I need help with my sexuality

[EthanK]

At the start of last year i was straight. But now i don't know what i am. Am i gay or bi or straight. I dont know, When i am in the locker room and the boys change i get a boner but then i also get boners thinking of girls. I havent told anyone till now. WHAT DO I DO? should i tell my bestfriends? What do i do?

[Atlantis]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality and Gender

My opinion on it is don't worry about it. I can't stand labels and I don't think that you have to place yourself in a certain category at all. Whoever you're into, that's totally fine. You certainly don't have to tell your friends if you don't want to, but if you do tell them and they test you any differently after, they're not the type of friends you want to have.

[EthanK]

Thank you

[jamie_n5]

You are just at that age and time in puberty where your hormones are flowing and you are very curious. Don't be worried about getting boners when seeing other guys. It's natural to be curious. You are most likely straight. You will know for sure what you are down the road. Just don't worry about it right now.

[benster]

At the start of last year i was straight. But now i don't know what i am. Am i gay or bi or straight. I dont know, When i am in the locker room and the boys change i get a boner but then i also get boners thinking of girls. I havent told anyone till now. WHAT DO I DO? should i tell my bestfriends? What do i do?

Dont tell anyone I'm not going to becos I'm probably straight and your probably straight as well

[Snowrider]

You should tell your best friends if that is something you want to do. Most importantly, you shouldn't worry and you shouldn't label yourself as anything. I would focus on what you like. What turns you on today may not turn you on tomorrow. Whatever turns you on at an given moment is what turns you on. Period. Just go with it.

[pjones]

At the start of last year i was straight. But now i don't know what i am. Am i gay or bi or straight. I dont know, When i am in the locker room and the boys change i get a boner but then i also get boners thinking of girls. I havent told anyone till now. WHAT DO I DO? should i tell my bestfriends? What do i do?

What you DON'T need to do is make a decision on your sexuality. And if you're not sure, why would you rush to tell your friends? Boys get erections, simple as that, and a lot of times when we really don't want to. You've probably gotten them in class, or out with friends at the mall or movies, and they probably happened for the same reason they did when you were in the locker room, because you're going through puberty.

Give yourself time to figure everything out, and understand a lot of boys have had the same worries and concerns you have right now and they survived.

[Nnoki]

I remember at your age that I had the same question, hormones were crazy and i had a male crush and a female crush, then i had other 5 male crushed from then and another 3 female crushes.
I haven't decided yet what do I want to be, but it is ok, you take your time and experiment (safely) with porn, with friends (if you have the chance), just be open to anything and you will figure it out eventually

[SeansLittleBro]

What you DON'T need to do is make a decision on your sexuality. And if you're not sure, why would you rush to tell your friends? Boys get erections, simple as that, and a lot of times when we really don't want to. You've probably gotten them in class, or out with friends at the mall or movies, and they probably happened for the same reason they did when you were in the locker room, because you're going through puberty.

Give yourself time to figure everything out, and understand a lot of boys have had the same worries and concerns you have right now and they survived.

I can only agree with pjones. You are at an age where you are experiencing what we all do...spontaneous erections at times that we definitely don't want them. Some guys know at a young age their sexuality, but most guys don't until their late teens early 20's. Don't rush it let it just happen.

[Just JT]

Just cause you get hard in the locker room doesn’t mean anything. Believe me, just being nude with people in general will have that effect. It’s just something that happens to people whether there attracted to the same or oposite sex.

Reality is, your sexuality will only be discovered by you, and you alone. It’s just a process in growing up bro. Don’t discredit anything, or any opprotunity to explore what you like. That’s the only way you’ll know if you like same sex things or not?

[EthanK]

Thanks

[azurzg]

When i am in the locker room and the boys change i get a boner but then i also get boners thinking of girls. I havent told anyone till now. WHAT DO I DO? should i tell my bestfriends? What do i do?

What to do? Enjoy your boners and RELAX. This is all perfectly normal for any person of any sexual preference.

[NewLeafsFan]

I don't understand why everyone wants to label their sexuality. If you have the opportunity to engage in sex when a male or female you should just decide on a case-by-case basis about what you want to. I wish that you had included your age. At the beginning of puberty I went through a bi phase. Now at 18 I am entirely straight.

[SouthGeorgiaTeen]

Just take some time to get to know your self better. After you feel comfortable, start searching and exploring to find out what makes you happy. If you are someone who likes labels then go ahead and choose one that appeals to you. If not, then just go about n your happy way.
If you feel like you can trust your friends then let them in on what you got going on, just remember that not EVERYONE is your friend.