View Full Version : Girl friend wants to see me naked
smoothboy
June 20th, 2017, 04:44 AM
Hi me again, as I stated before I am 15 and as bald as a baby, my problem is that I have not told my girl friend and now she want to see me completely naked, I don't know what to do or say to her, I look really stupid naked.
Gooner18
June 20th, 2017, 04:53 AM
Have you started puberty yet or is it just that you haven't grown hair yet?
smoothboy
June 20th, 2017, 04:57 AM
don really know my voice has broken
TWDjacob
June 20th, 2017, 06:46 AM
I mean just tell her. Some girls don't like hairy guys.
niceguy44
June 20th, 2017, 08:14 AM
Hi
Welcome to VT.
Tell your girlfriend the truth. Tell her you have no pubic hair and that you feel embarassed.
refrigeratorx
June 20th, 2017, 09:56 AM
Telling her you're embarrassed is good because it's sharing a vulnerability with her. She should feel good that you had the confidence to share that with her. And if she would react badly to anything with your body. Then she may not even deserve you. You are together for a reason and if she can't look past this, then it was shallow in the first place.
So either show her or tell her. And it's up to her to react appropriately. I'm sure it's fine. And as some people said, many prefer it looking more like that anyways
ShineintheDark
June 20th, 2017, 10:32 AM
Only do what you're comfortable with and nothing more. if you really want, explain the situation to her
Cassius16
June 20th, 2017, 10:56 AM
It's possible your girlfriend won't care or mind. If you're worried you should talk to her
azurzg
June 20th, 2017, 11:34 AM
Indeed, do what you're comfortable with. But I am sure she will find you hot. Body hair is not a requirement for looking good
mick01
June 20th, 2017, 01:03 PM
Ya dude, be open about it with her. It might really have a positive effect on the honesty and intimacy in the relationship. But like others have said, if you really don't want to do it, tell her you're not ready for that.
zzzzzzzzzz
June 20th, 2017, 01:42 PM
Tell her the truth. If she does like you, she will respect you for it
Gooner18
June 20th, 2017, 07:20 PM
I'm sure she won't mind, a lot of girls don't like hairy guys
Harrier
June 20th, 2017, 07:26 PM
Well she's your gf. I'm sure you thought at SOME point she would want that! But ya, just like she shouldn't do anything she doesn't want to do, YOU shouldn't do anything you don't want to do. And like others posted, she will get all emotionally and hot because you are being honest and vulnerable when you tell her that you self conscious about your lack of pubes.
pconnor
June 20th, 2017, 08:18 PM
I don't have any pubes yet. I also don't have a GF. But you shouldn't strip naked in front of anyone if you are not comfortable.
ska8er
June 20th, 2017, 08:26 PM
Tell her to go first and c if the
subject changes-if not then u
can compliment each other.
Falcons_11
June 20th, 2017, 09:53 PM
I would tell her first before you strip naked for her. She may not even care if you haven't gotten your pubes yet. Honesty is the best policy.
Doggo
June 20th, 2017, 10:35 PM
Don't worry she will prob just think you shaved
Just JT
June 20th, 2017, 10:59 PM
Just go with it. IMO no need to explain anything. If/when she sees you don't have what she thought maybe, it'll show more of who she is, and she'll know more about who you are to.
It's not about hair pubes and all that ok?
It's about opening up to someone allowing yourself to be vulnerable with someone you trust and not feel judged for what ever
If your not ok with all that then don't do it, cause your not ok with it
But I think she's ok with it, just saying, girls like that shit bro
Tommy Lion
June 21st, 2017, 09:00 AM
Be open and honest to her. She is your girlfriend. She is not in love with body hair, she is in love with you.
Impressionist1910
June 21st, 2017, 09:22 AM
Hi me again, as I stated before I am 15 and as bald as a baby, my problem is that I have not told my girl friend and now she want to see me completely naked, I don't know what to do or say to her, I look really stupid naked.
