Sleepovers... (warning: goes off topic)

[lolshanedawson]

Hi. So I'm 13 and I'm gay. I think. Pretty sure. I like boys. Not like boys but like teens. Noone knows, except for this one guy who I hook up with every now and then. Most of my friends are boys, who don't know so it's really awkward in changing rooms and showers, considering I'm incredibly attracted to most if not all of them and I get a boner from even looking at them in clothes, being close to them naked in a small space with water going down our bodies and watching it drip off their co.... im not trying to get banned so imma stop lol. Even worse from being about a foot away from their wet penises is sleepovers. To parents, sleepovers don't seem bad and they aren't but there's so much homoeroticness. is that a word? whatever? like literally last night, my friends were jerking off to porn, running around naked, teabagging people, including me, if you don't know what that is, look it up. Of course, they are all straight and I was trying my best to, you know, seem straight, but it's just hard and they're kinda catching on, I think. Should I come out to them? Should I stop hanging out with them or sleeping over at their houses?

[Sevro au Barca]

I don't know the details, but I don't think you should let your sexuality get in the way of your friendships. If you think your friends would be open to accepting your sexuality and that it wouldn't cause other problems for you, I would suggest considering talking to them about it. However, I have no personal experience with that sort of situation, so you might want to see what others have to say as well.

It's also important to remember that at your age it can sometimes be difficult to tell what your orientation is because of all the hormones throwing everything off. You might want to wait a while to make sure you're right in your analysis of your feelings before you take the plunge and tell your friends. Also, if there is someone like a parent or an older sibling you can trust, you might want to talk it over with them, if you haven't already.

[ska8er]

If u feel comfortable in coming out
to them then do it but u just started
puberty and right now ur horny so the
hormones r causing u to have these
feelings. I would not come out for u
have a lot of time to figure out who u r
or what u like. As for the other stuff of
stopping hanging out or going on sleep
overs-NO. They r ur friends and right
now u need them. If u say No to every
thing then u will have no friends. I'm
sure they r also battling the same stuff
u r feeling so u r not alone.

[varun.karma]

You should definitely open up to them and tell them what you really feel like when you see them and how you feel when you are in the changing rooms and showers and everything you just said. If they don't appreciate that then you should make new friends. But i'm sure from the way it sounded, you have really close friends if they are jerking off to porn next to each other hahahha. So I think it should be fine. Open up to them ASAP!

[NewLeafsFan]

Only you know how ur friends will react. Under no circumstances are you obligated to tell them anything about ur sexuality. If you think that you could tell your friends and it wouldn't change the dynamics of ur friendship and they won't tell anyone that you wouldn't want to know than I think you should tell them. If not then I would keep it to urself.

[Dalcourt]

Erotic story telling is unnecessary to describe your problem. :locked: