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jombo
March 4th, 2014, 05:37 PM
I'm very happy when I talk to her, but she doesn't feel the same way. I feel pathetic because of that, and I'm just wasting my emotions so what do I do? Stop contact? We're online friends so it'd be easier.

PurpleLips
March 4th, 2014, 05:39 PM
no just be friends, maybe she'll change her mind

blacknite
March 4th, 2014, 05:42 PM
I have been where you have been. Trying asking her "Hey, is everything alright?" or something like that.

Harley Quinn
March 4th, 2014, 05:44 PM
I'm very happy when I talk to her, but she doesn't feel the same way. I feel pathetic because of that, and I'm just wasting my emotions so what do I do? Stop contact? We're online friends so it'd be easier.

Well it depends on if you'd feel better if you didn't have contact with her, however, if you want to remain friends, remain friends. Sure, she doesn't have the same feelings you do but that doesn't mean the friendship has to terminate. You could always talk to her about it and see how that goes. Ultimately, you have to do what's best for you and what makes you personally happy.

Dwemer
March 4th, 2014, 07:27 PM
Unless its purely onesided I wouldnt stop contact with her. Who knows she can change her mind. I know it might feel easier to remove her but perhaps u will regret it later.

xban
March 4th, 2014, 07:40 PM
Don't give up man