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Lord Of Curiosity
October 14th, 2017, 07:21 PM
Hey there,
So I got a girlfriend 3 days ago which is great. However, before asking her to be my gf, we had sex multiple times. Now I'm unsure how to continue. Do we just do it like before? Do we go on a few dates first? Does anything need to change from how we act now? If you havn't noticed by now, this is also my first girlfriend.
I guess I'm just kinda nervous and dont really know what to do... Any tips on how to proceed?

ska8er
October 15th, 2017, 12:25 PM
I think u have been doing a
pretty good job at it. I wouldn't
change a thing really.

Just JT
October 15th, 2017, 12:36 PM
Well sounds like you went from a FWB thing to like an exclusive thing right?
So sounds like more of a commitment thing, only doing sexual things with her and a closer intimate relationship.
Just be yourself and get to know her better and see where it goes. Sounds like you already passed any sexual awkwardness there might have been, so let the “get to know you better” thing happen?

jamie_n5
October 20th, 2017, 07:24 PM
Well I think you need to treat her like a GF and do things together other than just sex. Go out to dinner and movies or concerts. You need to socialize along with having a healthy sexual relationship.

Ragle
October 20th, 2017, 09:48 PM
Just keep doing whatever you two have done before and keep the relationship going, still on more closer base.

NewLeafsFan
October 21st, 2017, 02:10 AM
Congratulations on getting ur first gf buddy. I don't think that anything has to change. It's not like she all of a sudden became this conservative person that wants to wait. You might want to put more effort into the romantic side of sex now though. Girls love that kind of thing. Light a few candles or something.