Last Night

[Curious.kid]

So last night my friend came over and spent the night. Our couch pulls out into a bed and we both slept together in the same bed. After a while, he asked me if he could take off his pajama pants, and I said that's fine because he wasn't wearing socks or a shirt. But he was naked only wearing underwear in the same bed as me. Do you think he likes me? Because I'd feel cold with only underwear last night.

[ChicagoBlackhawksFan]

Maybe he wanted to sleep with his underwear. Cause I think boys your age like to sleep with only underwear!

[mychalo]

It could be he sleeps like that at home. i like pajama pants and friends like underpants, whatever you prefer.

[JamesSuperBoy]

its all about being comfortable and maybe he just brought pjs in case he felt bad sleeping in briefs - so he was comfy

[Zzz--]

Yeah I sleep in boxers and I'm 13 so he is probably just trying to be comfortable

[The captain]

I guess just he sleeps every day only with briefs

[nklarke]

Not necessary, impossible to really know.

[frisbee25]

Likes to sleep in underwear very normal

[Magnus Bane]

I dont know... like the others said he could kust like to sleep like that. but you never know you could always ask him. Best of luck!! :)

[jacobjb10]

He could possibly like you but he was probably just uncomfortable and prefers to sleep in his boxers.

[Fireangel]

So last night my friend came over and spent the night. Our couch pulls out into a bed and we both slept together in the same bed. After a while, he asked me if he could take off his pajama pants, and I said that's fine because he wasn't wearing socks or a shirt. But he was naked only wearing underwear in the same bed as me. Do you think he likes me? Because I'd feel cold with only underwear last night.

Yes, It's pretty possible. Was you comfortable with him naked at the same bed?

[Curious.kid]

Yes, It's pretty possible. Was you comfortable with him naked at the same bed?

Well I thought it was kind of weird. I got a boner when I saw him only in his underwear, so I thought if he liked me he'd want me to take off my clothes too but I didn't. In the middle of the night he had his arm on me and his leg on top of mine and it felt nice because it was warm and I got another boner. I should've told this at the top.

[GoWA_Vet]

Well I thought it was kind of weird. I got a boner when I saw him only in his underwear, so I thought if he liked me he'd want me to take off my clothes too but I didn't. In the middle of the night he had his arm on me and his leg on top of mine and it felt nice because it was warm and I got another boner. I should've told this at the top.

it probably would have indeed been helpful to mention that at the beginning but no harm done

[ChrisFromKY]

I think you maybe reading more into it than what it was. I agree with the other guys. He probably sleeps like that at home and wanted to be comfortable. As for his arm and leg laying on you, everybody does that in their sleep sometimes.

[Hermes96]

he might like you or he might just like sleeping in his under where the only way you can truly know is to ask him

[Fireangel]

Well I thought it was kind of weird. I got a boner when I saw him only in his underwear, so I thought if he liked me he'd want me to take off my clothes too but I didn't. In the middle of the night he had his arm on me and his leg on top of mine and it felt nice because it was warm and I got another boner. I should've told this at the top.

Great!... He cuddle you, I think he likes you. How old is your friend?.. Is he through puberty or not yet?

[Luke91]

I would say he likes you as a friend because he trusted to ask you if he could be comfortable when he slept. True friends don't hide things from each other. Yes, he demonstrated he wants to be a good friend but don't make it into something romantic. My guess he sleeps in his underwear or nude at home. By him hugging you in the night might mean he sleeps with a little brother like a lot of boys do. No, I do not see what he did as weird. And you getting a boner does not mean anything except you were enjoying it. If you sleep with your friend again, why let him be the only one that is comfortable. You know he would not mind it if you stripped to you underwear too. Straight boys enjoy sleeping like this all the time and boners are just an enjoyable part of it.

[Luke91]

I would say he likes you as a friend because he trusted to ask you if he could be comfortable when he slept. True friends don't hide things from each other. Yes, he demonstrated he wants to be a good friend but don't make it into something romantic. My guess he sleeps in his underwear or nude at home. By him hugging you in the night might mean he sleeps with a little brother like a lot of boys do. No, I do not see what he did as weird. And you getting a boner does not mean anything except you were enjoying it. If you sleep with your friend again, why let him be the only one that is comfortable. You know he would not mind it if you stripped to you underwear too. Straight boys enjoy sleeping like this all the time and boners are just an enjoyable part of it.

