Getting sister to stop being cruel to me

[Body odah Man]

All info and help is VERY welcome

Hey guys,
I threw this out in the Chatroom last night but I decided to also post it in VTF for some more feedback. Basically my sister is a bitch. She dislikes me for some reason and I have no idea why, She has changed the passwords to 2 of my online internet accounts, hidden some of my books, posted on my Facebook, hit me and other stuff and is responsible for my mom starting to make em take girly-scented baths. Do any of u VTF'ers know how I can get her to be nicer to me or, at the very least, get her to help me convince my mom that the baths r unnecessary?
If so I thank you greatly.

[Miserabilia]

Don't do anything cruel or violent back,
just fix the the problems with her, don't try to get revenge

[Silver700]

I have friend's who are in the exact same position as you and I can tell you one thing, do NOT try to get revenge on her. That will make the situation 1000x worse than it is right now. Try to talk to her, to ask why she dislikes you so much and try to work it out that way. If that doesn't work, why not talk to your mom? Maybe get your mom to do something about it. Hope this helped and hope you find a way to fix the situation!

[Body odah Man]

Don't do anything cruel or violent back,
just fix the the problems with her, don't try to get revenge

I don't know HOW to fix things tho. Thus this thread and poll.

[ImAurora]

I voted for spraying her with Axe, but that's mostly just because it seemed like the most fun :D

Seriously though, talk it out with her. Find out what her problem with you is and why she's doing what she's doing.

[Body odah Man]

I voted for spraying her with Axe, but that's mostly just because it seemed like the most fun :D

Seriously though, talk it out with her. Find out what her problem with you is and why she's doing what she's doing.

Yeah that's why I put the poll option up there-it would be awesome :). Sadly would probably be very counter productive. I could try talking to her but it's hard when she takes it as an excuse to spray her deodorant at ur ass or torment u in other ways

@everyone
If you voted other, what do you think I should do?

[JamesSuperBoy]

I really do not know -- try telling here to grow up - be more mature -

[radsniper]

it's the other way around for me my brother sprays me with all sorts of stuff has shot me with his airsoft gun and always made me do the dirty work and i could not do anything about it because he knew all my dirt i did shoot him with his airsoft gun but it didn't hurt him

now he's married and now the tables have turned a bit because i read his diary and so he does some of the dirty work now

if his wife is involved we can make her do most of the work

i call this pretty even so just wait it out GOOD LUCK

[Ethe14]

Talk to her and see if you can find out why she's doing that to you. If that doesn't help talk to your parents. Otherwise I'm not sure what else.

[Croconaw]

You can ask her nicely to stop. There has to be a reason why she would do these things to you.

[Body odah Man]

@Radsniper
aich that does suck. Still I'm kind of hoping for a more...speedy solution. Glad you managed to turn the tables in the end tho
@Ethe 14
I can try talking to mom about it, but that'll be as a last resort I hope cuz if it fails sis can become a super bitch :(

[Living For Love]

First, make sure she doesn't know your passwords, I know how boring that can be. Have you ever tried asking her why she dislikes you so much? There must be a reason, either that or she's just stupid (sorry for saying this). Brothers and sisters are supposed to like each other, always, it's normal to have arguments, but stuff like this is quite weird. If nothing works, talk with your parents, they can help you somehow.

[Body odah Man]

I can try. Thanks

[NeuroTiger]

First, make sure she doesn't know your passwords, I know how boring that can be. Have you ever tried asking her why she dislikes you so much? There must be a reason, either that or she's just stupid (sorry for saying this). Brothers and sisters are supposed to like each other, always, it's normal to have arguments, but stuff like this is quite weird. If nothing works, talk with your parents, they can help you somehow.

I second your point of view,

[PurpleLips]

just ignore her, and stop taking baths:P

[SciMassKid]

I feel for you man.

