*FRIENDZONE - the eternal debate*

[Snowblind13]

Hi Guys,

This is mainly for the girls but anyone is free to throw in their two cents if they want too.

Do you guys believe that then concept of the friend zone actually exists? It is something that is always thrown around in places like this but what do you really think? Personally, as male, I cant really think of much better than developing a relationship with your best friend. Does anyone have any experience of being in the or leaving the friend zone with someone?

Thanks

[CassnovA]

i dont think the friendzone exists. if youre only friends with someone to eventually get them in bed then it isnt a real friendship.

[Austins]

Hi Guys,

This is mainly for the girls but anyone is free to throw in their two cents if they want too.

Do you guys believe that then concept of the friend zone actually exists? It is something that is always thrown around in places like this but what do you really think? Personally, as male, I cant really think of much better than developing a relationship with your best friend. Does anyone have any experience of being in the or leaving the friend zone with someone?

Thanks

Usually the people who claim to be friend zoned, generally are the awkward ones who think that "being a nice guy" Will get them laid instead of actual flirting. The friend zone is more a place that people place themselves, or if the other person just generally does not find the attractive. I personally think that trying to be best friends with someone just to get in their pants is wrong. You pretty much lied the whole entire friendship to try and get in their pants. If you want to get with someone relationship wise, just say so from the start. That either ends you up in a relationship. Or not in one, no "friendzone"

[backjruton]

Haha... I don't even want to say anything about the relationship I have with my friend. I think I'm permanently going to be trapped in the friend zone with this girl, because she prefers girls and I prefer guys but neither of us have hope with our wishes and are actually perfect for eachother. We're in a mess and I think I'll be stuck in the friend zone forever, but I don't really want to kiss her or get her into my bed any time soon so I'm perfectly fine with that. She wants to lose her virginity quicker than I do and I don't think I'll be ready for a very long time... :whoops: :rolleyes:

[Dwemer]

I think it can happen.

[Plane And Simple]

I don't think it exists. It's just like a not-so-sad way to say you've been rejected. It's like laming it all on the other girl/dude.

So you leave the friendzone to get into a relationship. People is then saying that you stop being friends to be in this relationship with this girl huh? Then basically the friendzone and friend concept is the same, Don't you think?

[Something Creative]

The friendzone is just a lame excuse you make when you want to turn someone down without hurting them. And it's even worse when people actually set it up for themselves by saying stuff like " I don't have a chance with him/her, we're just friends and I don't want to ruin that. " Everyone should stop limiting themselves like that and actually take up the initiative. The fear of being friendzoned is worse than the friendzone itself.

With that said, I would totally use the friendzone as an excuse to turn someone down easily.

[xban]

Friendzone obviously exist. If it didn't, then any boy would be able to go out with the girl they like.

[Harley Quinn]

Friendzone obviously exist. If it didn't, then any boy would be able to go out with the girl they like.

Do you realise how stupid you sound right now? Guys wouldn't get any girl they wanted to if it 'didn't' exist, because guess what, girls still can say no to you and guess what, they more than likely will! Who knew.