how old

[amyyd]

i was wondering what was the normal for when people usually start trying bjs?

[Turbofan explosion]

What is bjs?

[Barbara.]

What is bjs?

Short for blowjobs

[BlackParadePixie]

there is no set, or normal age. it's different for every person, and what sort of experiences you want to have.

[nnoooooooopppeee]

I gave a guy my first blowjob at sixteen. I'm sure there are other people who gave/received their first bj earlier or later, and some who have never experienced blowjobs. All are acceptable, regardless of age.

[darla]

i gave my first one at 13

[ska8er]

When the right person
comes along.

[jen698]

i gave my first bj at 13

[varun.karma]

i was wondering what was the normal for when people usually start trying bjs?

Well im 14 and ive gotten a bj from my girlfriend but i would say 15 or 16 or 17 depending on what your partner is like. This is just information from the guys and gals who are older than me.

[sara___]

Just after I turned 14 I gave my first BJ. I had no idea what I was doing and was pretty scared. But that was me, everyone does things at their own pace.

[mick01]

I was 13 when I gave and received.

[stoneflowe96]

I was 16 and personaly I find 13 a bit to young.

[jamie_n5]

I would say no certain age. It would be when the opportunity comes along I would say.

[Zachary G]

i was 12 first time i gave and received

[Taryn98]

I was 13 first time

[shy_indian_chick]

i was 14

[Jonnieboy909]

13 when i first did it and got one

[Claire Asteroid]

I'm 19 and I've never done that, I don't want to either. Don't let others make you think you should if you don't want to.

[kimmykim]

i was 13

[Falcons_11]

I was 12 for both giving and receiving.

[kyrocks03]

I was 11 for both giving and receiving.

[JacobJ]

I’m 14 and have never gotten one but I know some guys in my grade who have, but only a few. Hopefully soon!

[logan2002]

I was 12 when I got my first book, also gave one at 12

[Triple k]

I'm 13 and I haven't given a boy a BJ yet but I want to. I think I'm ready to do it and I want to do it. All I need is the right guy to do it too. I'm not afraid of having a penis in my mouth or having the guy finish in my mouth. What I'm afraid of is people somehow finding out that I actually did it.

[Roel]

Had my first at 15 from mt then gf.. never gave one, doubt I ever will.

[martasd]

I was 16

[scott2002]

I was 13 when I gave and received.
Me too. I was also 13 first time giving and getting a BJ. Someone did mine and I loved it. Then he expected me to return the favor, and I did.

[Alisha_]

I'm 13 and I haven't given a boy a BJ yet but I want to. I think I'm ready to do it and I want to do it. All I need is the right guy to do it too. I'm not afraid of having a penis in my mouth or having the guy finish in my mouth. What I'm afraid of is people somehow finding out that I actually did it.

Pretty much the same for me.

[TessTheGreat]

I'm 13 and I haven't given a boy a BJ yet but I want to. I think I'm ready to do it and I want to do it. All I need is the right guy to do it too. I'm not afraid of having a penis in my mouth or having the guy finish in my mouth. What I'm afraid of is people somehow finding out that I actually did it.

I'm the same age but I don't want to do it yet. It sounds horrible tbh.

[scott2002]

I read about a study that found that when a boy and girl get to the point in their relationship where the girl starts giving the boy BJ's, there's about an 80% probability they'll proceed to vaginal intercourse within 6 months. So, be careful with doing this, girls.

[KatieKat]

Still waiting! Not that I'm rushin to it, one day.

[jonsnowman]

technically i was 5, but it was playing doctor with a neighbor girl and we didnt know what it was so i dont think it counts. first real one was when i was 14

[kadencole]

I was young, experimenting with someone. But if both parties are ok with it, I don't think it matters. Don't ever feel forced to do it and don't force others :)

[AmyP]

This year with my 1st ever bf - both 16 - his first too. I was nervous at 1st. I love doing it now especially seeing the look on his face. He takes care of me now too :)

[wrecked]

I'm the same age but I don't want to do it yet. It sounds horrible tbh.

Maybe someday you will feel differently

[hayley2003]

i prefer doing other things that we both enjoy. i have sucked on the tip part before.

[bonbon]

I'd say the proper age is when you feel ready to do it.

[katie3]

I don't think there is a "normal" age, personally I was 13

[ThereseFrei]

I way 10yo

[Miss Ophelia]

I was 15.
Havent done it since.

[Impressionist1910]

i was wondering what was the normal for when people usually start trying bjs?

I got my first one when I was 14 or 15.
Can't remember exactly.

