nude in the locker room? And sorry if this is a bit off topic.:what:

Its not embarrassing but if u feel self conscious then just shave it.

NewLeafsFan
October 27th, 2017, 02:07 AM
No. Everyone in the locker room will likely have pubic hair in the near future.

mick01
October 27th, 2017, 09:39 AM
Assuming that some of the kids are stealing looks at your pubic hair, they are probably in awe of you that you have pubes. Be proud, bro.

niceguy44
October 27th, 2017, 09:42 AM
You have nothing to feel embarassed about

Vic_Fire
October 27th, 2017, 10:34 AM
i think it's cool to have pubes but if you feel embaressed from having them u can just shave yours.

jamie_n5
October 27th, 2017, 11:36 AM
Why would you feel embarrassed? You are older and expected to have pubes. The younger guys would know that and think nothing of it.

heymynameis
October 27th, 2017, 01:43 PM
that is the exact same with me at my swimming club, none of them have hit puberty. I just keep doing it and don't really mind. they will look, but to me i don't care too much

user-999
October 27th, 2017, 02:09 PM
I mean it's part of growing up, every one of those boys will have hair down there someday. You shouldn't be ashamed about that.

Zachary G
October 27th, 2017, 02:24 PM
so what they are younger than you, its not like you are exposing yourself to them, you are just changing your clothes. Nothing to be ashamed of or embarrassed about. DO what you gotta do and get out.

Jake445
October 27th, 2017, 02:59 PM
Hey, I'm also 13 and you shouldn't be ashamed.
If you don't like it. just start shaving like I do.

zzzzzzzzzz
October 27th, 2017, 04:30 PM
they'll look and be curious. Don't worry

Sean2
October 27th, 2017, 05:15 PM
Whenever I go to the pool, the locker room is full of kids who almost all of them are younger than me. I have pubic hair, and I haven't seen anyone in the locker room with pubic hair. Should I feel embarrassed to change nude in the locker room? And sorry if this is a bit off topic.:what:

Of course not. They are probably jealous of you because you have hair.

ska8er
October 27th, 2017, 06:21 PM
Almost everyone in the locker room are younger than me. If there were more people in the locker room who are at a similar age, I wouldn't be so embarrassed.

Ur just the opposite of some guys who r self
conscious of having to change in locker rooms
or being naked in the showers of the same
age. If the-
younger guys r looking at u-they probably
have not seen another guy with pubes. As I
said before u need not b embarrassed and I
would "not" shave pubes that probably u just
got. I think I would b proud to have younger
ones paying attention.

Turbofan explosion
October 27th, 2017, 06:37 PM
Ur just the opposite of some guys who r self
conscious of having to change in locker rooms
or being naked in the showers of the same
age. If the-
younger guys r looking at u-they probably
have not seen another guy with pubes. As I
said before u need not b embarrassed and I
would "not" shave pubes that probably u just
got. I think I would b proud to have younger
ones paying attention.

Ok. Previously, I would change in a corner because I didn't want someone seeing pubic hair. I am fine with someone seeing my penis or buttocks though.

JackB
October 27th, 2017, 08:49 PM
Yeah it could make u feel odd, maybe just shave or trim if you feel uncomfortable

ska8er
October 27th, 2017, 09:59 PM
Ok. Previously, I would change in a corner because I didn't want someone seeing pubic hair. I am fine with someone seeing my penis or buttocks though.

I understand that u r self conscious but
after awhile u will get used to it and it
wont matter. For now when ur changing
y not turn ur back to them or cover ur self
with something like a shirt or even a towel
while putting on ur underwear.

INACTIVEchaosphere
October 27th, 2017, 11:54 PM
Whenever I go to the pool, the locker room is full of kids who almost all of them are younger than me. I have pubic hair, and I haven't seen anyone in the locker room with pubic hair. Should I feel embarrassed to change nude in the locker room? And sorry if this is a bit off topic.:what:
No, it's your body, and that's what locker rooms are for, you should rock that nude look haha. Pubic hair either means you're at a later stage of maturity or that the guys who can grow it choose to shave. Whether they can't grow it or you don't want to shave, neither is a reason to be embarrassed.

Hansolo
October 29th, 2017, 03:48 PM
You’re fine personally i’ll probably just change as normal and if people ask just explain to them that they’ll get it soon

Turbofan explosion
October 29th, 2017, 05:32 PM
Thanks for all your advice

Hans_Olo
October 29th, 2017, 06:00 PM
Pubic hair isn't anything to be ashamed of, and no decent person will judge you for having any.
If it really bothers you, you could always shave it off, though there really isn't any need

Michael I
October 29th, 2017, 06:24 PM
Everybody else will catch up with you before long. For now, you’re lucky your dick is hairy. The other guys are envious, I’m sure.

Nnoki
October 30th, 2017, 12:01 AM
if someone tries to make fun of you, just say "in some years, you will be like this"
It is natural, it is just puberty and still, they're kids, maybe they will be more impressed

EthanK
October 30th, 2017, 05:21 AM
Man you should be proud of your bush! It means your becoming a man. I am also thirteen but i have a fear of being seen naked and judged so i change in the toilet stall

scott2002
October 30th, 2017, 06:13 AM
Just do what all the shy boys do:

1. Put on first (or leave on) your shirt (a long shirt) before you take off your pants or swim trunks and then put back on your pants or swim trunks. This will keep your dick-area hidden for the few seconds that you have nothing on covering your dick.

