I'm 16 and when I have wanked before my foreskin has ripped do I need to be worried?

[ChillaxBoy17]

When I was like 13/14 I used to wank a lot and I ripped my foreskin, will it have left any long lasting damage or is it normal for it to happen?

[SamMystic]

Ripped? As in, teared? Like blood and all?

[Theaverageboy]

Your foreskin ripped what happened and how does it happen during jerking off

[ChillaxBoy17]

Well it was sore and the skin was broken

[hairy balls]

i would talk to your doctor about it

[SethfromMI]

I am cut but that sounds incredibly painful and I would absolutely consult your doctor about it

[denverdude]

Doctor. Go see a doctor. Quickly

[robertd2001]

I'm sure if he had needed to see a doctor, he would have known without asking. Try using some moisturizing lotion or jojoba oil on your foreskin when you masturbate, and stretch it out slowly.

[garfield221]

you need to be circumcised

[Just JT]

Sounds like you might have a right forskin. There are stretching exercises and creams you can use to loosen it up some. It it is still bothering you I'd look into talking to your doc about. It it's to tight it can make things like jerkin off and sex a little uncomfortable or painful.

But tearing sounds pretty aweful bro, like fuckin ouch

[ChillaxBoy17]

Thanks for all your concern guys, and yeah Ikr, it killed, btw I am talking past tense, like years ago, and it hurt like hell :eek:

[Hermes]

So you say this happened in the past so presumably it has healed now? Skin seems to heal pretty well so I wouldn't be worried about that but the obvious thing is has anything changed since then, i.e. is what caused it to happen the first time likely to happen again? So if it happened because you were too rough have you learned to be more gentle? If it happened because it was too tight at the time has it become looser since?

[ChillaxBoy17]

Well it kept ripping in the same place several times before it finally healed for good and I have had no more problems since but my foreskin is still quite tight, but I still manage to wank without any major issues.

[Hermes]

Well it kept ripping in the same place several times before it finally healed for good and I have had no more problems since but my foreskin is still quite tight, but I still manage to wank without any major issues.

Ok, so if you have wanking sorted then, given your other question about having sex, presumably you're asking this question because you wonder if it will withstand that.

I can't say for sure as I have never had the problem but it will obviously help if you can take it gently to start with. It will help if you're doing it because you are in a relationship with someone you love because then they will be patient if you need to take it easy or even stop completely and because you are more likely to be able to open and honest with them.

[ChillaxBoy17]

Ok, so if you have wanking sorted then, given your other question about having sex, presumably you're asking this question because you wonder if it will withstand that.

I can't say for sure as I have never had the problem but it will obviously help if you can take it gently to start with. It will help if you're doing it because you are in a relationship with someone you love because then they will be patient if you need to take it easy or even stop completely and because you are more likely to be able to open and honest with them. Yeah dude, but the only problem is I think there is some scarring on the foreskin and I just hope it won't impede my sex life in any way, (I'm gay btw not that it's relevant :P) I want to just have a normal healthy sex life with sex and masturbation like every other boy does.

[Hermes]

Yeah dude, but the only problem is I think there is some scarring on the foreskin and I just hope it won't impede my sex life in any way, (I'm gay btw not that it's relevant :P) I want to just have a normal healthy sex life with sex and masturbation like every other boy does.

Hopefully that will be the case but assuming you mean anal sex then I can't speak with any authority as I have never done it (I've only had vaginal sex). From a relationship perspective, though, you should not feel guilty if you're unlucky and have to stay "stop, this hurts, lets 69 instead and I'll go to the doctor and we can try again another time".

