Getting over Someone

[CharlieHorse]

I've grown to like someone a lot.
She's all i can think about.
We talk every day, we're friends, relatively close despite we've met only a couple months ago.

She has a bf who's way better than me, and she loves him.
I'm very happy for her.
All I want is for her to be happy.

So I need to get over the feelings I have for her.
I feel so bad about it. I wish I could just get over her. Sometimes, It hurts so much. Sometimes i feel like the only way to be rid of the pain and loneliness is to die. Not even sleep is a relief, she's in every dream I have.

I don't know what to do.

[Stronk Serb]

That's a tough call. Maybe tell her that you like her, but that she should stay happy. It really depends on her personality.

[CharlieHorse]

That's a tough call. Maybe tell her that you like her, but that she should stay happy. It really depends on her personality.

idk every time i'm with her, i can't sum up enough thought to tell her.

She'd probably understand.

It's just really hard because a part of me wants her so much, another part of me wants to push her away, and another part wants me to just shut up and stop being so stupid.

[ksdnfkfr]

If you don't act on your feelings by telling her, then usually it seems all that is left is a slow time of getting over her and trying to keep yourself busy while that process is going on.

[Synyster Shadows]

Guys, remember the girl has a bf. The guy probably won't take someone telling his girlfriend he likes her lightly. Sorry Charlie, the best way to get over it to stay busy and your feelings will pass in time. Sorry bud. Hope things get better for you. Keep your head up. You'll find someone eventually.

[CharlieHorse]

Guys, remember the girl has a bf. The guy probably won't take someone telling his girlfriend he likes her lightly. Sorry Charlie, the best way to get over it to stay busy and your feelings will pass in time. Sorry bud. Hope things get better for you. Keep your head up. You'll find someone eventually.

The guy is in a different state. They're in a long distance relationship.
Just thought I should clarify.

[Body odah Man]

I've grown to like someone a lot.
She's all i can think about.
We talk every day, we're friends, relatively close despite we've met only a couple months ago.

She has a bf who's way better than me, and she loves him.
I'm very happy for her.
All I want is for her to be happy.

So I need to get over the feelings I have for her.
I feel so bad about it. I wish I could just get over her. Sometimes, It hurts so much. Sometimes i feel like the only way to be rid of the pain and loneliness is to die. Not even sleep is a relief, she's in every dream I have.

I don't know what to do.

:(
Man ddue you've got it hard. Sadly I don't have any advice but...I hope things work out. Hang tite brony

[xban]

I've grown to like someone a lot.
She's all i can think about.
We talk every day, we're friends, relatively close despite we've met only a couple months ago.

She has a bf who's way better than me, and she loves him.
I'm very happy for her.
All I want is for her to be happy.

So I need to get over the feelings I have for her.
I feel so bad about it. I wish I could just get over her. Sometimes, It hurts so much. Sometimes i feel like the only way to be rid of the pain and loneliness is to die. Not even sleep is a relief, she's in every dream I have.

I don't know what to do.

Hey man it's really sad to hear that. I know how you're feeling and I know it's not easy. But don't worry, things will get better, you will have to give it time. It's the most important thing right now for you. There's no magical way to get over someone, but with time will be able to make you feel better.

[Melodic]

Honestly, the girl has a boyfriend so going for that is a big risk and a big explosion that rarely doesn't happen.. I'd say just leave it alone and try to find things to occupy your time.. If she ends up single, and you are still single as well and interested, then see where it could lead.

[ninja789]

sorry but I would say I agree with Madie

[CharlieHorse]

It has been a long time. We grew apart. She now thinks I'm weird and doesn't talk to me anymore. We're now going to different schools too.

Maybe I can say I don't like her anymore. Hard to believe. It's almost sad.

[dreamofdante]

Usually I just cope and keep going. There's no process with me. I just do it. I'm used to being rejected and moving on from various women so maybe it's natural for me but I really hope it's not for you. You should be okay if you accept it and move on.

[targaryen101]

honestly, the best thing to do is to know that you have closure to what the outcome is, and try your best to move in and I KNOW it takes time, but, write a list of the good in your life, count your blessings and keep busy, focus on your friends and family what YOU love, you have all the time in the world to do things your yourself! being single is being able to do anything YOU want to do...now is the time for you to be selfish and indulgence in what you desire.

[ImCoolBeans]

First off, nobody is "better than you". Everybody is different in their own unique ways, and you can't objectively say that somebody is better than you. You have to hold yourself up to a a high standard -- if you tell yourself that you are worthless or not good enough you'll eventually start believing it -- the first step to thinking highly of yourself is to start telling yourself that you are worth it, and that you are good enough, because there is nobody in your world more important than you, and you have to treat yourself like gold.

Back on topic, though, somethings just aren't meant to be. That doesn't mean that you weren't good enough, or fell short of greatness, it just means that you found yourself falling for somebody that you weren't truly compatible with. It's a two way street, and if the other person isn't feeling it, then unfortunately it isn't meant to be. Things change, yes, but generally speaking.

Getting over somebody is no easy task. It took me a long time to get over somebody in my life, and I was not the same for a long time because of it. It lead to a lot of depression and anxiety, which I already was going through, so the situation did not make it better. But I came to the realization that some things are just out of my control, and if something is out of my control, then I have to pick up my shit, get my shit together, and start carrying on with my life. Because if I can't do that, then I'm not helping myself -- and if I'm not helping myself, then nothing can.

I'm sorry if that sounds harsh, but it's true. Nobody can help yourself better than you can, and to get over this girl you need to start focusing on you, and what you need to do in your life to get to where you want to be. If you want to talk, PM me. I'm always here to help.