Relationship

[NewLeafsFan]

If you haven't read my latest post to give u a summary I'm an 18 yr old virgin and its bothering me. I've tried hook ups and one night stands but never managed to get anything to happen so now I've decided that I'm interested in a serious relationship. I have no idea about the who, when, and where and I'm just kind of looking for advice. Thx.

[Living For Love]

Family and Friends :arrow2: Relationships and Dating

[mick01]

My advice is not to look too hard. You probably won't find it that way. I think you'll find love when you're least looking for it. I'm just about to be 16 but the best 2 relationships I've had happened that way.

[Michael75]

Honestly, don't rush into a relationship just to loose your virginity, most people regret their first time for several reasons i.e. it was meaningless or they did it with something they didn't care enough about. I'm 17, and I just happened to find a girl i fell deeply in love with and thats who i lost mine too. The relationship presented itself to me, i didn't want another relationship to i was like 20 and then i met her. I know for a fact that whatever happens between me and her I'm not gonna regret loosing it to her.

[Just JT]

Being an 18 year old virgin isn't that uncommon bro. IMO it's something to be proud of.

But I ageee you might be looking to hard. And people might see that and be a turn off for them. Just be yourself, and sometime, hopefully sooner than later it'll happen. You'll meet someone or they'll meet you, and something will happen and the rest will be like history.

Hookups and one night stands bro....yeah you get your rocks off and all, but that's it. That's just sex, not making love and sharing something intimate with someone.

Just a hookup....you'll feel just as alone and lonley as you do now, only difference is you had sex with someone you may not even know or care about. So that experience won't even be like something you could remember with someone who's a friend etc with, and that's forever....

[ska8er]

One night stands in the long run just
don't work out cause u will always b
looking for something and someone
thats not going to b long standing.
I think I answered ur other post that
if u r looking for a lasting and serious
relationship it is not going to happen
all at once. U have to get to know a
person really well and c if the two of
u share the same things in common
and then create a bond before u rush
into anything otherwise u r going to
keep on looking.

[jamie_n5]

You will eventually find someone. It should be that you have sex with someone you deeply care for. You are in such a rush and a panic almost to get laid that you are just running wild. Slow down the world isn't going anywhere. You don't have to have sex to become a man so control yourself and look patiently for a girl you like.

[SallyWinters]

What do you do? If school/ college, then find someone there. It would make a cute college love story. :D