Wanting to be kissed

[Curious.kid]

I'm worried that nobody will ever want to kiss me. Am I handsome or cute enough for someone to want to kiss me? I want to kiss a girl in my class but I'm afraid to and how she'll respond if I ask. And im also scared to ask! I know many boys on here are gay and I would try kissing a boy just to see what it's like because I'm curious.

By the way, I'm talking about kissing on the LIPS!

[ksdnfkfr]

Am I handsome or cute enough for someone to want to kiss me?

Is that supposed to be a joke? You are extremely cute and handsome.

[Hermes96]

i'd say wait for the right person i waited 16 years for my first kiss off a guy and it was amazing i'm so glad i have waited for the right guy i would not change it for the world and as for the other thing it shouldn't matter if your cute or not but i don't think you should have any issues in that area

[AlexOnToast]

You are what many people would consider cute so don't worry. But from my knowledge, walking right up to a girl and asking for a snog is not always the best approach if you don't like being hit with a mock-designer handbag XD

[Sydneyy]

You are what many people would consider cute so don't worry. But from my knowledge, walking right up to a girl and asking for a snog is not always the best approach if you don't like being hit with a mock-designer handbag XD

I agree you should not go up to her and ask for a kiss because she will most likely say no. You have to be friends first and work from there

[jayce_xt]

Just give it time, chummer. If you're that curious to know what it's like, try kissing the smooth side of your forearm. I used to do that from time to time, because that part of my skin is about as soft as my lips, and... yeah. Actual kisses are way better, though. In all ways. At least, they are if they're from someone you really like. If they're from someone you don't like at all, they kinda suck, haha

[Ethe14]

Just give it time, my suggestion is that you wait until you find someone you really bond with and then kiss. More special that way.

[NotShortButFunsized]

Dont spend too much time worrying about it, you're thirteen it won't happen the second you go into middle school

[Jabbawocke]

I know that feel bro :D Don't worry, i'm 15 and forever alone. Yehey.

[Curious.kid]

I agree you should not go up to her and ask for a kiss because she will most likely say no. You have to be friends first and work from there

Once I'm friends with her, then what do I do for her to kiss me?

[JamesSuperBoy]

little you can do except wait and hope -

[NeuroTiger]

What a joke? Obviously you are really cute. :D
For the kiss, a day will come when you'll have the chance to kiss her on the lips.

[Fanta_Lover44]

Ok, you're very cute and you just need to wait for the right person. For that kiss a day will come about and you'll be able to kiss her.

[lifelies]

You don't want to waste your first kiss with someone who you don't especially love.
I say wait...

[Ethan]

Just be a good friend. If you really like each other and she becomes your girlfriend, it will happen.

[Lisa R]

I wouldn't worry about it you are young and plenty of time.
Now need to rush it.

[ugaboy]

Hey, you are really cute - and I am sure that many boys and girls on here would kiss you. But in real life, you just gotta make good friends with her/him, and when the time is right it just kinda happens naturally. No asking involved - it just happens. and it can be really nice!

[Troye]

It's common to have sudden urges like that, sometimes its good to just go for it no matter if its a guy or a girl!

[Sydneyy]

Once I'm friends with her, then what do I do for her to kiss me?

Um it might take awhile though. She needs to develop feelings for you. Just be yourself and make her feel special. And maybe you can get a kiss soon.

[NickCollins]

first of your cute
and get to know the girl and find a good time to make your move i'm speaking hypothetically cause i'm gay

[Karkat]

By the way, I'm talking about kissing on the LIPS!

I wrote a comprehensive list of sex myths and I didn't even go into this thread with that mindset

Not sure what that means :lol:

WELL, kissing a boy, and kissing a girl really aren't that different- it's not as drastically different as say, sex. The difference is in the amount of experience the kisser has.

It really depends on how you feel about boys and girls. Both were exciting to me, because I can be attracted to both genders.

Don't worry too much about your first kiss. It's not going to be perfect, but the more natural you let yourself be, the more you'll enjoy it.

Don't bring up the topic of kissing right away, make sure you're both feeling comfortable with each other, then bring it up.

I don't have a lot of advice other than that, sorry. :whoops:

Best of luck. :)