Is gay teen guy romace differnt than st8 teen romance?

[ksdnfkfr]

What I'm wondering about is, when my boyfriend and I are making out, it's like half romantic and half horsing around. I mean it's like we take it seriously in one sense and really are in love with each other and romantic. But at the same time we guys being guys and laugh and joke, say crude things, insult each other, punch each other and stuff like that.

I'm thinking it's not like that with a guy and girl at all, but I'm not sure.
And I'm not sure if we are just like that only because of our age (13).
So I'd like anyone's input on this, especially any bi guys who have had both a boyfriend and girlfriend. Thanks

[NeuroTiger]

Certainly,there is a difference.
For your case, I guess it's normal; it's just a way of expressing love. ;)

[AlexOnToast]

Of course it's different, but that doesnt mean it's bad.
I personally think the whole "fooling around" thing makes it more cute XD

[jacobjb10]

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[ksdnfkfr]

Of course it's different, but that doesnt mean it's bad.
I personally think the whole "fooling around" thing makes it more cute XD

Oh I don't think it's bad in any way at all, in fact it's fantastic. And I'm sure a guy and girl play around some too. I just wonder how the two compare. I mean I can't imagine some of the stuff we do with/to each other goofing wise would go over very well with most girls I know of (or think I know).

[Harry Smith]

I think it's completely different just because teen guy romance tends to generally be a lot more nervous because often there's one guy who's more confident with his sexuality/societies perception of it. This is why generally from what I've seen guy romances tend to last longer during the teen years because well being in a gay relationship is extremely hard at our age

[ugaboy]

Well I have not really had a relationship with a girl yet, and may not ever - don't know yet. My best friend mess around a good bit, and have kissed a few times - but not really "made out". I think that will happen soon. But I gotta think it would be different with a girl, but not maybe better. We are always poking/hitting each other and crap like that when we are messing around, and I dont think a girl would like that. To us, that kind of contact seems normal and really fun - so we just carry on.

I guess if I poked a girl really hard in the belly button when we were kissing, she would probably slap the crap out of me. :)

[Celtics]

There is a difference for sure, I think its better. You can like you said punch/wrestle/jokes that you couldn't with a girl, but then you can do other stuff with a straight relationship. Nothing is bad about it though

[zach2424]

I think in the eyes of society it us but it is what you make of it.

[SciMassKid]

There is a difference.

[darkangel91]

That's actually what I've always dreamed of... to me that kind of straight boy stuff in a gay relationship would make it perfect. I've always kinda regretted that I'll never be able to have an innocent relationship with another guy like straight guys do, but that kind of boyish stuff could be incorporated into a gay relationship.

I'm not making sense... what I mean is, I find stuff like that to be romantic anyway, so I could never be friends with a straight guy and be comfortable with it, but in love, it would seem normal.

[Luminous]

I think it's probably different, but every single relationship, gay or straight, is different.

[Ethe14]

I think there might be a difference but not dramatically.

[sqishy]

Well there is a difference but not much else than having the same genders.

[pjones]

have not made out with a girl and actually only kissed one girl. but have made out with a boy and we also started laughing and stuff. we are pretty silly together even before we decided to be more than just regular friends so that may be why we act that way.

[Landbuscus97]

It's different because it's a different type of relationship, you guys sound cute together like any couple

[Karkat]

I don't know if it's because I'm bigender, but I find it amusing, all this stuff that you guys "can't do with a girl"

Because what Ezra said sounds exactly like my relationship between my boyfriend and I, and it's technically a heterosexual relationship.

Would also like to add that it's not necessarily an age thing- I'm 17, he's 21. :P

[workingatperfect]

I don't know if it's because I'm bigender, but I find it amusing, all this stuff that you guys "can't do with a girl"

Because what Ezra said sounds exactly like my relationship between my boyfriend and I, and it's technically a heterosexual relationship.

Would also like to add that it's not necessarily an age thing- I'm 17, he's 21. :P

Isn't funny how guys think that we're some delicate creatures that you have to be careful with? It's like we all have "This is not a toy" stamped on our foreheads or something :P

My boyfriend and I do stuff like that as well. In fact, I think 80% of what we say to each other is insulting or crude and that's how we like it. The only difference really is that punches have to be kept away from my chest lol.

[MechaSniper]

one word. yes

[Karkat]

Isn't funny how guys think that we're some delicate creatures that you have to be careful with? It's like we all have "This is not a toy" stamped on our foreheads or something :P

My boyfriend and I do stuff like that as well. In fact, I think 80% of what we say to each other is insulting or crude and that's how we like it. The only difference really is that punches have to be kept away from my chest lol.

I know, right? It's irritating.

Same here XD I mean, there's a lot of snuggling, and hand-holding, and kissy mushy stuff too, but we tease each other all. the. time.

[Bolwing]

13 and in a relationship? A gay one, no less? Ezra, you're a lucky fellow.

I think that every relationship, whether it's a gay or straight one, is different. I say that purely from an observer's standpoint, but take my brother and his girlfriend, for example - he's the one who cooks, she's the one with a job, and most words that they utter to themselves could be taken as little more than just friendly banter.

Hell, if you feel that you love yourselves, who cares? You don't need to conform to any stereotypes or anything.

[woozie]

What I'm wondering about is, when my boyfriend and I are making out, it's like half romantic and half horsing around. I mean it's like we take it seriously in one sense and really are in love with each other and romantic. But at the same time we guys being guys and laugh and joke, say crude things, insult each other, punch each other and stuff like that.

I'm thinking it's not like that with a guy and girl at all, but I'm not sure.
And I'm not sure if we are just like that only because of our age (13).
So I'd like anyone's input on this, especially any bi guys who have had both a boyfriend and girlfriend. Thanks

Honestly, the other part is exactly what I like about being bi/gay and in a relationship with another guy...you don't have to be serious all the time, relationships should be about fun as well and how do guys have fun? They fight and poke each other....gay doesn't mean effeminate, so it's just fine.

[ksdnfkfr]

13 and in a relationship? A gay one, no less? Ezra, you're a lucky fellow.

Well we've know each other since 9 (but didn't start getting romantic until 13). So it's always been a really good friendship and the only one I have. But yeah I'm very lucky to have him as my friend. No one else irl seems remotely interested in that cause of my autism. Thanks for the input :)

[Dalcourt]

yeah, I guess that a gay relationship is different. I mean at least for me...I had a relationship with a girl and I'm now with a guy, it is more relaxed and all...I'm more myself than when I'm with a girl if that makes sense somehow.

[Hey-Im-Connor]

totally different

[FullyAlive]

I think it's really just the personality's involved. Me and the last guy I was seening were like that, insults, crude language play fighting I guess the only difference is he had to watch how hard he hit me because he was bigger and could actually hurt me. It's nice when you start off 'fighting' and then it turns into something else. I don't think I'd do well in a relationship where he treated me like I was breakable but I guess some girls might like that.