[Troye]

I think it could be a combination of being curious and just being comfortable with you, both are fine nothing to worry about

[Zanman11]

No I think you're fine. He wasn't stark naked so...

[joel-d]

I don't think that what he wears to bed says much about whether he likes you. If he's used to sleeping in just underwear, and he wanted to wear the same thing he was used to even if he was at your house, that probably just says what he thinks is comfortable. I hate wearing sweats or long sleep pants to bed because they get all tangled up and feel uncomfortable.

If him putting his arm on you was deliberate, and if he kept it there even after he woke up, maybe that at least says that he's comfortable being close to you. But that could still just be friendship. Friends can hug each other and put their arms on each other and have other body contact without it meaning they're attracted.

Boners could just be normal random boners while sleeping. Or they could mean that the contact was arousing for him or for you or both.

But I don't think you'll really know what any of it means unless you actually talk about it. I know that might be an awkward conversation to have, but unless you've talked about it you can't really know what any of the other things mean. They could be completely neutral or they could mean more.

[Sean Silver]

I like sleeping in only underwear too, so it's probably nothing

[Ethe14]

He might have just liked sleeping in his underwear, I personally can't sleep unless I only have underwear on or I'm naked. If you think he likes you I suggest asking him.

[zach2424]

Hard to tell I would have done that because I like a guy if I was in his spot.

[ksdnfkfr]

I sleep in the same bed with and cuddle with two boys with us only wearing underwear.
One boy is my cousin and we don't "like" each other that way.
The other boy is my bestie and we "like" each other a lot.

And even though my cousin and I don't like each other that way, we get boners together all the time. Especially morning wood. So just enjoy having someone who is that close with you. It feels so nice having someone to cuddle with either way.

[Andrew2499]

I sleep naked or in my underwear. but he might want to. you will never know unless you ask

[SciMassKid]

That is normal.

[MichaelaBlack03]

Perhaps he just felt so confident with you, are you guys like best friends?

[pjones]

if i'm at a friends i'll sleep in underwear since they either do the same or wear pajamas.
at home I sleep nude even if a friend stays over, but he usually wears what he does at home. yeah we get boners but it happens dressed or in bed, just at that age

[Alexcar582]

We'll I sleep in my boxers when it's hot it's nothing rlly when I go to sleepovers usually the guys r in their boxers only

[NickCollins]

Well if he had his arm and leg on you and he took of everything but his underwear he probably likes you or he sleeps in his underwear normally and that comfortable to him and in that case that arm and leg was a accident while he was sleeping

[PlainOldEvar]

Well, i like to sleep in my boxers and i never get cold unless its a super cold winter night so maybe it got too hot for him?

[ColinB]

I usually sleep in my underwear unless im really hot and at home, then they come off too. I can not sleep in pajamas or clothes.....but it doesn't really get that cold here. I'm gonna go with he just was more comfy like that....unless next time it goes further.

[Wyatt 13]

Dude from my experience in sleep overs str8 guys never:
1. Sleep in their undies
2. Put arm or leg over other guy
3. Sleep close to other guy.

But, is just from my experience. So maybe this guy likes you.

I wish I had this kind of friends.

[everlong]

I'd say it's more of something he's used to

[backjruton]

All I know is most people sleep in their underwear as it gives more of a free feeling. But the other thing... I'd personally be quite happy, I've had a lot of talks these past 2 days about my sexuality and once again it's causing me to be spoken to by more people, and I would definitely just sleep in my underwear too if with someone else. Definitely not like me to change how I'm feeling so someone else will be comfortable :D Maybe he does like you, which can be thought of as good and also creepy to some people XD

[Aidoon123]

I think it is just his preference, depending on how I feel, temperature I sleep in just underwear and PJ pants, and with the cuddling thing, I do that in my sleep. I used to have to share a bed during sleepovers and I used to always wrap my arms around the person and put my legs around them, and in the morning I'd have no recollection :)

[TOD0156]

You're fine he wanted to be comfortable

[TheLivingLie]

Maybe he wanted to sleep with his underwear. Cause I think boys your age like to sleep with only underwear!

That's completely true for me. When I went on my ski trip with school, the other 4 guys all slept in boxers