So you can say I got screwed..

[Wishbone77]

Well here is the deal, I have had a thing for this girl for some quite time now, about 3-4 months. Anyways, she has been dating this guy for about 4 months, and well she found out her boyfriend had been cheating on her. When she found out she basically became sick to her stomache and yeah. She broke up with him the following day. So when I found this out, of course I was very sorry for the girl because I've have known her for a while and didn't like to see her like this. And even though that I felt bad for her, I was actually sort of glad it happened, because it now gave me the oppurtunity to make a move in time.

However, here is where it gets bad for me, I wake up the next morning to find out that she was going to take him back because he had apologized to her, and I found this to be quite shocking, cause in my view, He had promised not to cheat on her before, and then it happened. Now I say to her, what makes her think it wont happen again if he says he means it this time.

So basically, anyone got any advice for me, cause in my point of view, I'm just as screwed as I was before this whole inconent happened.

[gilly]

he's a douchebag so it's up to u to win her by just showing her how much better u r. if she seriously is going 2 want 2 stay w/ an arse than that's her prob. win her over by being the bigger guy & not the immature tard. simple. losers never win unless its 2 losers together.

[Gumleaf]

sometimes if they are in love they will accept apologies. there is really nothing you can do at this point other then be supportive of her.

[tombstonequeen]

u have to lay it on the line and tell her how you feel
tell her u don't like how he treats her that he isn't a man he is acting like a small child and it feels like a smack on the hand just to take him back just because he said sorry?
nope a cheater is a liar and can not be trusted