I need some help!

[Jokerkiller897]

Okay so I really like this girl who dated one of my best friends for about a year an a half and they broke up like 2 and a half months ago my heart says ask her out but my mind says don't. I really like her but I don't want to loose my friend. I just don't know what to do!!!

[Seemyheart]

You could talk to your friend to see if he still has feelings for her, if so, maybe wait a little longer.. just out of respect.
If he doesn't, go for it!

[kanine]

I agree, you should talk to your friend about it first. If he feels strongly about it, then wait a little bit and then ask again. If not, then go for it!

[Austoner]

Basically say to your friend, "Hey, I know you and (name) dated, but I like her and wanted to see if you were cool with it if I asked her out" That way it's not like you just went behind his back or anything

[radsniper]

i agree ask your friend as to not offend him

[Dwemer]

There is something called the bro-code. look it up. One of the rules says to never go out with an ex of your friends. I would atleast talk to your friend about it.

[SadLove]

Talk to your friend about it. If he is ok with it, and you REALLY like her go for it. If he isn't ok, even if he is, sometimes it's best just not to. It can feel wrong. Just be understanding and think about why you like her, and things that you don't like

[Croconaw]

I would highly recommend not asking her out. Despite what your friend might say, he does have a problem with it. How would you feel if you were in that exact situation? Try and find another girl you like.

[KansasNavy]

Talk to your friend first. Or at least give him the heads up.

[Troye]

I would talk to my friend first and be completely honest, then depending on his response I would make a decision from there. For the most part a relationship isn't worth losing a friend over.