Nervous to ask a girl out (Please Help)

[blacknite]

So, I'm 14, and I have this crush on this girl. I want to ask her out but I'm nervous. Any tips that people can share to help me out?

[KansasNavy]

Tips:
-Start off by simply socializing with her
-Get to know her friend group
-Ask her on a date within a group of people, it will be awkward if it's just one-on-one at first
-After that just ask her out alone on dates
-Don't take things too fast
-Be mature
-Smell good
-Look good

[goundy]

Try this to help you be motivated:
-Give a mate $100 (or whatever amount of money you have) and tell him to promise you not to give it back til you ask her out.
-Talk to more women but more importantly, focus on interacting with all women in a 'male to female' manner. That means work on being more flirtatious, sexual and fun. Play on the female-male polarity. You need to work on this because if you can't do it with all girls, how would you be able to do it with this particular girl?

Now try this for your nervousness:
-Bio-energetic excersises: Allot of nervousness can be caused by restriction in the various parts of the upper body and limits your ability to breathe deep. If you can't breathe deep, you will lack the ability to stay focus, grounded and confident. Watch Elliots Hulses video (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FhJbXPvSDKE) on 'how to breath into your balls'. Changing the way you breathe can affectivley change the way you approach life.

-Meditation: I wrote a really long detailed article about the different journeys I went through to go from a depressed loser to confident pimp. The most worthy mention is meditation. It sucks you out of your head and into the present moment, over time massively increasing your focus and confidence. It's allot to write about so just read my article here. (http://goundy.com/?p=881)

-Realize your only 14. Don't identify yourself with the current situation and only see it as a learning experience. In life it's exceptionally important to be free of outcome and to seek the gems in the action itself. It's completely outside of your control as to weather she will say yes to your proposal so you have nothing to gain if your dependant on the outcome of the situation. On the otherhand if you go in with the focus on getting the experience of asking her out in order to become the strongest version of yourself, you will be free of outcome and you will have something to gain no matter what happens. This is the key to life.

[xban]

Be confident.

[sieg]

count down from 10 and do it. if your still nervous, shout as loud as you can and get the air out of your lungs.