[Body odah Man]

just ignore her, and stop taking baths:P

Lips, I find you a nice person and all, but could you try to be a bit more helpful.
Ignoring her is fine and all, but it's hard to ignore a sibling who lives in the same house as you. You interact daily with each other.
As for stop taking baths, I don't have a choice. Mom wants me to take em and if I don't I lose so many privileges that I end up getting coerced into taking it anyway. Or sis starts spraying me with her perfume til I'm so scenty that taking the bath doesn't matter. I need a way to solve this conflict not useless advice. Thank you

[PurpleLips]

Lips, I find you a nice person and all, but could you try to be a bit more helpful.
Ignoring her is fine and all, but it's hard to ignore a sibling who lives in the same house as you. You interact daily with each other.
As for stop taking baths, I don't have a choice. Mom wants me to take em and if I don't I lose so many privileges that I end up getting coerced into taking it anyway. Or sis starts spraying me with her perfume til I'm so scenty that taking the bath doesn't matter. I need a way to solve this conflict not useless advice. Thank you

Sorry..

[Body odah Man]

Sorry..

NP. Would u mind trying to post something that could help tho?
Thks :)

[PurpleLips]

NP. Would u mind trying to post something that could help tho?
Thks :)

Try to talk to your sister, and maybe your mum.

[ArtemisLianCrock]

Often parents and siblings don't realise that what they are doing is cruel or unneccessary. My mum thinks that she's the nicest person in the world. If she won't listen to reason then it can be quite frustrating. Avoid telling your sister anything that your mum would disapprove of, or that can be used as blackmail.

[Body odah Man]

@^
You,miss, are quite wise. Yet you haven't given me much advice on fixing things
@Lips
I shall try. Thank you

[Gamma Male]

I would just go right up to her and ask her why she hates you so much. Maybe cry a little. If she stops acting mean and tries to explain, good. And if she acts like a cold, heartless bitch and continues to be mean, there is something seriously fucking wrong with her. No offense.

[Body odah Man]

I would just go right up to her and ask her why she hates you so much. Maybe cry a little. If she stops acting mean and tries to explain, good. And if she acts like a cold, heartless bitch and continues to be mean, there is something seriously fucking wrong with her. No offense.

Good idea. I'll try that-u have good advice. Thanks :)

[hockeyfan]

She sounds very immature. An idea I can offer about passwords is use something u know. Example ur cars name, but spell it incorrectly. That way if ur sister guesses she won't get it right.

[Body odah Man]

@^
Clever my friend :)
I'll do that

[Rockshe]

Involving the passwords change them to something only you would know and put a password on your computer. and i would suggest talking to her about why she act's so mean and tell her you are upset over it.

[Hope Is Here]

Confuse her. Act like you had never did before. But everything must be with a happy note. Photos in FB? Pffff ! Comment your photos and laugh with your sister. Hug her and tell that you love her)She is an older one? How old is she? It is just about age, she will be ok in a few years. She will be your best friend soon. Make friendship, not war.

Hi from Ukraine)

[backjruton]

I know it's not very helpful but I still think you should spray her with axe as it's a funny option :kitty: :D

[Body odah Man]

I approve of funny things so you're forgiven. Thanks for posting man :)

[Curious.kid]

If my little brother did all of that to me I would tell my parents and he would get a spanking.

[workingatperfect]

From the stuff I've read from you before, she seems to not like you because she thinks you're unhygienic, so.. idk, maybe you could work on that? It would at least stop the perfume thing. How old is your sister by the way?

[Body odah Man]

If my little brother did all of that to me I would tell my parents and he would get a spanking.

my parents don't do corporal punishment sadly so that isn't an option. Can still tell them though :)

From the stuff I've read from you before, she seems to not like you because she thinks you're unhygienic, so.. idk, maybe you could work on that? It would at least stop the perfume thing. How old is your sister by the way?

She's 3 years older than me and I know she thinks I'm unhygienic but don't see how that can elicit such extreme reactions. That's what I don't get. Anyway, how do you think I could work on the being more hygienic thing?

