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Foxyturtle
March 3rd, 2014, 07:51 PM
Originally my yahoo answer question, I made it better for here!

So me and this girl really started talking over the weekend. She first gave me her number when we were working of a class assignment, if I had any questions. But that night we started texting just joking around.

Friday night I tweeted "new snapchat add me-username here" hoping she would snap me. And she added me a few hours later!

So we snapped that night, we both were a little shy. But over the weekend we really clicked and weren't shy.

After talking about sexual stuff like how boys love ***, she texted me asking about how she should hookup with guys because she wanted to. I gave her tips from a guys view. Then I'm like "well who do you want to HU with?" And she said to list some names, so I did. I then added my name in a few times kinda jokingly. And she's just like: "Jakeeee lol". And then we moved on. But yeah she just doesn't seem interested in me. I don't think she's hinting around, but she seems to be fine talking about other girls.

So am I friend zoned? Thanks btw were 14

More info

I don't think she finds me hot, idk maybe.

No she isn't a slut she's actually super smart.

Should i just give up with her and stay friends or do you think that there's still a chance for me?

I'm not looking to hu (ofcourse I would tho) I wanna date here eventually maybe.

I don't think she will ever hookup with most of the people she listed.

Neither of is have hooked up. She dated one boy last year for a month, other than that there's no people i dated or she dated in the past.

I'm not freaking out over one girl, I really feel something for her... It's crazy lol.

Guess in the end only I can tell.

Man this frickin sucks

Thanks

Troye
March 3rd, 2014, 07:54 PM
It kind of seems like you've been zoned. The only advice I can give you is to be more direct and upfront about your feelings. It might salvage the situation, or it may kind of strain your friendship so use this advice at your own risk!

Foxyturtle
March 3rd, 2014, 07:58 PM
It kind of seems like you've been zoned. The only advice I can give you is to be more direct and upfront about your feelings. It might salvage the situation, or it may kind of strain your friendship so use this advice at your own risk!

Oh and I'm in no rush. I don't wanna lose her as a friend. I wanna do this SLOWLY

I could use a nice friend like her in my life right now.

Guess I gotta flirt more? Make her love me haha

Troye
March 3rd, 2014, 08:05 PM
Oh and I'm in no rush. I don't wanna lose her as a friend. I wanna do this SLOWLY

I could use a nice friend like her in my life right now.

Guess I gotta flirt more? Make her love me haha

Yeah maybe, if you aren't really in a rush then I would just keep flirting and making subtle moves on her for awhile and see if she responds to it.

CharlieHorse
March 3rd, 2014, 08:28 PM
You should try to tell her. Despite what people think, the Friendzone and all the horror stories isn't so bad.
Tell her how you feel. But be careful about it.

Troye
March 3rd, 2014, 09:24 PM
You should try to tell her. Despite what people think, the Friendzone and all the horror stories isn't so bad.
Tell her how you feel. But be careful about it.

Yep, as I said before sometimes being direct is a good way of getting de-friend zoned

xban
March 4th, 2014, 07:46 PM
At least take a chance, you never know. But if she refuses you, be ready to get the "emotional" frustration hitting you.