[some]

different for everyone

[pjones]

got and gave first time when i was 12 or just 13

[Adarest]

Never got one, never gave one and I'm 17, so my guess is if you feel comfy with the guy you're with, then just let it happen naturally.

[Ashley16]

I think you should be at least 16, but it's a personal choice

[SeansLittleBro]

Don't think you can say that there is a NORMAL age where that begins...with boys I believe it is earlier than girls for the obvious reasons that 1) there is more private time being the same gender 2) knowledge of equipment and how it feels and 3) boys experimenting with boys their age.... I gave my first one and received it when I was 11 though to answer that part

[caseyislame]

I was 13 when i first gave one

[loki2000]

The normal is more like the when it happens and that your comfortable with the person . I started at 10 giving and receiving . Every ones different . Seems most are around 13 and up.

[Max the Disenchanter]

last month =D

[Misssmithy]

I was 12 I did not like the end part at the time.

[The Stalwart]

I guess I’m a late bloomer. I got my first blowjob at 16.

[Angelrow]

Gave and received at 13 but agree with most that it depends on you and who you with

[Angelrow]

That’s very young .who you do ?

[Angelrow]

I way 10yo
That’s very young .who you do ?

[Kevgpdx]

I was 15 when I got my first blowjob.

[liberal raj]

i was 11 when i gave one to my straight frnd. i gave and received from a bi frnd when i was 14. but i have not got one from a girl as i don't have a gf. still waiting for that day.ha ha ha.

[Cassius16]

I received one age 14

[toby69]

I was 13. Received it from a buddy and repaid him after he showed me how.

[wrestleboy13]

last month =D

Was it good?

[ImJulia]

Not gonna lie putting one in my mouth does not seem enjoyable. But I shouldn't hate it if I haven't tried it.

[Smithey]

still havent had one yet

[Freshavacado]

I was 12 when I gave and received

I'm 13 and I haven't given a boy a BJ yet but I want to. I think I'm ready to do it and I want to do it. All I need is the right guy to do it too. I'm not afraid of having a penis in my mouth or having the guy finish in my mouth. What I'm afraid of is people somehow finding out that I actually did it.

Hey, don’t be scared! If people find out, the can’t do anything but talk. Besides most people have experimented something sexually by 13

Posts merged use the edit button next time, please

[NudistFun]

i was wondering what was the normal for when people usually start trying bjs?

Not sure there's an average age. I was quite young

[ImJulia]

Some people on here were so young

[EvaNL]

Not gonna lie putting one in my mouth does not seem enjoyable. But I shouldn't hate it if I haven't tried it.

Sounds like you're not ready for it, and that's totally fine. Don't do it until you feel you are ready. Don't let yourself be pushed by anyone. There's plenty of time to do it. And even if you'd never do it: that's fine too!

[ImJulia]

Sounds like you're not ready for it, and that's totally fine. Don't do it until you feel you are ready. Don't let yourself be pushed by anyone. There's plenty of time to do it. And even if you'd never do it: that's fine too!

I have considered doing it for my bf Idk

[INACTIVEchaosphere]

i was wondering what was the normal for when people usually start trying bjs?

There's no set age, it depends on the emotional maturity of the people who consent to participating. Some people are more mature and can handle that kind of interaction and start sooner, and some start later after maturing a little more.

[WeebOOF]

I have never received a blow job, what is it like?

[Leena_2003]

I'm 13 and I haven't given a boy a BJ yet but I want to. I think I'm ready to do it and I want to do it. All I need is the right guy to do it too. I'm not afraid of having a penis in my mouth or having the guy finish in my mouth. What I'm afraid of is people somehow finding out that I actually did it.

I feel much the same. When I have a boyfriend one day and the time is right, I will be open to do it. Only, I don't think I want him to finish into my mouth, so I'm not sure how that part will go. And like you, until I am 16 or older, I probably won't want the whole world to know about it.

[Shamal]

I gave and got one when I was 13 I think but people start at different times.

[benster]

16 in england is legal age to do it but probably just when u both want to

[YoungHypebeast]

When they feel ready

[thatrandomguy01]

I'm 16 and haven't given or received one, but if a girl I liked offered me one, I probably would accept it.

[Aaswim]

never had one

[HardCandyGirl]

I was too young, I shouldn't, but it was kind of someone made me... I didn't know exactly what I was doing... :( so don't rush, do it because you really want and when you feel you're ready, no matter if you are 20 years old

[LITTLEANGEL19]

Dani your English ok so don't worry about it.
HAVE A GREAT WEEKEND
XX

[gina_g]

I was 13 the 1st time

[Kiki03]

I just recently gave my first one so 14. It wasnt a bf tho. I was just curious about it after talking w one of my friends who had done it so I asked a guy I know if I could try it on him. He let me and I guess I did good because he finished. Ive done it to him 2 more times since then.

