View Full Version : Is what I'm doing wrong?
pvanhouten
March 3rd, 2014, 04:40 AM
I have two gay/bi best friends and I guess they like my body or they like touching me. I've let give me a couple handies, but now one of them wants to give me bj. I want to do it for the pleasure because that's why I let them do most of the stuff, but I feel like I'm only taking advantage of him. Is this wrong?
NeuroTiger
March 3rd, 2014, 05:49 AM
You are not taking advantage; actually, it's a win-win situation, in my opinion.
AlexOnToast
March 3rd, 2014, 05:55 AM
Nope, so long as everyone is consenting and comfortable, no problems :)
GoWA_Vet
March 3rd, 2014, 09:29 AM
if he wants to do it, it is a win for both of you guys
Hollywood
March 3rd, 2014, 09:32 AM
It would be wrong if you were pressuring him to do it, but you're not. If he wants to give it and you want to receive it, then there's absolutely nothing wrong with it.
ksdnfkfr
March 3rd, 2014, 09:32 AM
You are providing him with something he wants.
phuckphace
March 3rd, 2014, 10:32 AM
I say do it. he's already touched your dick in one way, might as well have him do the same with his mouth. lol.
JamesSuperBoy
March 3rd, 2014, 11:23 AM
I have two gay/bi best friends and I guess they like my body or they like touching me. I've let give me a couple handies, but now one of them wants to give me bj. I want to do it for the pleasure because that's why I let them do most of the stuff, but I feel like I'm only taking advantage of him. Is this wrong?
You just go as you want - but do not feel pressured and for sure its ok to say no.
because that's why I let them do most of the stuff, but I feel like I'm only taking advantage of him. Is this wrong?
Mmm not sure what you mean "most of the stuff"
phuckphace
March 3rd, 2014, 11:27 AM
You just go as you want - but do not feel pressured and for sure its ok to say no.
yeah, agreed.
Fireangel
March 3rd, 2014, 12:11 PM
I have two gay/bi best friends and I guess they like my body or they like touching me. I've let give me a couple handies, but now one of them wants to give me bj. I want to do it for the pleasure because that's why I let them do most of the stuff, but I feel like I'm only taking advantage of him. Is this wrong?
Nothing wrong, Don't worry, go for it!.. :) How old are you all?
jacobjb10
March 3rd, 2014, 02:07 PM
Your not taking advantage if your happy and your friend is then that is fine. Its basicly a win win situation.
Troye
March 3rd, 2014, 02:27 PM
I don't see anything wrong with it as long as both of you are comfortable.
backjruton
March 3rd, 2014, 03:04 PM
I would just let them without thinking about it
Aidoon123
March 3rd, 2014, 03:28 PM
You're not taking advantage as long as you both consent, so go for it :)
deregisterme
March 3rd, 2014, 03:30 PM
I have two gay/bi best friends and I guess they like my body or they like touching me. I've let give me a couple handies, but now one of them wants to give me bj. I want to do it for the pleasure because that's why I let them do most of the stuff, but I feel like I'm only taking advantage of him. Is this wrong?
If he want's to and you want to, then there's no issue. As long as he doesn't do anything you don't want him to or force him to do something he doesn't. Otherwise enjoy the experience!
CcRoder
March 3rd, 2014, 04:05 PM
Keyword - consent.
nklarke
March 3rd, 2014, 04:10 PM
The important thing is what YOU WANT and if you feel comfortable.
Avacon
March 3rd, 2014, 04:18 PM
Keyword - consent.
I definitely have to agree with this - consent is the major part.
If they're willing, and you're willing, it should be all okay. Just make sure it's completely consensual.
Happy_guy
March 3rd, 2014, 04:26 PM
If you're okay with it, and he's okay with it, go ahead!
ComfortableInChaos
March 3rd, 2014, 05:42 PM
I'd say to do it if you're both down. It would only be bad if he told you he's not comfortable touching you or sucking you. Go ahead if he says it's cool and he's okay with doing it.
daniel 2014
March 3rd, 2014, 05:43 PM
Not if he wants too. He may even feel like he is taking advantage of you...
GoWA_Vet
March 3rd, 2014, 07:22 PM
Not if he wants too. He may even feel like he is taking advantage of you...
That is certainly possible. Gay guys do tend to feel like theyre sometimes violating straight guys' space in my experience
zach2424
March 3rd, 2014, 07:45 PM
No they want to do it so they're getting pleasure too.
everlong
March 3rd, 2014, 07:54 PM
It's not taking advantage if they want to do it
awesomeguy516
March 3rd, 2014, 10:19 PM
if your down for it and hes down for it go ahead
tom17
March 3rd, 2014, 11:22 PM
If you both are okay with that, I don't see anything wrong. I mean, he wants to play with your dick -of course- and you need someone to play with your dick. You both win. Pleasure for everyone. Go for it!
Luke91
March 4th, 2014, 08:11 PM
If 2 people are getting what they want and no one else is hurt, how could it be wrong. It sounds like he wants to do it and you want him to do it, then I say go for it.
RCT109
March 4th, 2014, 08:19 PM
let him
Ethe14
March 4th, 2014, 08:24 PM
No not at all, looks like a win win situation too. He offered and you want it so no issue there.
SciMassKid
March 4th, 2014, 09:47 PM
Do what you want.
shadynorm333
March 7th, 2014, 02:36 AM
He enjoys it as much as you, trust me
BronxTheBoss
March 7th, 2014, 08:15 AM
No your not taking advantage of them, ou guys all like it so it's mutual
Michaelo
March 7th, 2014, 08:28 AM
I think you should do it. It probly feels awsome. As long as both of u are confertible
Liven
March 7th, 2014, 09:50 AM
Your experimenting, not taking advantage of him. Don't worry, just have fun!
Hermes96
March 8th, 2014, 04:00 PM
I'd say do it its win win
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