[ChillaxBoy17]

Hopefully that will be the case but assuming you mean anal sex then I can't speak with any authority as I have never done it (I've only had vaginal sex). From a relationship perspective, though, you should not feel guilty if you're unlucky and have to stay "stop, this hurts, lets 69 instead and I'll go to the doctor and we can try again another time". Lol I'm not worried about that atm mate, just mainly thinking about the future and what it means for me 'n stuff

[ChillaxBoy17]

Hopefully that will be the case but assuming you mean anal sex then I can't speak with any authority as I have never done it (I've only had vaginal sex). From a relationship perspective, though, you should not feel guilty if you're unlucky and have to stay "stop, this hurts, lets 69 instead and I'll go to the doctor and we can try again another time". Thanks for giving me some advice bro, it's been on my mind for a few months now

[Just JT]

Well it kept ripping in the same place several times before it finally healed for good and I have had no more problems since but my foreskin is still quite tight, but I still manage to wank without any major issues.

Sounds like you probably stretched it to much to fast, and healed back to where it's comfortable. I don't think having a tightforskin has any real huge like medical issues unles there's pain. In fact, may be even more pleasurable in reality.
So just be careful ok?

[ChillaxBoy17]

Sounds like you probably stretched it to much to fast, and healed back to where it's comfortable. I don't think having a tightforskin has any real huge like medical issues unles there's pain. In fact, may be even more pleasurable in reality.
So just be careful ok? Yeah thanks, I'm just worried whether people will still like me for it, I don't want to make things difficult for my partner like where bj's are concerned

[Hermes]

Yeah thanks, I'm just worried whether people will still like me for it, I don't want to make things difficult for my partner like where bj's are concerned

On the first point a girl generally likes a cock because of the guy it is attached to. Hopefully a b/f would think the same way.

On the second point I don't think it would stop you receiving a blow job.

[Just JT]

Yeah thanks, I'm just worried whether people will still like me for it, I don't want to make things difficult for my partner like where bj's are concerned

If/when you get there it simply won't matter. Ifit even became a convo, just explain. If it bothers your partner that much that it affect yours ex life, then get a different partner. There to superficial.

On the first point a girl generally likes a cock because of the guy it is attached to. Hopefully a b/f would think the same way.

On the second point I don't think it would stop you receiving a blow job.

Agreed

[ChillaxBoy17]

On the first point a girl generally likes a cock because of the guy it is attached to. Hopefully a b/f would think the same way.

On the second point I don't think it would stop you receiving a blow job.

If/when you get there it simply won't matter. Ifit even became a convo, just explain. If it bothers your partner that much that it affect yours ex life, then get a different partner. There to superficial.



Agreed

Thanks guys for your help, your making me feel a bit better about it. :)

[ChillaxBoy17]

Just one more question though, has anybody else ever had this? Or am I the only one?

[Just JT]

There has been many threads about forskins in the past. All with varying different questions. May not be exactly identical to the thread/problem your posting about. But then again, everybody, and every body is different. So not unusual. I really think it was simply a tigger than you'd normally want a forskins to be, and for however reason, you might of fixed it.

What concerns me is your use of the word tear. Leads me
To believe it's not only painfilul, but was some blood. And even if healed, I'd have a doc take a look at it. Better now and know your safe then have an issue later on ya no?

[ChillaxBoy17]

There has been many threads about forskins in the past. All with varying different questions. May not be exactly identical to the thread/problem your posting about. But then again, everybody, and every body is different. So not unusual. I really think it was simply a tigger than you'd normally want a forskins to be, and for however reason, you might of fixed it.

What concerns me is your use of the word tear. Leads me
To believe it's not only painfilul, but was some blood. And even if healed, I'd have a doc take a look at it. Better now and know your safe then have an issue later on ya no? I'm embarrassed though bro, I don't want a doctor to see my dick...

[Just JT]

I'm embarrassed though bro, I don't want a doctor to see my dick...

I'm sure your doc has seem thousands of dicks, in all shapes sizes colors and state of arousal. I get what your feeling, but shit, he/she is a doctor. Prob already seen and you just don't remember it I all

Do the right thing and be mature about your heath ok?

