Advice please

[Ben_]

First post on VT I know this kind of thread is just too common but I would appriciate some advice


So basically there's this girl, her name is Sacha.

We have been good friends since October last year.

Everyone thinks we are together, and when. We get asked she goes all shy

I want to ask her out but if she says no the it will make everything awkward beetween us.

So what should I do

[JamesSuperBoy]

First post on VT I know this kind of thread is just too common but I would appriciate some advice


So basically there's this girl, her name is Sacha.

We have been good friends since October last year.

Everyone thinks we are together, and when. We get asked she goes all shy

I want to ask her out but if she says no the it will make everything awkward beetween us.

So what should I do

Not sure but you could just ask in a general way - nothing specific and see how it goes. Might help if you could find out what she would like to do or be interested in.

[Serenity.]

I think it's a good idea to approach her about her feelings. Communication is always important! You could ask her how she feels about you or something along those lines instead of asking her out. That way, how she's feels is out in the open. Also mention that you don't want anything to ruin your friendship! You could always just keep hanging out with her as friends. Do things together that you both enjoy and keep building up your trust and friendship :). Eventually, you'll know when to ask her.

[grossgod11]

By the situation, we would have to know how she feels, try and ask around and find out or see how she feels about you

[Ben_]

Okay thanks for the advice

[radsniper]

people ask me if me and my friend are a couple and i do get embarrased because i like this person