[MikaylaP]

I would say 'normal' is hard to pin down...but this stuff usually starts happening when both sexes are hitting puberty

[Franciscofixe]

Never did. I am 15

[gymgurl]

Well i dont feel to bad, im under the 13 average lol

[Thickd99]

I got my first one at age 12, also ate the girl out afterwards there isn't really a standard age but it definitely is a fun way to embrace sexuality

[MasonBA]

me and my friends started at 12

[FairportDan]

I've never had one... but want to GIVE one and get one so badly!

[Jordan99]

Seems like several on here started at pretty young ages so I guess I was a late starter at 15 but, I really loved it and still love it now.

[Svladimere074]

I started around ten eleven. But I think its not more so on age but maturity and readiness.

[NotSky]

I was 10 and my cousin was 11. We were curious. That's all.

[Cheergurl2002]

I did last year was 15

[Alumni]

I've met girls who have said that they gave their 1st BJ at 12-13. However, they're also the same ones who are pregnant at 15 so I'm fairly sure that it's up to you, as long as you're careful about it.

Never gave one but was offered one, however, I kinda got nervous and didn't take the offer because I wouldn't want a BJ from someone I'm not familiar with (or really in general at this point, in context).


(Inb4 someone says 'a BJ isn't sex tho', well yes I know that but it's just the feelings that kinda lead from one thing to another, you never know peeps)

[scottishlooby]

Whenever you feel comfortable and are happy with what you are doing

[Caro2004]

I was 12 when I gave my first one. It was about 6 months later before a guy went down on me properly.

[BasketballD]

I haven't gotten one yet :-/

[Luke02]

I was 13 the first time i gave and received

[neema_pn]

my first time i think 11 age

[kyrocks03]

Started sucking in experimentation with another boy when I was 11, but it wasn't till I was 12 that I had an orgasm from it, or gave a boy an orgasm doing it. Not sure if the orgasm is required to qualify as a blow job or not.

[ClaireHofmann]

I was 13 when I gave my first BJ too, it was on the same day when a boy went down on me for the first time. I had already given and received oral sex from other girls.

[John_Lewis2001]

I was 14 and returned the same day on her

[Brandon618]

I gave and received my first like about a month and a half ago and I'll be 14 in June.

[FameMonster]

I guess I was a late bloomer. Gave and received my first BJ when I was 20.

[TracyD2004]

I was 12 when I gave my first BJ

[Chris2005]

13 and never have

[abcdeqwe]

The first and only time someone sucked my dick, I was 15. I have never sucked a dick

[Devinsoccer]

16 haven't done anything

[Pultost]

I don't think there's a final answer to that. I'm 14, haven't done it yet, but I know of 12 year olds who have, and I know some don't until they're in their 20's or something.

[SamMystic]

Got my first at 11 or 12 I think, shortly after that I gave my first

[GeorgiPeev03]

I'm 15 and I haven't received/given (I don't think I would) one.

[gurquenjen]

It's really whatever age you're comfortable starting at, truly...and if it is not something you are comfortable doing, then don't do it--though I'll say that you are missing out because oral sex is fantastic in my opinion. I was giving and receiving oral when I was 11, but only with other girls because at the time I just wasn't really attracted to boys my age (and I didn't want to be the girl known for going up to older boys and offering them blowjobs, because taking that title away from my older sister would have been rude). I was 14 when I started going down on guys, and I think that for me that was the right age, though looking back I missed out on an opportunity or two when I was a year younger but, missed-sexual-hindsight is 20:20.

[MiniYoda]

Some girl I knew gave one at 16

[Mollypop]

I didn't want to be the girl known for going up to older boys and offering them blowjobs, because taking that title away from my older sister would have been rude

OK I seriously laughed out loud at that

[gurquenjen]

OK I seriously laughed out loud at that

Well she has a reputation that she earned and I respect her too much to take that from her. Also I've never been as anatomically fascinated by boys (I mean, don't get me wrong, sometimes they are just wonderful creatures, but, really, otherwise, meh) as she has.

[KristenS]

I was 12 when i gave my first one.

[LoganR15]

I gave and received my first like about a month and a half ago and I'll be 14 in June.

that's awesome man!

[blackashday]

i was 12 when i had 69 bj with a friend

[Kody]

Like everyone else has said, there is no set age for anything sexual. I got my first one when i was 12 but have never given one.

