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Hermes96
February 28th, 2014, 10:44 AM
today i clicked the wrong name when trying to talk to a friend on facebook. the link took me to a old friend's wall. now all the memorys of him hqve come flooding back as i looked through his wall. now ny mind is stuck in the past it really getting to me
i havent forgotten him its been three years now but the pain is now back as fresh as it was back then. im trying to find something to take my mind off it but i cant

blarg2011
February 28th, 2014, 11:21 AM
bro... i'm in the same situation... what i do is remember him on happy moments...

it will be 4 years on november... and of course pain is still there... a few months ago i even woke up crying... but the last thing i want to do is forget him... i spend so good times with him, that most of the time, i remember him smiling, and i smile... just focus on the good times

pain never leaves... u get used to it

Serenity.
March 1st, 2014, 03:56 AM
Sometimes it's hard to let go of the past and move on. Things that remind us of past experiences can't always be avoider, either. When you find yourself feeling like this, it's a good idea to get your feelings out. You can do this by writing, drawing, and any other ways to express yourself. It might also be helpful to write your old friend a letter and then rip it up after you're done.

Try to focus on happy times and distract yourself with things like reading, exercising, or taking up a new hobby. I hope you start to feel better :).