did i go too far with younger brother?

[heymynameis]

so the other day i was relaxing watching tv whilst rubbing my dick. i got hard and it was noticeable as i was just in underwear. my brother came up to me and started feeling my dick and asking why it was so big. he then said can i take my underwear off. i did because it is my brother and i didn't really mind. then he started asking why it was hairy, why my balls were so large. then i told him about puberty and what it was.

then later on, he walked in on me masturbating and started questioning even more. i felt really quite awkward and i didn't know what to say. i just said i was pissing but i felt bad for lying so i told him about masturbation and sex. he wanted to try so i said it was ok. he only got a dry orgasm but he said it felt really good and that he wanted to have sex.

i feel really bad now because he is only 8 years old and it is quite inappropriate what i told him. what should i do to fix this?

[jamie_n5]

I don't know how much older you are than your brother. I don't really feel you did anything bad or inappropriate. Telling him about puberty and sex and masturbation is a good thing in my book. I had a little brother that died and I sure would have loved telling him about those things. I have a little sister that is almost 15 and we are very close. I have talked a lot to her about all those things and answered numerous questions. I have even shown her my penis to help show her and answer some questions. We have never done any sexual things and never will. That is totally inappropriate in my mind. Anyway keep being a good big brother.

[Jamiec1130]

Well, how old are you in comparison to your brother? It depends on what you view as appropriate/inappropriate.

[ska8er]

I guess it would depend on how
old u r. Hes inquisitive and he looks
up to u. He had questions and he took
advantage of the situation u were in.
Tell him u will answer any questions he
has but now u two have to cool it with
any showing til he is older. If u feel ur
uncomfortable then b more discrete next
time.

[mick01]

Since, you're 13 and he's only 8, you need to tell him it was a one time thing and you two shouldn't do anything together like that for a long time, if ever. Just explain to him that he is too young to be doing anything with, but that he was asking questions and you wanted to answer them for him. But no more touching, at least. I don't see anything wrong if he sees you naked tho.

[BoyOBoy]

Depends on age but dont feel bad

[CharlesB]

the having an orgasm around you is very bad in by book i would not do that again

[Sevro au Barca]

Most psychologists would suggest that, since he seems to have been driving the exploration, it's perfectly fine and highly unlikely to cause any emotional problems for him. So the only possible problem left would be moral/religious qualms. I personally don't think there's anything wrong with it, but everyone has his or her own opinion on the matter. I would encourage you to think about what you personally feel on the topic. Questions of morality are personal issues; don't think about what your parents, teachers, any religious leaders, etc, have told you is right or wrong. It's important that you determine what your personal moral code allows and disallows. If you're uncomfortable with what you did, remember that and allow it to guide your future actions. If you decide that what you did wasn't wrong, remember that as well. However, if you decide that it was against your personal morals, it's important that you remember that you didn't hurt your brother; in fact, you may have helped him develop a healthy, positive attitude towards a time in his life that is often difficult and unnerving.

[benster]

Well, how old are you in comparison to your brother? It depends on what you view as appropriate/inappropriate.

It says there 13 and 8

I think its wrong but everyone might think its not. Try not to get caught next time and tell him if he wants to do it again he as to do it on his own

[iamcolin]

It's okay, just don't do it again. Unless he has more questions then just answer him

[Lord Of Curiosity]

Its alright to teach your little brother about this stuff. Its good that he gets to know the truth and not some bad views from porn or friends. Besides, as long as you dont go and have sex with each other it's morally okay too. There are many people on this forum who have done the same thing.

[Dalcourt]

This is not appropriate :locked: