Best Friends?

[drum major]

So i have this friend who i love more than i do my brother. I have no attraction to him he is just so meaningful to me. I dont think he feels the same way. I just want our friendship to grow closer but lately it feels like it is doing the opposite. Any advice on how i can fix this without coming of awkward?

[Ben101]

I felt exactly the same about one of my friends until a few days ago when he said how much of a great friend I was, and that I am his best friend ever (he is mine to) so just give it time, or maybe you should tell him how much of a great friend he is.

(See my full post here http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=203862 )

[ksdnfkfr]

So i have this friend who i love more than i do my brother. I have no attraction to him he is just so meaningful to me. I dont think he feels the same way. I just want our friendship to grow closer but lately it feels like it is doing the opposite. Any advice on how i can fix this without coming of awkward?

Do you have any idea why you guys are growing apart?

I felt exactly the same about one of my friends until a few days ago when he said how much of a great friend I was, and that I am his best friend ever (he is mine to) so just give it time, or maybe you should tell him how much of a great friend he is.

I think it's real important to tell stuff like that and it usually gets neglected with guys.

[Croconaw]

You can do something together or tell him how you feel. I feel the same way about one of my friends.

[AlexOnToast]

I feel just the same way about one of my friends. I'm sure it wouldnt be a huge amount of hassle to just talk it through with him and make him see your side of the situation

[ugaboy]

Talk to him! I had the same kinda talk with my best friend last year, we were just laying in my bed late at night - and I just told him how much I really appreciated him and his friendship, and how much I loved him as a friend. It was a little awkward for a few minutes, but then we really talked, and I found out he felt the same way. We are better than ever now.

[SciMassKid]

I went through the same thing. He did end up leaving me in the dust.

[drum major]

I have always talked to him about it... my other friends say that i am to attached to him. I definitely am not, at least not anymore. I just wish i could be there for him... I really just want to feel needed but i know that he can survive without me on his back every second

[DiamondsGirl]

I have always talked to him about it... my other friends say that i am to attached to him. I definitely am not, at least not anymore. I just wish i could be there for him... I really just want to feel needed but i know that he can survive without me on his back every second

well maybe he's just an independent kind of guy. Doesn't mean he dislikes you or anything.

[Jack russell dad]

Just tell him how u feel, and explain that it is not sexual, he is just some 1 u actually trust. Other than that, I'm not much help. I only have my cousin. Best of luck

[Verminicious Knid]

It's a common problem I face quite often. In my experience, you can't push too hard or you'll drive them away. Telling him how much you value him as a friend would be a good idea, though I'd recommend doing it on facebook/text/whatever rather than in person, to minimise any potential awkwardness.

[electraheartt]

Don't worry, just know that you guys need your space sometimes so sometimes it's best to just leave him alone for a bit when you think he needs his space :) He still likes you though!