I look like a girl

[ieric]

I'm a 13 year old guy. I have blonde hair, blue eyes and really long lashes.. Like really long,, my eyebrows are naturally very femenin looking and I'm just so tired of it! People come right to my face and ask me if I'm a girl of a boy. I get called Erica all the time. I have short hair but people just call me lesbian. What can I do to to look more masculin

[AlexOnToast]

I get this all the time. I'm small, not particularly manly looking and the whole long hair and androgynous name thing really doesn't help.
All I can say is, maybe wear some manly looking clothes :/
A t-shirt saying "I'm Male" might be pushing it a little tho XD

[jacobjb10]

1st thing, just ignore the people who are nasty to you
2nd thing, be your self you cant help if you look like a girl its just how you were created. I'm sure your a good person inside so just be your self.

If your that worried then cut your eye lashes a bit shorter and shave your eyebrows to more of a masculine shape. :-)

[Miserabilia]

I have long eyelashes too.
I guess there's not much you an do besides wait untill your face changes and turns more masculine

[nklarke]

Wait until you will start having face hair and don`t shave it.

[Fireangel]

I'm a 13 year old guy. I have blonde hair, blue eyes and really long lashes.. Like really long,, my eyebrows are naturally very femenin looking and I'm just so tired of it! People come right to my face and ask me if I'm a girl of a boy. I get called Erica all the time. I have short hair but people just call me lesbian. What can I do to to look more masculin

Nothing to do dear ieric, maybe after some years you looks like a young man. Be patient please, at your age most of the kids looks like girls.

[JayP09]

You could change you hairstyle or what you wear? Just suggestions if you're not happy with the way you look. But to be fair, wait a few more years so your body can develop (facial hair, growth spurts etc) because you never know.

[Dalcourt]

I look very girly,too. Most people think I'm a girl when they see me. I really makes me angry... but it can't be helped I guess. I don't feel like dressing in a different style or anything.

The only thing you can do is ignore those comments...and hoping to grow out of this looks when you get older.

[Body odah Man]

That sucks dude :(
Sadly I don't rlly got much advice-maybe start wearing opensleeved shirts and show ur pit hair?

[Wyatt 13]

Dude is maybe the way u acting not the way you look.
I'm gay BTW.

[itsthat0n3kid]

1st step: tell people to fuck off, don't let them bother you, if they're that insecure about themselves that they have to pick on others appearances they aren't worth the time.
2nd step: there isnt really anything quick you can do to fix it. When puberty progresses you'll look "more masculine". Just dont let people get to you, all they want is a reaction. take that away from them and theyll stop doing what theyre doing.

[squares]

do manly shit, tell people to fuck off, that should work

[Plasma]

The awkward middle school years... I dont miss them. You'll grow out of it eventually. I'm not really sure what you can do until then though. Alex's idea of dressing differently might help though

[eggy101]

Same thing with me at that age, i poked like a stereotypical lesbian. As you go through puberty your facial features will develop, face with either chisel more and facial hair will eventually set in. Nothing to worry about bud.

I don't want to be rude to the person that said it but DO NOT CUT YOUR LASHES!! There long for a reason, they protect the eyes and you should leave them.

[Celtics]

The awkward middle school years... I dont miss them. You'll grow out of it eventually. I'm not really sure what you can do until then though. Alex's idea of dressing differently might help though

Who does miss them? Just be yourself also, who cares what other people say or think.

[Dracarys]

Well like others have said,
First ignore them and then try growing some hair on your arms and legs.
Starting working out a bit,I might help

[tom17]

If they call you a lesbian, show them your wiener, man! :lol:

[SciMassKid]

Wait a couple of years.

[wicky]

Put on some weight ----Fastest way to look masculine for a teen is to put on some weight.....It does not matter even it is just fat. I too used to look sissy in my early teens. Then by 16 years I suddenly started putting on a little..just a little .........Initially I was sad. I lost my washboard abs etc...But suddenly nobody was calling me girlish any more.....I got the cue and hit some high carb foo pretty hard........my waist went from a skinny 26 in to healthy 32 in....I now weigh 64kg from 48kg at 5 foot 10....I now go to beach...go shirtless...my tummy may not have rips it had earlier and may be shiny and plump but that is the normal....added advantage is my butt which was non existent before has now grown to be a really cute bubble butt...my GF loves it too........I met my GF also after I stopped being skinny....