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boy19
October 18th, 2017, 04:59 AM
Yesterday was my best friends birthday
I went his house for one day.
As we were drunk we remove our cloths and start jerking and sucking each other.
Now I am feeling guilty
Before that I never allow to touch my penis to any boy

Is this is cheating with my gf
Should I tell about it to my gf

Is this type of thing happens with you ?

sush1996
October 18th, 2017, 05:06 AM
Keep it secret..
And if you love that you should try it
It is just experiment

I don't suck anyone's but I allow to suck my penis to my best friend
I just love touching & jerking other boys .

zzzzzzzzzz
October 18th, 2017, 05:06 AM
I've never drunk before. From what I read people do very stupid things when they are drunk sometimes. Unless you have any feelings that way for your friend, and unless he brings it up, I'd just leave it

ChillaxBoy17
October 18th, 2017, 05:17 AM
Why feel guilty? As long as it was consensual and you both enjoyed it, whats your problem? :)

varun.karma
October 18th, 2017, 07:52 AM
Well at least now you know what you enjoy having sexual relations with guys and girls. Don't be worried about it both of you guys probably loved it.

Fourth
October 18th, 2017, 08:02 AM
Maybe the reason why you're feeling guilty is because you're drunk. You shouldn't feel bad because a part of you (well, the drunk part) wanted to explore your sexuality. We're young, it's a part of it.

Abcde1234
October 18th, 2017, 08:06 AM
I’d keep quiet. If you really love your gf, then theres no point telling her something which will probably end the relationship. As long as what you did didn’t mean anything to you ( ie you don’t want to do it again) then I’d say keep it to yourself

ska8er
October 18th, 2017, 01:28 PM
If u drink and get drunk some
guys as well as girls do crazy
things that they regret the next
day. U did what u did and there
is no reason to tell anyone. If it
weirds u out then don't get drunk
again.

jamie_n5
October 18th, 2017, 01:37 PM
It is just experimenting and having fun. When you drink you loosen up and do silly things sometimes. I wouldn't tell your GF or anyone about it. It's just between you and your friend. If you liked it then I would do it again if he wants to.

Turbofan explosion
October 18th, 2017, 03:50 PM
It is likely experimenting.

noah.whynot
October 18th, 2017, 06:49 PM
Sometimes people do things when they've been drinking that they might not do otherwise because they feel too self conscious or restrained. You feel guilty, but you didn't say how your friend feels, are things awkward between the two of you now? Did you enjoy it? It's normal to be curious and experiment, it doesn't have to mean anything more than that.

At this point I would not say anything to your girlfriend just because you feel guilty. It's bound to ruin your relationship in some way. I would say it's different if you have feelings for your friend and want to continue with some kind of romantic or sexual relationship. I'm not sure that would be fair to your gf.

Curious_Guy
October 18th, 2017, 09:50 PM
It is just experimenting and having fun. When you drink you loosen up and do silly things sometimes. I wouldn't tell your GF or anyone about it. It's just between you and your friend. If you liked it then I would do it again if he wants to.

Totally agree, it's just experimenting and there's nothing wrong with that, and I understand the guilt part, first few times me and my best friend jerked each other we felt awkward and guilty after cumming, but that was just the horniness wearing off after cumming. Now we're both fine with it and there's no guilt or awkwardness after cumming. Like me I haven't told my GF about our "bro time" that we do, because I don't think she'd understand. And if you guys had fun doing it there's no reason not to do it again.

jaret
October 18th, 2017, 11:25 PM
I wouldn't tell your GF about what happened, you don't know she might react.
Are you and your GF physically involved sexuallly? Because if you are not and she is not ready, maybe the fact that your friend wanted to mess around and you could too , it happened and maybe being drunk, only made you more relax at doing stuff with your friend. I think alot of guys would have wished their friends would have done things with them, just to see what they might have missed. How has your friend reacted since the event? I wouldn't worry about it too much. It happened and you can't change that. It comes down to, if you enjoyed it or not.

martinpajero
October 19th, 2017, 07:28 AM
you shouldn't feel bad about touching another guy, that's weird. you should feel bad about cheating tho.

SeansLittleBro
October 19th, 2017, 05:31 PM
Why feel guilty? As long as it was consensual and you both enjoyed it, whats your problem? :)

Totally agree and even though you were drunk --not sure your age but being drunk as has been said lowers your inhibitions - you knew what you were doing and hopefully both enjoyed what you did. I honestly believe that the majority of boys our ages experiment with male/male sex and that is all right as far as i'm concerned. The guilt is something we all feel but think about it more and I think you will find that either you will want to do this again or you won't, but at least now you know. As far as for your girlfriend --- shhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.

CharlesB
October 20th, 2017, 03:47 AM
You were drunk so no. dont tell anyone

NewLeafsFan
October 20th, 2017, 01:25 PM
I usually think that cheaters should tell their partners if they cheat. I usually think that they have a right to know. However, in your case it would really complicate things and she would probably think that you're bi.

Don't feel guilty. It isn't a big deal. It's not like you would rather be with ur friend than your gf. And for that reason I don't think that its cheating.

jaret
October 20th, 2017, 03:26 PM
Are you worried about telling your GF? Or maybe that you are STR8 and did did stuff w/your friend?
Doing stuff w/your friend doesn't change you being STR8, I know STR8 guys that have done anal w/other guys.
It just means that you are open to trying different things at at specific time in your life.
Have you talked to your friend since?

boy19
October 20th, 2017, 09:18 PM
Are you worried about telling your GF? Or maybe that you are STR8 and did did stuff w/your friend?
Doing stuff w/your friend doesn't change you being STR8, I know STR8 guys that have done anal w/other guys.
It just means that you are open to trying different things at at specific time in your life.
Have you talked to your friend since?

Yes we talk everyday.

EthanK
October 22nd, 2017, 07:04 AM
I think you are just curious

galaxy2000
October 24th, 2017, 05:16 PM
When I was dating my gf I told her I’ve done stuff with guys including sucking them off and she said it was ok and didn’t mind.

Turbofan explosion
October 24th, 2017, 06:17 PM
I don't think this is cheating on your GF. You are just experimenting, it is fine as long as you don't do it too much.

Surferbicep17
October 25th, 2017, 12:45 AM
I really what to jerk my friends off

WAN98
October 27th, 2017, 02:03 AM
Happened with me and a couple buddies when we were 13 and I’d just keep it a secret

teeeem
October 31st, 2017, 11:50 PM
probably should keep it a secret :|

topseededamateur
November 1st, 2017, 03:38 AM
if you like it just go for it.but there is no need to tell others about it

hesaidhesaid
November 2nd, 2017, 05:14 AM
I'm not sure your girlfriend would WANT to know. As for sucking your friend off, well thats something only you can answer as to whether you enjoy it. If you do, then maybe you need to draw some lines between what is acceptable and what isn't.

On another note, this is why I don't drink alcohol.