2. Just face the wall when you're about to get naked, so that they can only see your bare butt and not your dick.

Dan_2004
October 30th, 2017, 04:14 PM
Whenever I go to the pool, the locker room is full of kids who almost all of them are younger than me. I have pubic hair, and I haven't seen anyone in the locker room with pubic hair. Should I feel embarrassed to change nude in the locker room? And sorry if this is a bit off topic.:what:

Wear ur pubes with pride😂 that was cringer but seriously it’s fine to have pubic hair it’s just puberty

kro814
October 30th, 2017, 09:25 PM
Shy boys get teased here specially if they try and get outta showering with everyone. No way to cover up in showers.

kro814
November 14th, 2017, 08:51 PM
I wouldn't shave just cuz someone is looking at your pubes.

Turbofan explosion
November 15th, 2017, 06:56 PM
I wouldn't shave just cuz someone is looking at your pubes.

I don't shave either

Falcons_11
November 15th, 2017, 10:32 PM
Don't feel embarrassment if you got pubes and they don't. Probably some of them have older bros and have seen them with pubes. The rest probably are aware that older kids have pubes. I wouldn't worry about this if I were you.

Surferbicep17
November 15th, 2017, 11:08 PM
don't be embarrassed if anything be proud because they are probably jealous

Kaler100
November 18th, 2017, 06:55 PM
Whenever I go to the pool, the locker room is full of kids who almost all of them are younger than me. I have pubic hair, and I haven't seen anyone in the locker room with pubic hair. Should I feel embarrassed to change nude in the locker room? And sorry if this is a bit off topic.:what:

that's fine, act normal, because they r smaller than u :p

Maurice998
November 19th, 2017, 05:47 AM
I know it’s hard to not be embarrassed but don’t be, everyone gets public hair

SeansLittleBro
November 19th, 2017, 08:42 PM
In an open locker room other guys will always check each other out. Don't feel embarrassed because they are younger and since they are swimming it is a good chance they have seen others....you can't control your growth and how you look and just get into your suit quickly if this bothers you

adlop
November 20th, 2017, 02:20 AM
Don't worry about it. I used to be in the same position and for a while I had your exact same worries but quickly realized it is actually no big deal.

lolshanedawson
November 24th, 2017, 03:16 PM
I've been on both sides from swim team, when I was younger and hairless, I would stare and be curious about the older kid's size and hair, but noone tried to hide it. Now that I have pubes and younger kids look at my dick, I don't hide it, it makes you feel kinda good to be bigger and hairier than the rest.

The Stalwart
November 24th, 2017, 03:55 PM
You’re fine, bro. Your perspective will change soon. At 16, I’d be embarrassed to change in a locker room in front of other guys if I didn’t have lots of pubic hair.

Chetz
November 25th, 2017, 06:56 PM
Nothing to be embarrassed. Those kids would eventually have pubic hair once they reached puberty.

CuriousBoy15
November 29th, 2017, 11:59 PM
No, you shouldn't be embarrassed. Be proud. Strut your stuff.

Turbofan explosion
December 5th, 2017, 10:00 PM
Thanks for all your input!

baseball1
December 6th, 2017, 03:53 PM
Why be embaressed...its gonna happen tl them eventually

Turbofan explosion
December 6th, 2017, 06:21 PM
Why be embaressed...its gonna happen tl them eventually

True

toby69
December 6th, 2017, 10:23 PM
If I were you I would be proud of my pubic hair. Enjoy it. Soon the boys there without it will be happy also when they get it.

quickquoteit
December 7th, 2017, 02:41 AM
I would only be embarrassed about being overweight versus naked in general.

scott2002
December 7th, 2017, 07:43 AM
I remember when, I think I was 9, I was changing in the boy's locker room at a YMCA pool and there were some older boys in there running around naked. They had big hairy ones and to me, I thought they must be high school boys. But now I realize they were no older than 13 or 14. But I was in awe of how impressive they looked down there. So let the younger guys view in amazement your development.

Hockeystar2020
December 7th, 2017, 04:19 PM
They might look just bc there curious but I would not be embarrassed by it

rwd83182
December 10th, 2017, 04:46 PM
I just change quickly but I don't hide or anything so other kids might see my pubes - it doesn't really bother me. I know when I was younger I always was curious and kind of jealous of the older kids who already had pubes. I don't think the younger kids would think its weird if they saw your pubes - if anything they might think its cool you have some,

OldNewGuy
December 10th, 2017, 05:15 PM
I usually don’t change in public locker rooms like that.

elfin
January 6th, 2018, 05:36 PM
I had the same problem as you when I started changing nude in my locker room. I'm older than most of my peers and I was an early bloomer. You can probably guess that I attracted attention in the locker room. I was a little embarrassed at first, but everybody got used to everybody else pretty quickly. Some kids that had previously been pretty private in their changing grew more carefree over time after realizing that everyone had the same junk, just developing at different rates. And hey, I wouldn't worry about having pubes when others don't; they'll catch up eventually, and it can be kinda fun to be ahead of the game ;-)

hope this helps!~

crushinator
January 6th, 2018, 05:37 PM
why be embarrassed

Jrunner
January 6th, 2018, 05:41 PM
Nah if I had to change in front of a bunch of younger guys w no pubes I'd be walking around lettin it swing lol. But srsly you'll get over the embarrassment

rohancool
January 6th, 2018, 05:45 PM
No, you should not let other people opinion change what you want to do. If you are shy they don't do it. If you are thinking how other's will judge then it does not make sense and should not effect your choices. Like I don't use locker rooms because I am shy not because of how others will think of me.

WeebOOF
January 6th, 2018, 05:50 PM
You should just get on with what your doing in there, don't feel pressured, if they look they are just curious so leave them too it, if they come over tell them you want your privacy space

Chefzg
January 7th, 2018, 04:54 PM
Don't worry

hockeyref867
June 12th, 2019, 01:00 AM
Nothing to be embarrassed of, I’d bet that they’ll look up to you, as for what they will develop into