Everyone looks stupid naked.
Besides, the first time is always the most anxious.
Just go for it and see what happens.
SamMystic
June 21st, 2017, 12:57 PM
Who cares if you look stupid naked? A girl wants you naked. Gotta say it dude, congrats!
tvsigeys
June 21st, 2017, 07:30 PM
Lucky you, assuming she'll be naked too
Harrier
June 21st, 2017, 07:39 PM
Everyone looks stupid naked.
Besides, the first time is always the most anxious.
Just go for it and see what happens.
Well I don't agree that most people look stupid naked lol
Hicham azad
June 21st, 2017, 07:57 PM
Don't Hide Anything , She Supposed To Like You Whatever You're :) .
Hockeystar2020
June 21st, 2017, 10:12 PM
If she realy loves u she wont care about how u look naked
Roc a fella
June 21st, 2017, 10:14 PM
Do what you're comfortable with
biboy_unsure
June 21st, 2017, 11:49 PM
you look only what she wants to see. if she really is your gf she'll love it. we're all unique and are what we are.
INACTIVEchaosphere
June 22nd, 2017, 12:49 AM
Hi me again, as I stated before I am 15 and as bald as a baby, my problem is that I have not told my girl friend and now she want to see me completely naked, I don't know what to do or say to her, I look really stupid naked.
If this girl is really important to you, trust her enough to see you at your most vulnerable.Often people actually like the look of smooth skin more, I shave my pubic hair and so do a lot of people of both genders. If you want to hide parts of yourself (physical or mental) from someone you want to be in a relationship with, you have to ask yourself why and whether or not they're a good fit. I highly doubt she'll dislike your lack of hair, not if she really likes you. If she does, then she's not one you'd want to be with anyway, but I don't think it'll be a problem. Just be glad you have someone who actively wants to see you naked. A lot of us are still having trouble getting that far with someone and it can hurt.
Perc.man_1
June 22nd, 2017, 07:06 AM
In my opinion, you shouldn't show her at all. We're supposed to wait for marriage. I know that people will get mad at me for this, but sex was made for our enjoyment, but only when we are married. You shouldn't show her at all.
jamie_n5
June 22nd, 2017, 10:30 AM
Talk about it with her and tell her you feel embarrassed for not having pubes yet. Is your penis still very tiny too or has it grown? You could both get naked together and show each other that way.
Hockeystar2020
June 22nd, 2017, 05:59 PM
who care she loves u
zac2004
June 23rd, 2017, 04:58 AM
how big is your dick ? most guys shave anyway cus it makes it look bigger, and because girls like sucking a dick better when shaved, no hair to go in there mouth.
Chris298
July 16th, 2017, 11:02 PM
Hey dude, honestly, you should never do anything that you truly dont want to do... But... It is a pretty huge accomplishment for a guy to get a girl to the point where she wants to see him naked. It is also pretty reasonable to expect that you would be getting to see her naked too... If you wanna do this dont let your lack of pubes bother you. If you are really concerned, talk about it, but personally I think she will be turned on by your confidence by just going for it and not being afraid. If she asks you, be honest, dont lie and say you shave, she could probably tell and lying will not get you ANY bonus points... And also on a side note, once you guys get naked, pretty much anything can happen at that point, so it could be huge for your relationship, and confidence... And if for some reason she does have a problem, she is not the girl for you, and its better to find out sooner than later.
nklarke
July 17th, 2017, 12:21 AM
How old is she? Maybe she doesn't have neither.
Franciscofixe
May 21st, 2018, 11:38 AM
Hi me again, as I stated before I am 15 and as bald as a baby, my problem is that I have not told my girl friend and now she want to see me completely naked, I don't know what to do or say to her, I look really stupid naked.
Say that you shaved.
Dalcourt
May 21st, 2018, 11:43 AM
Say that you shaved.
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