is this wrong?

[hockeykid761]

i've wanked with some of my guy friends before and experimented too and i always feel guilty afterwards but before i always want to do it and love doing it but then for a few minutes after i feel wrong. also i have a girlfriend now and is it considered cheating if i do anything with my guy friends now?

[nicktheman2003]

I have and still wank with boys and also experiment. When I first started I use to feel real guilty, but after awhile I realized that it was something natural out of curiosity and crazy hormones. As long as both partners are willing and not pressured I see no harm. Joining VT helped me to realize I wasn't the only boy experiencing these feelings.

[Hamodyalot]

I never experiment with other boys but I want to try
And hope I not feel guilty afterwards

[zzzzzzzzzz]

If you and your friends enjoying it then don't worry

[azurzg]

i've wanked with some of my guy friends before and experimented too and i always feel guilty afterwards but before i always want to do it and love doing it but then for a few minutes after i feel wrong. also i have a girlfriend now and is it considered cheating if i do anything with my guy friends now?

So, I don't think you should feel guilty for having a wank with some friends.

I am not sure what you mean by "experimented", but that sounds OK to me too. If you have a girlfriend, there probably are things you could do with guys that could be considered cheating. However, if you're just experimenting (finding out about your sexuality), don't beat yourself abut it.

PS be smart, be safe.

[Vegas2933]

I repeat what everyone else has said; experimentation is completly normal and a good way to help figure out sexuality.

[EthanK]

What is experimenting

[benster]

What is experimenting

I dont know but probably when u actually wank someone or suck or other stuff I dont think it makes u gay though

[Ryan01]

If it feels like you're cheating on your gf, it's prolly wrong

[jamie_n5]

You are just curious. Experimenting and jerking off with others is a normal thing. so don't feel bad or worry about it. Enjoy puberty and it's little quirks.

[ChillaxBoy17]

No dude it's fine and you shouldn't feel guilty! I would love to do that with boys, but I sadly haven't had the chance yet. (I'm gay.)

[zzzzzzzzzz]

What is experimenting

It can be anything from being naked in the same room, comparing sizes, wanking in the same room, each other or even going all the way. Some do it out of curiosity. Don't let anyone pressurise you.

[joel02]

i think it is only curiosity

[ChillaxBoy17]

What is experimenting And experimenting is if you wank or suck a boy off, or do any sexual with him. But it's all normal ;)

[Abcde1234]

I don’t think tjeres anything wrong with it

[Abcde1234]

But I would tell your bae what you get up to with the boys

[SeansLittleBro]

I am gay Hockeykid so you may think that I couldn't help here but I have to say there is NOTHING wrong with experimenting as this is how guys learn about their bodies and what makes them feel good. Your feeling of guilt are brought about probably by the social stigma that is preached by many....I have many straight friends who I have personally experimented with ...or they I should say have experimented with me. As far as cheating it might be but then what you may be doing if a very normal male/male thing.....as it is for female/female as well....

[Curious_Guy]

I had that issue the first few times me and my friend jerked together, like after cumming we both felt guilty and awkward, like we were doing something wrong or bad. But after like the 3rd time we were cool with it, also seeing on here that other guys do it, it wasn't like we were the only people who did stuff like that.

[martinpajero]

i mean, it's sexual so it is cheating. but idk, if you're just experimenting then i guess you get a pass. but don't feel bad about doing that, you're just curious and it feels so good, so who cares?

[NewLeafsFan]

As long as your friends are not a sexual substitute for your gf than I don't think its cheating. If you feel guilty you might want to stop. Nothing wrong with what your doing though.

[EthanK]

Enjoy it and embrace it

[Curiousteen7]

It wouldn’t consider it cheating as experimenting is the way to find out your sexuality and so carry on until you’re sure wat u want!

[Cassius16]

I don't think it's wrong in the sense you are cheating. I sometimes wank with friends so it definitely happens

I don't have a girlfriend but when I wank with friends it's not just a sexual thing, we're just curious/horny and need relief

[INACTIVEchaosphere]

i've wanked with some of my guy friends before and experimented too and i always feel guilty afterwards but before i always want to do it and love doing it but then for a few minutes after i feel wrong. also i have a girlfriend now and is it considered cheating if i do anything with my guy friends now?
I wouldn't be embarrassed, I'd be glad to have a group like that. YOu're just building your friendships and learning about yourselves and others. As long as everyone's comfortable with it, I would say it's okay to continue. As for your girlfriend, I don't think it's cheating if you guys aren't experimenting in a romantic capacity. Then again if it were romantic it wouldn't really be experimentation but you get the point.

[Don Giovanni]

Don't feel guilty, enjoy it :P

[topseededamateur]

i think its fun and i realy like to do it one day

[kadencole]

Its cheating lol. Jerking together might not be, but f anything else is happening, then yes it is.

Experimenting is ok 100 percent. I think most do it anyways.

[Impressionist1910]

i've wanked with some of my guy friends before and experimented too and i always feel guilty afterwards but before i always want to do it and love doing it but then for a few minutes after i feel wrong. also i have a girlfriend now and is it considered cheating if i do anything with my guy friends now?

It's definitely not cheating and if I were you I wouldn't feel guilty.
But if it is something making you guilty, it is totally fine to admit that you don't prefer doing that sort of thing and you don't have to participate. But if you do like it then by all means, do continue.
But you can do all kinds of things with your girlfriend that another guy is just simply not equipped to do.
So think about that and decide how you want to proceed. ;):cool:

[EatMyFace]

It’s not cheating don’t worry.

[TWDjacob]

Don't worry it's just being curious but you might not want to be labeled as something other than straight. As for the file I ends if it's just jerking off together and having a girlfriend I don't see a problem with that but if it turns into more of kissing or like bj then you should probably choose

[Martainfey96]

If experimenting is anything more than comparing then yes I would say that you would be cheating.

[markerman0013]

I think that if both of you are still enjoying it then why stop?