getting hard

[torcon4421]

is there any way i can keep my dick from not getting hard like i try to think about other things but whever i get naked i get hard, i can never take a public shower while im soft. how can i keep soft... i realize it might just be hormones (im 16) and when might they settle down?

[Zzz--]

You can't it's natural and nobody will care the body does what it wants so don't stress about it

[NeuroTiger]

For the moment, you don't have real control over it.
Just bear with it.
After all, getting hard is not that bad! ;)

[Troye]

For the most part there isn't much you can do to prevent getting hard, just part of puberty. Everyone deals with them though you're not alone

[JamesSuperBoy]

is there any way i can keep my dick from not getting hard like i try to think about other things but whever i get naked i get hard, i can never take a public shower while im soft. how can i keep soft... i realize it might just be hormones (im 16) and when might they settle down?

sorry never heard of anything but you get used to it and hormones settle down maybe a year or 2 yet -

[Fanta_Lover44]

Theres nothing you can do about it. Just try hide it I guess and take your mind off it, you will be suprsied how quickly it goes down.

[The captain]

its puberty mate...same here

[lifelies]

Imagine your 60-yo-self, wishing that he was a teen again and could get hard.
Feel lucky lol

[jacobjb10]

Sadly there no way of controlling boners. Just be proud of it!

[Fireangel]

is there any way i can keep my dick from not getting hard like i try to think about other things but whever i get naked i get hard, i can never take a public shower while im soft. how can i keep soft... i realize it might just be hormones (im 16) and when might they settle down?

Don´t worry, it´s pretty normal and common, a lot of guys get hard when they get naked everywhere. Maybe in your school's locker room and showers you can see other kids with a boner, right?

[AlexOnToast]

If you do happen to get one, the best course of action is to try divert your mind as much as possible

[Joshy]

i hate when i get random boners even in school! n around friends and family >.<

[nklarke]

Try start thinking in your grandmother naked ... it would be difficult to keep your boner.

[Luke91]

It takes practice. Have a towel or something ready if it happens or turn toward a wall. If you can get naked a few minutes then next time make the time longer. The more comfortable you get the less likely it is to happen. And if you get get a boner just remember it just means you are a healthy boy.

[joel-d]

Frequent boners seem unavoidable for guys in high school, maybe even college. If you want it to go down you have to think of something completely different that will totally distract you from thinking about sex or your boner. If I concentrate on trying to make my boner go down, it seems to get even harder because it keeps my attention on my boner.

[CcRoder]

C'est la puberté :P

The most disgusting thing you can think of. Write it down and keep it in your pocket. Look at it and think of it, and sometimes your brain will go into one those situations where it can't help BUT think of that.

[SadLove]

Masturbate in the morning, like if its at school. Mbate before school starts, when i do i don't get a boner, or have sexual thoughts most of the day.

[ksdnfkfr]

Whoever invents a way to prevent frequent teenage boners will be famous.

[Sean Silver]

Try masturbating every once in a while, it's healthy and it will relieve some of the buildup.

[jayce_xt]

^ What he said. Alternatively, try doing it a LOT in a single day. I notice that will sometimes leave me too unaroused to get horny for days straight.

[chrisjenkins]

There isn't much you can do.

[ComfortableInChaos]

It just happens. Even though you might not want it to, it will. It's one thing about growing up that sucks; boners. You can't control em, which is even worse.

[ugaboy]

Whoever invents a way to prevent frequent teenage boners will be famous.

Ezra has it right! This person will be richer than Bill Gates.

No way to really prevent it - or fix it. It just happens, and at the most bad times!

[tom17]

It's called puberty, man, haha. I guess you can't avoid random boners, just try to think about something else, never think about your dick or sexuality in a moment like that, NEVER! And don't touch it neither!

[Hey-Im-Connor]

punch yourself or go under cold water, think about gross stuff

[Catholic Guy]

Tense a major muscle group for 60 seconds, maybe run on the spot, this will get the blood flowing to somewhere else and away from your penis

[pvanhouten]

What I tend to do is to build up sense of disgust almost in my stomach (especially when a close friend of mine sits on my lap, and I don't want her to feel or see it). I believe it takes the attention away from getting hard and it makes your body not in the mood for it.

[male_greece]

just w8 and it will pass, try keeping ur mind off of sex and think something else

[phuckphace]

I've found that the "think about gross stuff" method doesn't really work too well. your brain has a way of saying NOPE and pushing the sexual thoughts to the front. either that or I've gotten better at not storing gross thoughts in my brain to begin with :p

masturbating more often is probably your best bet.

[Kjack31]

Not much you can do about it, sorry.

[MechaSniper]

Like people say. it has its own mind

[brookline1254]

I usually think of a hard algebra problem but if that doesn't work I jut let It out

[alex19]

I think there's nothing you can do about it

[backjruton]

Personally I would just say to not take a public shower. I hate the idea of those things, it's creepy and I would never go into one (at the pool I stay in my swimming shorts and it's better to just have a bath when you get home)

I don't know how to put a stop for it. And sometimes for me that could definitely be useful if I did know a way because I've got one instantly just by looking at a friend before and I think he saw it :rolleyes:

[asm1072]

its nature..happens even for me
but not even during shower,it seems you are aroused ..
are you a man who think more about sex,then it happens said by the doctor.

[Catholic Guy]

What you need to do is get more used to being in that situation and you will get used to it then you probably won't get the erections