[conker0118]

you could ask her why shes doing it. if that doesn't work do some things to her. tell your mum she was doing something she shouldn't like kissing a boy depending on age, giving a hand job ect

[Body odah Man]

you could ask her why shes doing it. if that doesn't work do some things to her. tell your mum she was doing something she shouldn't like kissing a boy depending on age, giving a hand job ect

Fight fire with fire eh? Cruel...but VERY effective :)

[conker0118]

well it would show her that he's now push over

[laurakitty]

Ahaha omg youre so cute them baths r good tho and u could buy her chocolate n say when u nice to me u get chocolate id be nice to u for chocolate

[Body odah Man]

Ahaha omg youre so cute them baths r good tho and u could buy her chocolate n say when u nice to me u get chocolate id be nice to u for chocolate

2 questions:
1, why are the baths good?
2. How am I cute?

The chocolate idea sounds damn good though-I'ma try it, could work :) :)

[Jack russell dad]

Yea, my sister tells be i don't belong in my family. Just ignore it till u move out

[Body odah Man]

Yea, my sister tells be i don't belong in my family. Just ignore it till u move out

WOW. That right there is some serious shit. Soz dude

[Body odah Man]

Any other opinions?

[Camazotz]

Any other opinions?

What have you done since you made the thread to try to get her to stop?

[Body odah Man]

Tried reaosning with her about how we're family and we should help each other, tried to bribe her, no luck

[Camazotz]

Tried reaosning with her about how we're family and we should help each other, tried to bribe her, no luck

Have you tried telling on her? I mean, that's kind of a last resort option, but it sounds like you've tried just about everything else. If your sister still doesn't get it that you had to use desperate measures to stop the abuse.

I don't really know what else to do; I've never had this kind of conflict with my siblings. I usually don't condone revenge or anything because it usually makes matters worse, but if all else fails, you might have to just fight fire with fire.

[Body odah Man]

Have you tried telling on her? I mean, that's kind of a last resort option, but it sounds like you've tried just about everything else. If your sister still doesn't get it that you had to use desperate measures to stop the abuse.

I don't really know what else to do; I've never had this kind of conflict with my siblings. I usually don't condone revenge or anything because it usually makes matters worse, but if all else fails, you might have to just fight fire with fire.

Soz for the long time not posting, kept forgetting to. I'll try ur thing then-revenge. I know a few methods

[Body odah Man]

Any1 else got advice?

[Stronk Serb]

Any1 else got advice?


Draw a penragram with the number 666 on her face while she is sleeping and tell your mom she's in a cult. Try that as a last resort.

[sqishy]

Draw a penragram with the number 666 on her face while she is sleeping and tell your mom she's in a cult. Try that as a last resort.

That is quite the resort

[Body odah Man]

Draw a penragram with the number 666 on her face while she is sleeping and tell your mom she's in a cult. Try that as a last resort.

Hahahahahahaha, oh that WOULD be sweet. I could try that, I have seen a lot of Yugioh in my day.

[GeekGirl1]

Draw a penragram with the number 666 on her face while she is sleeping and tell your mom she's in a cult. Try that as a last resort.

Or even better, he could put the hammer and sickle on it! Tell his mom she's a communist!

any toher help?
I think you should try to be extra nice to her for like a week, and see what happens.

[Stronk Serb]

Or even better, he could put the hammer and sickle on it! Tell his mom she's a communist!


I think you should try to be extra nice to her for like a week, and see what happens.

Nononono! Draw a fasces and write "Viva il Duce!" and say she's a fascist

[Body odah Man]

Nononono! Draw a fasces and write "Viva il Duce!" and say she's a fascist

Hahhahaahah, that one's good. My mom dislikes fasces so perhaps mom will get pissed at my sister :)

[Body odah Man]

Or even better, he could put the hammer and sickle on it! Tell his mom she's a communist!


I think you should try to be extra nice to her for like a week, and see what happens.

I can...try, but not sure if that will help.