[ChillaxBoy17]

I'm sure your doc has seem thousands of dicks, in all shapes sizes colors and state of arousal. I get what your feeling, but shit, he/she is a doctor. Prob already seen and you just don't remember it I all

Do the right thing and be mature about your heath ok? Ok bro, I will but it will be hard for me, I mean I'm scared he might tell me to get a circumcision or something

[mookie]

I've been pulling mine back for a couple years and it doesn't completely cover the head so I've never had a problem. I'd guess if it healed already and you can still masturbate with no problems it will be OK for you

[Just JT]

Ok bro, I will but it will be hard for me, I mean I'm scared he might tell me to get a circumcision or something

Think most docs avoid surgery until the last resort. And it's a growing thing about circumcision now. Did a little paper on it in school last year lol!!

At one time the AMA was all supporting and pushing for all boys to be cut. And now they take really no position on it. Unless itsmedically necessary. Most kids who were cut at birth, was unnecessary. Some call it mutilation now. Imo I'd agree. But hey, take one step at a time right? Most uncut kids, don't need to get cut. Very few. There's things he'll tell you to do that'll help.

And besides, if it has to happen, worry about it when he tells you that. Until then it's waisted energy.

[mattsmith48]

Just one more question though, has anybody else ever had this? Or am I the only one?

A buddy of mine his gf was giving her a HJ and she pulled to much and it ripped, so he had to go to the ER and they had to circumcise him.

[Just JT]

A buddy of mine his gf was giving her a HJ and she pulled to much and it ripped, so he had to go to the ER and they had to circumcise him.

Prolly not what the OP wants to hear right about now lol!!!

[ChillaxBoy17]

A buddy of mine his gf was giving her a HJ and she pulled to much and it ripped, so he had to go to the ER and they had to circumcise him. Well aren't you just a bundle of joy, that makes me feel great.. thanks for that.. NOT.. :(

[zzzzzzzzzz]

Ok bro, I will but it will be hard for me, I mean I'm scared he might tell me to get a circumcision or something

Circumcision is usually only the last resort if you are still suffering from a tight foreskin. Has it loosened up a bit over the last couple of years? Or is it still tight? The doctor can also prescribe steroid cream to help with the tightness. That probably contributed to the issues you had a couple of years ago. With outany tightness, there is a lot of freedom of movement.

[Hermes]

Well aren't you just a bundle of joy, that makes me feel great.. thanks for that.. NOT.. :(

I think it is possible that, when neonatal circumcision is common, doctors may be much more ready to see circumcision as the solution. Here is the UK neonatal circumcision is unusual and most guys are uncut so our doctors tend to see it as a last resort rather than something to rush into.

[Leon03]

Well aren't you just a bundle of joy, that makes me feel great.. thanks for that.. NOT.. :(

Chillax, boy!! Pun intended :yes:
Don't sweat it.

As long as it does not affect your sex-life and you are able to enjoy whatever you do. Don't worry. Just the idea there might be an issue does not really imply any action was necessary.

In case it causes discomfort or pain:
Where exactly your foreskin ripped? This little skin bridge (called frenulum) that is to be found on the underside of your glans or has it ripped somewhere on its circumference? Sorry if you mentioned before :whoops:

If the frenulum ripped and it bothers you a little surgery could help and ease your (sex-)life. NO circumcision! Just an frenulum extension. I had it done and as well my foreskin and I survived :yeah:.

If it ripped on its circumference the foreskin might be tight and you should also see a doctor. My brother had this condition after a severe balanitis. There are ointments your doctor is able to prescripe that help stretching your foreskin open. Only if those ointments do not help and the discomfort is unbearable YOU can decide if you want to go for surgical help.
But keep in mind that surgical treatment does not only mean circumcision but there are also techniques to surgically widen your foreskin. So you can keep it if you want to. (My cousin had this done some months ago and he is super happy with the outcome).

In short: If it is just about the concerns there might be an issue - lay back enjoy your life and wait until the day comes.
If you suffer from discomfort - get over your fears to see a doctor and ask for help. No one can force you to have anything done to your body that you do not want. Neither a doctor or your parents or anybody.
All the best!

[Turbofan explosion]

I think you really should talk to a doctor about it. The doctor should be able to tell you what you should do, and should as well be able to answer this question.

[Bailey56]

I'm circumcised but it sounds scary. Be careful, take it easy and use plenty of lotion/lubricant daily