[pumpkineater34]

I'm legit 16 and I have never given someone a BJ... I'm a virgin also hhaha

[Ajmichael]

12/13 when I first gave and received

[TXRoss]

i haven't given or gotten one yet :(

[Anna Kadlecova]

14 yo on boy, 12 yo on girl

[everlong]

i was 14 when i got my first

[JohnnyMac]

I received my first blow job when I was 12. I gave my first when I was 13

[Matthew222]

i was 17 when first received it

[Anna Kadlecova]

14 yo

[Katie2003]

I finally did my first one a couple days ago, at 15 years and 2 months. Don't know why I had been so hesitant, it turned out to be just fine and I'd do it again.

[Claire Asteroid]

I finally did my first one a couple days ago, at 15 years and 2 months. Don't know why I had been so hesitant, it turned out to be just fine and I'd do it again.

I hope it went all right, I still think I wouldn't like to put it in my mouth.

[Katie2003]

I hope it went all right, I still think I wouldn't like to put it in my mouth.

That's exactly what I was hesitant about, having seen my boyfriend naked and knowing the size of his penis. But it turned out not to be any issue at all once I did it. Fear of what it would be like was greatly exaggerated in my mind.

It was way better than I expected when it happened. :)

[Karli]

I was 14

[Char03]

I was 14 too

[tinkerkell]

I was 12 when I gave my first blowjob, same goes for both my younger sisters
My older sisters were 13-14

[wrecked]

I was 12 when I gave my first BJ

wow u were young

[inactiveguy678]

12 to a girl received at same age too.

[MagicGinnySurprise]

I was 10, same age as I got eaten out first

[annababy02]

I gave my first BJ at 15

[geanyna]

I was 12.

[gina_g]

I gave my 1st bi when I was 13.

Inappropriate content removed. ~nebula

[Adler]

Received at 14
Never gave one...

[Tim the Enchanter]

Well I am 13 and I have neither given or received.

[Jameson9]

I have yet to receive one but like what a lot of others said, there is really no set she, it all depends on you and how comfortable u are

[Karmic]

I think I was around 12 or 13. Kinda wish it was later in life lol.

[rangerohio1]

I got mine at 14

[Taylormade]

I gave my first at 14. I received a few weeks later. I didn't swallow the first time but I did after that.

[Coping]

I gave and received for the first time when I was 12.

[Lionidas60]

I received my first at 14

[Tsall]

I received my first one when I was 13. She was 14, and we were in my room while my parents were home. Kinda risky.

[shawn1234]

Havent had one yet or given. from the previous answers i feel like i have fallen behind:/

[HeyYo]

Havent had one yet or given. from the previous answers i feel like i have fallen behind:/

Nah, you haven't fallen behind. Go at your own pace. And, knowing this site, some, if not most, of the people here aren't being truthful. ;)

Oh, almost forgot to add that I was 15, almost 16 the first time I received and gave a bj.

[shawn1234]

Nah, you haven't fallen behind. Go at your own pace. And, knowing this site, some, if not most, of the people here aren't being truthful. ;)

Oh, almost forgot to add that I was 15, almost 16 the first time I received and gave a bj.

Thanks, glad to hear, not much to be blown here anyway:D

[ClaireHofmann]

I was 13 when I gave my first blowjob.

[ChloeF]

That's exactly what I was hesitant about, having seen my boyfriend naked and knowing the size of his penis. But it turned out not to be any issue at all once I did it. Fear of what it would be like was greatly exaggerated in my mind.

It was way better than I expected when it happened. :)


Yeah, fear is the biggest thing to overcome but actually doing it isn't that difficult.

[Jordan99]

Yeah, fear is the biggest thing to overcome but actually doing it isn't that difficult.

Plus it's fun:metal:

[Emilyyy]

I would say whenever you are ready but any time from 13 onwards seems normal. I would personally wait until 15

[teen110]

usualy teens who are 13 or older. kids in 7th grade that I know have asked people.

[imanopenbook]

I was 10 giving and getting but to young to know what was really happening with how it's supposed to feel.

[CharlesB]

I was 15

[rangerohio1]

I got my first one at14 by a 13 year old

[big-girls-dont-cry]

i gave my first BJ when i was 13 1/2 yrs old.

[Gabrielle1]

I'm 13 and I haven't given a boy a BJ yet but I want to. I think I'm ready to do it and I want to do it. All I need is the right guy to do it too. I'm not afraid of having a penis in my mouth or having the guy finish in my mouth. What I'm afraid of is people somehow finding out that I actually did it.

