Boner at the WORST moment when friend needed me

[TurboDieselBandit]

So it's 5:30am and I just got back in bed after my best friend, also my house mate, woke me up at 4:12am in an emotional emergency after a fun night hanging out but now his girlfriend of two weeks was crying and leaving. We've been great friends for three years and he just admitted to lying about almost everything. These were VERY detailed lies that have been carefully maintained for years about his past, jobs, relationships, finances, family, personal secrets etc. I'm not upset or completely surprised, I observe more than I say and found it hard to fully believe him. Anyways, I gave him a minute long embracing hug to comfort him (his shirt was off) and I got a boner. I think he noticed. I feel like such a perverted jerk who can't control himself in a friend's greatest time of need. Why would I do that right then??? IDK. I just REALLY hope he didn't notice, I don't wana be a shallow friend. What should I do? Should I say something about it in person today, text an apology now or pretend it didn't happen? Idk what he thinks so I'm tempted to do the second and I don't like ignoring problems.


I know this is small compared to everything else but I really want him to know I'm here for him in the best way I know how.

[ksdnfkfr]

You should know as well as me how easily meaningless boners trigger.
Recently my grandpa was helping me do a urine sample just holding
the cup for me and I got a raging boner. Dude, my grandpa.
They happen at the worst times for no reason.

[AlexOnToast]

I have gotten them in lower-body checkups at the hospital. They really can happen at the worst moments...

[Fanta_Lover44]

I got one at school in front of an entire crowd.... What a day that was....

[Bmble_B]

I would just pretend It didnt happen but if he brings it up I would handle the convo cooly, and calmy. I know how you feel about the boner part though, WORST possible times!

[radsniper]

survey the situation if he's acting differently around you bring it up and handle it if not don't bring it up because he'll be like dude you got a boner that funny man so just read him for the time being

[Alex_3869]

If he acts like nothing happened, then don't bring it up. They happen at the weirdest times, so I wouldn't sweat it. I'm sure he would understand

[jayce_xt]

Yeah. I've had it happen, too. Keep in mind, he's a guy, too. He'll understand just how ridiculous hard-ons can pop up sometimes. If you feel you gotta say sorry, then go ahead. But keep in mind that it probably wasn't a big deal to him. Might have even made him laugh, which would make an otherwise rough situation kinda less stressful.

[Lovelife090994]

Random boners or boners when near someone else is normal and a fact to having a functioning penis. It can be weird, even wrong but hopefully your friend will understand.