my little sister :(

[Dracarys]

Well my younger cousin sister,who is extremely close to me just turned 14.
Lately she started hearing from her friends about masturbation and about how the other girls' boyfriends have done stuff to them and as long as I've known her she's never really into dating or any of that stuff.
My cuz is the only kid like me so we are like almost siblings.
Her parents like mine have close to zero tolerance to these subjects
Yesterday when we met she asked me about masturbation and how it feels to have another guy do it for you or how it feels to be with another guy.

What do I tell her x_x

[deregisterme]

Just be open and honest with her. There's no set age for a girl and boy to do anything, so assure her, that she doesn't have to do anything she doesn't want to. Let her know what she needs to know, and make sure she is comfortable with what she knows and does

[Dracarys]

Unlike my older second cus whom I'm involved with I really care about my lil sister let's call her Y for the sake of the topic.
I really care about Y and I don't want her doing something stupid and I don't want her to have sex until she's ready because I've seen the stupid shit people do these days.
But I'll do that first,I'll show her a video and see how it goes

[riverboy]

Just be open and honest with her. There's no set age for a girl and boy to do anything, so assure her, that she doesn't have to do anything she doesn't want to. Let her know what she needs to know, and make sure she is comfortable with what she knows and does

I agree and make sure you are comfortable in what you are talking about and doing.

[Dwemer]

Think back how u learned it. Dont give her all the info at once. Small steps :)

[jayce_xt]

Just tell her, if you're okay with it. If not, have her ask someone else. Cut-and-dry thing, really.

[ksdnfkfr]

She is 14, that is old enough to talk about sex with her.
My cousin and I talk about sex all the time. Just not around our folks lol.

[chrisjenkins]

Tell her she's old enough.

[Dracarys]

Well it's different I'm a guy and I tried it on my own after a couple of friends told me what they did.The problem is my sister is a good girl.Like I find her pretty and we do talk about sex and stuff but it's mostly related to what guys do.My sisters friends have all made out or gone way further with guys than her.I don't think she's had her first kiss yet.She has guy friends but she's not that into the whole making out or getting drunk or masturbating thing.

She's coming over today let's see what I can do.But I can't watch porn and not jerk off so I'll find an alternative,thanks for your advice though

[NeuroTiger]

At this age, she is mature enough to understand about sex.
Be honest, though.

[AlexOnToast]

I guess what the others said is correct. At 14, she is old enough to be talking about these things if she wants.

[Dracarys]

Well she came over and I showed her some basic stuff and today ah said she wants to give porn a try.
Guys,please understand,I can't just tell her to do everything at that age,I mean I did pretty fucked up shit then and I regret it.I understand just like me she's going through puberty but I don't want to be the reason why she went from a goody goody girl who'll do anything to satisfy herself when she's horny.
I don't want her to hookup with other guys or have flings,I want her to be with a decent guy who'll make her happy.I really care about her.
Also yesterday I could see her getting turned on so I let her browse through her porn and enjoy herself while I sat outside playing FIFA B|

[deregisterme]

Well she came over and I showed her some basic stuff and today ah said she wants to give porn a try.
Guys,please understand,I can't just tell her to do everything at that age,I mean I did pretty fucked up shit then and I regret it.I understand just like me she's going through puberty but I don't want to be the reason why she went from a goody goody girl who'll do anything to satisfy herself when she's horny.
I don't want her to hookup with other guys or have flings,I want her to be with a decent guy who'll make her happy.I really care about her.
Also yesterday I could see her getting turned on so I let her browse through her porn and enjoy herself while I sat outside playing FIFA B|

It's good that you're there for her, and that you care. That's about the best U can do :-)

[zach2424]

Tell her about it but don't include all the details, but if she's 14 she should be old enough to know.

[blacknite]

Just be honest with her

[SciMassKid]

She is old enough to know about it.