Cousin

[SillyPecker]

hey guys. So i am almost 17 and my cousin is 26. I don't know if i can talk to him about guy stuff like dicks sex and mastrabution.. I keep thinking that it would be too weird.. Because of our age difference and that he is all ready an adult.

should i try to talk to him about it or should i find someone else.

If i were to try and talk to him about this how should i start the conversation?

Do you guys talk to your cousins about these things, how old are you,? and he?

[mick01]

Why do you want to talk to him about that stuff? Don't you understand it or do you just want to talk generally about it?
But in any case, it would seem kind of weird to talk to somebody who is 26 about dicks and masturbation. I talk to a cousin about stuff but he's only a couple of weeks older than me.

[Alex_Swim]

Yes, Its Ok, As long as he's OK with it.
But Approach him with I have some questions, I can't ask or feel conferable taking to my dad (or mom) about. See what he says.

Yes, I talk to my cousins, But they are all close to my age 14/19 17/17

[ShineintheDark]

As long as he'd be willing, I don;t see why not

[SethfromMI]

I mean I guess it depends how close you are. to be honest, I would find someone a little closer in age. cousins who are closer in age is one thing. not that it would be wrong to do so, but I don't know. I guess if you have a super close relationship with him and you really want to, then maybe go for it, but otherwise, maybe find someone else.

[Jamiec1130]

If you two are really close, go for it. I would try to find someone you know well that's a little close to your age though.

[ashdaniel]

If you two are really close, age different doesn't matter that much but I will still prefer someone closer ur age.

[SillyPecker]

Thanks for the answers.

[mick01]

Thanks for the answers.

Just curious based on the advice. Are you really close to this cousin? And I'm not trying to be disrespectful so please don't take it that way, but I'm surprised that at 17 you're looking for advice on masturbation and dicks. Hope that's okay to say.

[Coolteenboy]

My best guess is based on how close and open you guys are. If ure close, and share personal, but non~sexual things, ied say thats a door u wanna walk thru, or at least try.

Should i try to talk to him about it or should i find someone else.*
See above. It might well bring u closer with him if u guys have that level of openness and trust.

If i were to try and talk to him about this how should i start the conversation?
Try something generic. Like "dude, can i ask u something? How do you know if a chick wants to have sex" or "hey, ive never bought condoms, but (fill in name......) and me are getting close. Ied really appreciate some advice....." etc. Judge from there where it goes.

Do you guys talk to your cousins about these things, how old are you,? and he?
And yes, Paul is 6 years older thn me. And NOW we share everything. We startted like above.

Good luck! Let us kno how it goes!

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[Monkmk]

Its totaly ok but it depends how close are you I am 17 also and with my cousin 27 have talked about first sex, sexual expiriences, jacking off, we make jokes on those topics but it comes with the everyday talk thats what I mentioned it deppends how close you are

[nicktheman2003]

If your close ten talk to him. It looks like there might be some things that are unclear to you and you want to get clarification. I talk to my cousin, but he's 2 years older than me.
I'm very fortunate that both my parents are very open and I can ask my Dad questions. My Mom has even answered some of my questions.

[messid]

My best guess is based on how close and open you guys are. If ure close, and share personal, but non~sexual things, ied say thats a door u wanna walk thru, or at least try.

Should i try to talk to him about it or should i find someone else.*
See above. It might well bring u closer with him if u guys have that level of openness and trust.

If i were to try and talk to him about this how should i start the conversation?
Try something generic. Like "dude, can i ask u something? How do you know if a chick wants to have sex" or "hey, ive never bought condoms, but (fill in name......) and me are getting close. Ied really appreciate some advice....." etc. Judge from there where it goes.

Do you guys talk to your cousins about these things, how old are you,? and he?
And yes, Paul is 6 years older thn me. And NOW we share everything. We startted like above.

Good luck! Let us kno how it goes!

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i second this...i talked with an older cousin before and started with 'i have a question about girls...' if you start with that or something else simple you can see right away how he will react to deeper questions! if he feels weirded out from just that first question or doesnt really give an answer then you know hes not okay with it, lol. but if he reacts nicely then youre good!

[Impressionist1910]

hey guys. So i am almost 17 and my cousin is 26. I don't know if i can talk to him about guy stuff like dicks sex and mastrabution.. I keep thinking that it would be too weird.. Because of our age difference and that he is all ready an adult.

should i try to talk to him about it or should i find someone else.

If i were to try and talk to him about this how should i start the conversation?

Do you guys talk to your cousins about these things, how old are you,? and he?

I personally would find someone else.
The age difference is one thing, but so is the family bit.
I just wouldn't feel comfortable talking to my cousins that way.
Obviously you don't have those reservations.
I just personally wouldn't do it.

[Roc a fella]

If you think your comfortable with it just talk to him and slowly ease into talking about those topics

[flogrown2001]

I think you should just ask him say hey I dont know if ur cool with it but I wanna talk to u because I trust u and I'm close with u

[TWDjacob]

I mean if your close just have a private conversation with him and say I know your older and probably know more than me so can you help me out because I have some questions