Pretty much the same here as well

[Mark smith]

i was 14 first time i gave and received

[Triple k]

Pretty much the same here as well

Well. i've done it more then a few times since the time i wrote the answer you quoted and i don't regret it. All i can say i when your ready.........you will know the time is right

[chirishlassie731]

All i can say i when your ready.........you will know the time is right

This is really so true. There's no such thing as being too old to have not given a blowjob yet, and there's also no reason to be ashamed if you gave your first one when you were younger than most people. As long as the guy is around the right age, and most importantly, you don't feel forced or coerced into the situation, then everything is fine. Everyone is different and is ready for different things at different ages. I know a girl who's 16 and hasn't given a blowjob yet, but she's had anal sex for years. Different, yes, but wrong, no

[Apple_ManPS3]

I was 16 and personaly I find 13 a bit to young.

I’m sorry to say but I know people whom have had BJs at like 10. I personally, haven’t had one but would like to get one soon.

[JustHaveFun]

I think it would be fun but I haven't done it yet.

[KatieCO2003]

almost 15 and haven't yet... but I want to with my boyfriend

[gina_g]

I’m sorry to say but I know people whom have had BJs at like 10. I personally, haven’t had one but would like to get one soon.

I'm sure you will find the right person in time......... remember no matter how much you want it you should never pressure someone to do it.

[ThereseFrei]

I was 10 yo. Maybe I started too early...

[Apple_ManPS3]

I'm sure you will find the right person in time......... remember no matter how much you want it you should never pressure someone to do it.

Very true, because it will feel even worse then. 0 Pleasure whatsoever

[gina_g]

Very true, because it will feel even worse then. 0 Pleasure whatsoever

:):):):):)

[Gabrielle1]

I was 10 yo. Maybe I started too early...

No that’s not to early you were just curious I would’ve done it at that age if I had the chance

[Mark smith]

First tim 13 give and received

[wrecked]

almost 15 and haven't yet... but I want to with my boyfriend

if you want to do it and it's your own choice why haven't you tried it yet?

[KatieCO2003]

he lives in Manchester, UK and I live in the mountains of CO.

[RCT109]

he lives in Manchester, UK and I live in the mountains of CO.

congrats on a long distance

[TrueCharlie14]

I don't know, I haven't received or given one but I would not mind getting one recently.

[Triple k]

i prefer doing other things that we both enjoy. i have sucked on the tip part before.

Have you tried doing more yet?

[Kaja Fialiva]

Have you tried doing more yet?

And you?
Are you still virgin or you tried vaginal sex?

[Skier2234]

I never have yet nobody wants to

[ImXur-girl]

I was 13 my 1st time :)

[Triple k]

And you?
Are you still virgin or you tried vaginal sex?

I'm still a virgin

[KyleM76]

I was 13.

[Jeff8]

I don't know, I haven't received or given one but I would not mind getting one recently.

Same here, I DEFINITELY want to do it, with a boy. I have with a girl. Was not all that into it.

[Jessi03]

I've never done it and I'm a virgin too.

[EmilyM]

13 for me

[ImXur-girl]

13 for me

It seems like alot of us tried it when we were 13

[EmilyM]

It seems like alot of us tried it when we were 13

Yes 13 was a fun year for me haha

[Nycchick]

12 for me

[nickerasic]

i am 16 and did not have one yet

[Jazmine03]

I was 13

[SarahSweetie]

i was 10 when i gave my first

[Anomaly6]

No specific age I guess but I'd wait until I was 16 at least..

[MaxFord]

Never had one sadly

#foreveralone

[lok444]

I think I had my first when I was 15

[MagicGinnySurprise]

I’m sorry to say but I know people whom have had BJs at like 10. I personally, haven’t had one but would like to get one soon.

I don't see why that would be a problem. I know plenty of people who give and receive oral around that age. It's fun, it's relatively safe, I don't know why it would be an issue. I gave my first at 9, not forced or anything, it's just a fun way to explore with friends.

[KateMarshal]

16yo

[Sharpkakie]

I gave my first at 13

[Maddie2000]

I started giving blowjobs at 13 :)

[MaxD]

Ya, I had my first when I was 13, she was also 13

[Jericho14]

I had my first one 2 days ago.

[Triple k]

It looks like a lot of us started around 13 . I wonder if that age is the same for women of my Moms generation too.

[AshleighB]

I was 13

[Pultost]

I gave my first one about a month ago, so that'll be 14.

[Maddie2000]

It looks like a lot of us started around 13 . I wonder if that age is the same for women of my Moms generation too.

That’s a very interesting question lol