My backstabbing bestie???

[Teenage_girl]

Don’t get me wrong I absolutely love my best friend to bits. She’s my rock but something is going on at the moment where she’s generally not a nice person to be around. She makes out that I’m stupid like I’m not even smart enough for stuff, yet I’m in the top grade for maths and she’s in the bottom. She makes out that I’m always doing something wrong. If I like a guy she won’t let me like him because she will have a crush too 🙄 I really hope this is a phase because I don’t want our relationship to break down. She recently moved house but now she’s gone to see the head of our year at school because she’s feeling stressed. She knows I moved two days before the new school year started and I had to collect all her stuff for her because she missed the first week of school because she was on holiday. Like I feel bad for saying this but it’s just my true feelings but I don’t want to beat myself up about it. Am I the only one who feels like this 😭 she makes me feel like sh*t but I can’t give up on her now 😭

[hjhj]

Don’t get me wrong I absolutely love my best friend to bits. She’s my rock but something is going on at the moment where she’s generally not a nice person to be around. She makes out that I’m stupid like I’m not even smart enough for stuff, yet I’m in the top grade for maths and she’s in the bottom. She makes out that I’m always doing something wrong. If I like a guy she won’t let me like him because she will have a crush too 🙄 I really hope this is a phase because I don’t want our relationship to break down. She recently moved house but now she’s gone to see the head of our year at school because she’s feeling stressed. She knows I moved two days before the new school year started and I had to collect all her stuff for her because she missed the first week of school because she was on holiday. Like I feel bad for saying this but it’s just my true feelings but I don’t want to beat myself up about it. Am I the only one who feels like this 😭 she makes me feel like sh*t but I can’t give up on her now 😭
I've felt like this plenty of times.
I think that she is just a bit jealous and insecure, that would explain why she tries to put you down and make fun of you.
If she keeps doing this you might need to distance yourself, really. And I'm oh so sure that the things she says aren't true about you!
Also welcome to VT! HMU if you need help or wanna talk
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[ska8er]

I think she is jealous of u. I would
still b her friend but tell her that if
she is going to b so negative with u
then there will b no friendship. If she
continues then make friends with some
one new. She may just turn an about face
and treat u better. If not-then it is her loss.
Don't let anyone bring u down.

[Teenage_girl]

Thank you for all your lovely comments. I feel like this is a lovely place to connect with ppl my age x I agree entirely and I think I need to express my feelings more to her and tell her if she’s affecting me negatively

[NewLeafsFan]

Your "best friend" is acting more like your harshest enemy. No one would want a best friend like that. For that reason I'm going to assume that you were best friends before she started acting like that. Call her, text her, meet with her and say that you've noticed a negative change in her behaviour and that you want to make sure that she's been ok. She will bitch about life for a while and ask what you mean by change in behaviour. That will give you a chance to sugar coat her terrible behaviour. She'll realize that her attitude change has been noticed and hopefully she'll grow up.

[jamie_n5]

You might want to just kind of ignore her and tell her to quit being so negative about things and you. You don't need the extra stress. I also agree that she is a bit jealous of you for some reason. Just hang in there and stand your ground and stick up for yourself. If she continues to treat you like crap then she isn't someone you need in your life.