kylehall350
June 15th, 2017, 07:15 PM
Ok, so my problem is pretty straightforward. Would it be creepy to message a girl I have never met before in person? Also, I don't have any problem finding a 'partner' in real life, just thought I'd put that out there so I don't seem super desperate haha.
So a few weeks ago I got one of those ''Your Facebook friend is on Instagram'' notifications. Now I don't add people on Facebook who I haven't had some form of contact with in real life and I did not recognize the girl in the notification. So I checked out her Facebook and turns out we went to the same elementary school (I'm in uni now) and had a decent number of mutual friends. It also showed that we had been friends for a pretty long time, so I figured I must've added her/she must've added me when I first got Facebook.
I followed her and she followed back. I was pretty curious to see if I remembered her (which I didn't) if I saw what she looked like and she didn't really have any pictures on Facebook. So I glanced over her IG profile and this girl is GORGEOUS. Now obviously I have no idea what her personality is like, but I'd love to get to know her better. She goes to the same university as me, but I've never seen her around campus. I've asked the aforementioned mutual friends about her, but most of them don;t remember her either and those who do don't really talk to her anymore. So I have no way of being introduced to her :/
Now my question is: would I come across super weird and creepy if I messaged this girl even thought I've never met her in real life (or if I have I can't remember)? Is this my only option in terms of meeting her? Or do you guys have a better idea? This is the first time I'm ever considering doing something like this, but I really wanna talk to this girl and I'm drawing blanks when it comes to how I'm supposed to meet her.
Thanks for any help you guys might have :)
UPDATE: So I messaged her and got left on rewd�� But she didn't unfollow and or block me lmao so
So a few weeks ago I got one of those ''Your Facebook friend is on Instagram'' notifications. Now I don't add people on Facebook who I haven't had some form of contact with in real life and I did not recognize the girl in the notification. So I checked out her Facebook and turns out we went to the same elementary school (I'm in uni now) and had a decent number of mutual friends. It also showed that we had been friends for a pretty long time, so I figured I must've added her/she must've added me when I first got Facebook.
I followed her and she followed back. I was pretty curious to see if I remembered her (which I didn't) if I saw what she looked like and she didn't really have any pictures on Facebook. So I glanced over her IG profile and this girl is GORGEOUS. Now obviously I have no idea what her personality is like, but I'd love to get to know her better. She goes to the same university as me, but I've never seen her around campus. I've asked the aforementioned mutual friends about her, but most of them don;t remember her either and those who do don't really talk to her anymore. So I have no way of being introduced to her :/
Now my question is: would I come across super weird and creepy if I messaged this girl even thought I've never met her in real life (or if I have I can't remember)? Is this my only option in terms of meeting her? Or do you guys have a better idea? This is the first time I'm ever considering doing something like this, but I really wanna talk to this girl and I'm drawing blanks when it comes to how I'm supposed to meet her.
Thanks for any help you guys might have :)
UPDATE: So I messaged her and got left on rewd�� But she didn't unfollow and or block me lmao so