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samanthaaxoxo69420
June 28th, 2017, 04:39 PM
Could you help me with something ?

I wanna see if my boyfriend would cheat on me or not.

Could you message him on skype ?

If your'e willing to help, send me a private message so we can talk :)

Thanks guys.

jamie_n5
June 28th, 2017, 04:51 PM
You are really putting someone in a tough part and situation asking for something like this. I sure hope that you know what you are doing and have thought it out. I would say if you don't trust your boyfriend then break up would be my advise.

samanthaaxoxo69420
June 28th, 2017, 04:57 PM
I trust him...I just wanna make sure I don't lose him. Like he's the perfect guy.

ClaraWho
June 28th, 2017, 05:05 PM
Nobody is perfect.

If you don't want to lose him, trust him. If you are inventing OTT schemes to test him rather than just trust him, it will never work. Relationships always involve risk, he is taking that risk with you. He is with you right? That should be enough. Clearly he has given you no reason to doubt him?

Give him the same respect and chance he is giving you.

~ Clara

Coolteenboy
June 28th, 2017, 05:45 PM
Any good, healthy, lasting relationship is built on trust. Relationships involving friends or lovers cannot survive without trust. No trust, no relationship. Ever. Period.

That is why, statistically, 85~90 percent of couples who "survive" a cheating event, never get the full relationship trust with each other back, and and up breaking apart again irretrievably within a year.

Its not what u wanna hear, but IMO, it seems obvious if you are going to this length to "test" him, then its over before it even starts.

Barbara.
June 28th, 2017, 05:58 PM
I trust him...I just wanna make sure I don't lose him. Like he's the perfect guy.
If you really trust him why would you want someone to Skype him to see if he would cheat?
Love comes from the heart as well as trust.

ChloeF
June 28th, 2017, 06:24 PM
I trust him...I just wanna make sure I don't lose him. Like he's the perfect guy.

If you trust him, why are you asking someone to do this?

Living For Love
June 28th, 2017, 06:33 PM
This is not puberty related. :locked: